I am a confident, calm, college educated and dominant that is into relationships which are built on trust. I like my mind engaged by someone interesting... Serving me means being intelligent. I do expect a submissive to be able to hold a normal conversation.. I think a duty of a submissive is to be able to deal with a dominant in all aspects of life. Not just inside the playroom in the BDSM fantasy. There is no static list for what a person does or doesnt like to do. You will never find someone who likes and dislikes every item that you like or dislike.

While I did enjoy going to parties and being in the lifestyle in the past. Dont want to do the same things as I necessarily did in the past.

I am looking for a stable relationship. The man or woman I choose for a relationship should be local so that they may be available to serve me as I feel they best can. You will treat me like I deserve to be treated that means with respect and dignity that any woman deserves and expects. You must have stable career, honest, gallant, intelligent and be emotionally stable and I cannot stress this enough please be single if you want to have any kind of relationship with me.

Just a note--- I wont ask about what you did with another person in an email. Please respect my wishes and dont tell me.

I am at first a person, then a Woman, then a Dominant. My likes and dislikes are under the interests tabs on the profile. I dont expect someones likes and dislikes to match up exactly with mine.. Variety is a part of life of life for me.

At area munches I have do not really see an unattached submissive slave male. I always see them after they have gotten into a relationship with someone. So if you want to find areal relationship with a Dominant Women you can start there. If you wonder why there are so few Dominant Women. Well they turn down men that put their fantasies first or think that because they are into BDSM that they want to hear a sob story about your wife not giving you sex or what went wrong with past girlfriends. Dominant Women turn you down for the same reasons Vanilla Women turn men down.

If you are not what I am EXACTLY looking for. Don't message me. I won't make any exceptions.