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I'm looking for the man I can be all of myself with, sensual sadist, madcap artist, unrepentant heathen, etc. ? I have two cats, two jobs, and tend to be quite busy, but never too busy for those special to me.?

I'm poly-oriented. You must be comfortable with me sharing my time and attention with others.

I do not answer chat requests

If you choose to contact me,

please do not address me as Mistress.

Now that that?s out of the way?

I?m not looking for tributes, gifts or financial backing. I am not looking for a free maid service. I am not looking for someone to use and abuse.

I am looking friends, play partners and the possibility of something more long term in the future.

I have been a Domme for over a decade. I am passionate, creative, demanding, affectionate and many, many, other things.

I enjoy spanking, flogging, bondage, cbt, and sensation play, just to name a few. There is much more.

I am not into cross-dressing, sissification, forced feminization or anything involving bodily wastes.

I tend to say what I mean and mean what I say.

I am looking for people who:

?Know how to celebrate the everyday.
?Understand and appreciate the value of discipline.
?Are passionate about life as well as BDSM
?Are committed to exploring the lifestyle; know that it?s someone you are, not something you do.
?Hold old fashioned values like loyalty, courtesy, honor, chivalry and honesty
?Are willing to put in the time and effort required to learn.

And enjoying the arts, good music and good books is always a plus. :)

If this is who you are, or who you?d like to be, you are welcome to contact me. I will answer as many sincere inquires as I can.

Ms. Betty

5/10/2017 11:33:05 AM
Finally back!!! Missed you all!
7/29/2010 5:28:25 AM
Today is moving day.

I am really looking forward to it.

Thanks to everyone for their support.
7/4/2010 11:11:08 AM
Ok, so now I am getting divorced.

And also moving. (Same town, same apartment complex even, just a different unit)

This are, to put it mildly, complicated.

I am not currently in a position to start anything new with anyone.
2/7/2010 10:33:08 AM
Looks like everything is getting back to normal here.

Thank you to all who sent good wishes.
1/31/2010 7:27:25 PM
Got word of a death in the family tonight. May be away for a few days. Please  bear with me.
1/20/2010 9:41:01 PM
My desktop died yesterday. Good timing as we had planned on starting to build me a new one in the next few weeks anyway. In the meantime I'm using a spiffy little netbook.  Please bear with me. It's a quirky little thing. Entirely unrepentant and willful. It's taking a little getting used to.
1/15/2010 4:49:48 PM
Hm. Does anyone else find that having to spend time with someone you'd dearly love to beat and can't brings their inner sadist out with a vengeance around others?
1/3/2010 4:50:27 PM
Please note:

It is in appallingly bad taste to email someone every few months to see if they are divorced yet.

Wondering if by any chance they've been widowed is downright ghoulish!

I regret to inform you that my husband and I easily make room for each others' kinks and fetishes and still manage to be happily married.

Live by whatever moral code you feel you need to, but do not expect me to do the same. The one I have suits me fine, thank you.

Have a nice day.

Ms. Betty
11/21/2007 10:06:59 PM
About chat requests...

I am very sorry but my computer just will not play nice and accept them.

Ms. Betty
11/7/2007 9:26:10 PM
back again for awhile. Sorry I've been gone so long and out of touch everyone, we've had some family illnesses and other headaches, but life is finally a bit calmer.

Catching up on messages. Bear with me!
9/11/2007 9:52:41 PM
Well, that might explain alot...I just discovered that my profile was somehow set for me being male. It keeps switching back to that. No idea why.

Sorry for the confusion, folks.

Ms. Betty
Theplaysub
 
 Age: 27
 Washington, Washington D.C.