Collarspace

I want 2 get inside his head. I want to make him mine. I want to break down his ego. I want to teach him 2 please me. I want to brainwash him. I want to get him addicted 2 my cum. I want to ride him hard. I want to use and abuse him until he worships me, until he loves me for it, until he begs for more, until he gives me everything I ask of him--mind body and soul. And in exchange hell earn what his submissive soul has ached for his since the day he was born......An Alpha.

With strong paternal instincts, Im very nurturing, protective and affectionate capable of being a strict disciplinarian while still providing emotional support. Pain is typically only used as a means of punishment, and rarely as extreme as found in other types of Ds relationships. The sense of submission and helplessness is more a function of the nature of the relationship rather than physical acts or circumstances.Once trust is established, Im more open about showing my aggressive, primal side. Sex can be intense and rough, involving biting, hair pulling, being tossed around and pinned to the floor or the wall. You may be forcibly exposed and publicly humiliated if I feel the impulse to do so. While humiliation is amusing in and of itself, I do not feel the same way about pain. I consider that more of a tool - for punishment or coercion. But rewards in the of praise and affection will be very common.Over time, experiences will build trust and lead to the deepest feeling of intimacy. Thats the end goal of everything in this lifestyle - I-N-T-I-M-A-C-Y . Anyone who tells you otherwise is probably some asshole with ego issues who gets off on being worshiped. There is absolutely NO place for EGO in this lifestyle - not for the slave and not for the master. It is a difficult concept for a culture that is based on celebrating individuality. But it is an illusion. No one is separate. Everyone is connected. Whether you call it spiritual, metaphysical or just the collective unconscious - it exists and were all part of it... every living thing. The problem is that this gift that we call sentience, the thing that separates us from animals, is what prevents us from experiencing this connection.The lifestyle lets us do many things that society says we, as civilized people, shouldnt. Most importantly it lets us be animals. In the lifestyle, we can have sex that is primal, aggressive and even violent. By embracing our animalistic side, we experience all of the levels of existence that are normally obscured by our consciousness. The constant noise of your own mind falls silent and your instincts take over. Millions of years of evolution drive you and suddenly you are completely in the moment. Nothing else exists. Then simple truth emerges.You are an animal...