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Mentally and physically fit single white male, I am seeking a special woman to explore a binding relationship.

The ideal submissive should be able to express her limits, wants and desires, as I dont consider a submissive a doormat. Ideally, we should be compatible in both vanilla and BDSM worlds. Limits are expected and I believe in working into things slowly as we get to know each other. She should be willing to expand her limits both mentally and physically. We must both be open with each other about our expectations andor desires, but discretion is also important in public and outside the relationship.

Players, wannabees and those without genuine intentions need not apply. Not to be rude, but I have heard enough bovine scatology from so many posers, liars and game players on this site that my BS meter has now gone off the scale. Dont waste either of our time if you are not genuine. I may sound jaded, but I am still here and know that special one is out there for me.

Also, if you cannot a full sentence or write thoughtfully and pique my interest, do not waste each of our time. I am educated and intelligent but also down to earth. I seek the same in my quest. She should be as comfortable in jeans and flip flops or in a nice dress and high heels. I am polite, honest, honorable, sometimes outspoken but also discrete when I need to be. I know when to be compassionate and when a more firm hand is needed.

My special abilities include being very good with my hands both in pleasure and work. My work requires a unique balance of creative and logical thinking.

Contrast is the essence of life. Without contrast, there is only a gray drab experience. It may be a cliche but life imitates art in this way. One cant see light without dark, pleasure without pain, night without day.

The one I seek should be well rounded and be broad in her interests. She should be willing to expand her interests in the vanilla and BDSM arenas. I enjoy tennis, golf, fishing, boating, hiking, gardening, reading, woodworking, carpentry, oil painting, travel and photography. Many tell me that I am very much an articulate Renaissance Man.

At first, I often appear conservative. Ah, if they only knew -) A sense of humor is very important in life, play and work. Taking responsibility for ones life and actions seriously is important to succeed in both life and relationships. However, without the contrast of laughter at ourselves and with others this leads to a dull existence.

For purposes of discretion, I dont have a picture posted yet and can send one to you if you respond and I can tell you are serious about your intentions and not just a poser. I trust this long but thoughtful profile has caught your interest and you contact me soon.

I am also on Fetlife voochco