About Me

I'm a career driven and goal oriented 37 year old male. I currently work as a Store Manager for one of the largest retail chains in the country, but I have aspirations to move up to District Manager later down the line. I'm not rich by any means, but I am stable, and I can support myself without needing anyone to help me do it. 

I love the goth subculture and everything that comes along with it, so I am more attracted to the types of people who love creepy, weird, or spooky shit. Bonus points if you're into industrial, metal, rock, punk, or electronic music. Some of my favorite bands include Marilyn Manson, AFI, Linkin Park, Motionless In White, A Perfect Circle, Rise Against, Cradle of Filth, Mr. Kitty, 3TEETH, The Cruxshadows, and more! Favorite movies include Sucker Punch, The Crow, Interview With A Vampire, Pans Labyrinth, Under The Skin, Equilibrium, Six Pounds, V for Vendetta, The Craft, Queen of The Damned, Blade Runner, and Repo The Genetic Opera.

I'm also a complete nerd at heart. Some of my hobbies include playing videogames, anime, pen and paper games, Dungeons & Dragons, Magic The Gathering, listening to music, watching horror movies, etc... Basically if it's something you would find at a card shop or game store, there's a good chance I will nerd out on it. One of my biggest passions is retro video games, mainly NES, SNES, N64, and Sega Genesis. I also love reading and have been trying to get into it more. It started out with an interest in classic novels at first in my mid 20's, but now things have shifted more towards an interest in Philosophy and Psychology.

Kinky Life

I've been in the lifestyle for about 17 years as a Daddy Dom to girls who love ABDL, DDLG, and age regression. It's been my primary kink for the longest time, mainly because of the bond and closeness that type of dynamic brings to the table. I love putting a girl back in diapers and treating her like a baby. I'm definitely more caring and nuturing most of the time, but I can be firm and strict as well. For me, ABDL is mostly about caring for her needs, and having complete control over her in the process. Sex is not a main focus for me.

ABDL is my primary kink, but I am into a few others as well. Some of them include Bondage, Spanking, Routines & Protocols,  Humiliation, Straitjackets, Medical Play, Pet Play, Puppy Play, Bitchsuits, Hucow, Cages, Chastity Belts, Orgasm Denial, Hoods, Maid Uniforms, Domestic Servitude, Rubber & Latex, Dollification, Insertion Play, Pussy Stretching, Hypnosis, Bimbo Training, Ahegao, Stepford Wife, etc..

I'm a Dominant that enjoys exercising my control over a submissive. I'm not a sadist, but I do try to take as much of her independence away as possible. I want someone who is needy, clingy, and dependent both emotionally and physically. I love to micromanage her life and make decisions so she doesn't have to think about them. I'm the type of Dominant that will find more pleasure from watching her squirm around in her bondage for hours on end, rather than using her sexually. Again, it's about control, not sex. But I am certainly open to a sexual relationship with the right individual.

What I Seek

I'm at the stage of my life where I am looking for a life partner first and foremost. Someone who is submissive at heart and is willing to share some of these kinks together. The ideal woman would be an adult baby that loves age regressing and being taken care of, but I am open to teaching someone about it if they are completely new to it and willing to learn. The most important qualities I look for are open mindedness and the ability to communicate your needs and desires in life.

I am looking for someone that wants to incorporate kink into every aspect of our lives, and yet still maintain that level of practicality for when reality gets in the way. I am NOT an in the bedroom only type of Dom. This is a lifestyle choice for me, not part time play. I am looking for someone that wants a live in 24/7 relationship, and I am willing to relocate for the right person. But you must be prepared to show that you are real and genuine.

As a Daddy, I love changing her diapers, bottle feeding, cuddling, dressing her up and picking her outfits, giving her bubble baths, reading bedtime stories, watching her play in her playpen with baby toys, feeding her in a high chair, and doing all the things that bring out that little girl inside her so she can smile and be happy. I have a full size adult baby crib that I got custom made, and I'm looking to eventually decorate a whole nursery for her as long as she is open to this kink.