My nick refers to the statement 99% angel but oh that 1%.
I am dramatic, chaotic and disruptive.
A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive a woman's submission; a dominant man is not so obliging
I am flawed, I have a smart mouth and am a PITA. I love to laugh and I want the Man in my life happy. I also want to be the reason he looks down at his phone and smiles, then walks into a pole. Please be sure you recognize, I am not "a" submissive. I do not crave to submit to a man, I crave his dominance, which in turns results in my submission.
A dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to want to take it off you.
I enjoy wit and humor and muscles, and tattoos, and dark penetrating eyes, and dark personalities well sometimes, and well if you have abs, i call dibs on outlining them with my tongue. Oh and suits, and jeans….. Just sayin'
We are friends. You laugh, I laugh. You cry, I cry. You jump off a bridge...I get in my boat and come save your silly behind.
I ache for a deep relationship with the man who owns me. He owns her whether they are alone or amongst a crowd. He controls her and has authority over her no matter who is around. Its not some segmented idea of vanilla and M/s but a fully integrated concept where it easily exists amongst the norm as it is not about the trapping but is about the connection, his hold and mastery. If you differentiate between being normal and being dominant, we won’t work. This isnt a game but building a relationship as friends, i want to be his best friend and he mine, it takes time and its FUN! it will be a real relationship and life. Its not that deep but is that deep. Lets get to know each other, if this concept is meant to be- it wont be hard, overtly complicated or a pretense- it just will be.
He creates through his dominance, control and mastery, the environment in which she exists to reach and maintain his expectations and standards.
His will is such she can only be what naturally compels her.
i am always suspect of men who claim to be dominant but expect the woman to lead.
He exudes confidence. I, as a woman, knows he possesses more than confidence, he possesses power. Power that comes not from practice, but that formed as a building block of his character.
He has an aura of confidence, with the hint of natural power that simmers beneath the surface, ready to be unleashed when necessary.
I am also looking for a man who is in shape and likes to lift and work out. S Yes, I am a hypocrite, in full disclosure, I am fat though attempting to lose fat and get into shape. My goal for this is by May, 2017. Id love a man who is capable of helping and enjoys working out with his girl. helping and yes demanding she reach the standards he holds himself to. I follow keto. My discipline is more the issue than anything else. Taps my brain- i've the knowledge just start out well then get stressed or i dont prep etc. i know this means my playing field will be smaller as i understand not being attracted to fat. But who knows, maybe when i'm in shape, you may raise an eyebrown and whisper - damn girl! 😘
i am also interested in a dom or just a friend, who may be able to help me focus and learn more about lifting weights -as i love lifting - to lose this fat. If interested, let me know how you see this working.
He understands that despite her need to submit to him -- losing control of herself into his authority, she will struggle from time to time in an attempt to deny her needs. Some things I look for:
- Someone who doesn't have a dick pic on the internet, that to me is not a dominant man, but a desperate one. However, iffn you wanna show some abs, chest and arms and hands -- I won't object lol
- He isn't here to cheat on his girlfriend or wife
- Intelligence, this goes without saying I am sure.
- Humor - ohh yes, I love men who enjoy laughing and some silliness in his girl.
- Successful in his chosen career - to me this is simply part of the package.
- Self-esteem and confidence
- age between 38 and 50
- Preferred height taller than me, if possible
- flawed- I don't want perfection. His being flawed in some way is helpful lol as loving someone whose perfect is a lot to live up too.
I have a dominant personality, this doesn't mean I am or want to be a dominant. Nor am i a switch. I need ownership- i will not humor you with submission because you want a title of dominant. If you are incapable of owning your woman, dont expect her to do it for you. If you think my commemts are regarding what you do- rather than who you are- you've missed it. Please do not message me with hi or similarly less engaging comment. Intelligence and the ability to take initiative is so damn sexy and is a huge pull for me, it amazes me when people keep them hidden as they are important qualities in a man.
finally, guys, if your profile begins or the majority of it is bitching, moaning, and whining about the "fakes," or women not being or doing what you want- please dont comtact me- to me, thats not how dominant men handle issues. And its a huge, turn off. I'm looking for men who act like men. I already have a pusst, i dont need another. Thanks.
