SEEKING SADIST i am a submissive male, fetish driven - high heels, big hair, tiaras. sounds like i am looking for a beauty queen - maybe one with a flogger? i am a pain slut ... love endorphins, love being whipped and flogged. Unless You are a SADIST, move on. i love to serve - i clean house and do laundry without having to be constantly watched. i also love being locked in chastity ... tease and denial games, sexual frustration. The longest i have gone in chastity is 90 days.