A friend recently droped this bit of wisdom in my in box and I wanted to share it with everybody else.  "Open and honest communication is the only way to resolve issues, if that fails resort to violence." 

I never though I would have to do this, but here I go.  DO NOT ASK ME FOR MY MESSENGER!!! I WILL NOT GIVE IT TO YOU!!! YOU HAVE TO EARN IT!!!! 
You may ask "how do I go about earning your messenger?"  We will talk on here for a while so we can get to know each other and see if we have things in common.  Then if it feels like we have things in common then and only then will I give you my yahoo id. 
Hugs Siren