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krahug

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**Who I am**
Stats 38 years, 1m73, 72 kilos. I live in Amsterdam, speak Dutch and English fluently and my German is pretty good. I have a job and am studying.

I am bisexual, happily so, but being submissive is even more important to me. As kink isnt exactly mainstream yet, Id like to keep this part of my life private - hence the lack of photos in my profile. Of course, I do have more available for those I connect with.

I have a job I love, and am studying for a Masters degree in my spare time. I have my life in order, am a stable, calm, considerate person and yet I know something is missing.

At a very deep level, I am know I am submissive, and I desire to give up control over part of my life. Doing this is tough I find giving up control over parts of my life both terrifying and exhilarating, but my thoughts always return to it. I would love to explore this further with you, and I have a very open mind as to how that may be done

**Who I am looking for**
I think life offers many worthwhile pursuits, and my submission is one of them - but not the only. If youre interested in being a controlling influence in my life, in teaching me to obey , in making me give up control, but also guiding and nurturing me, please get in touch!

In return, of course, Id be a willing slavesubpup, eager to learn about you, happy to work hard to improve myself, open to being trained as *your* slave. I am NOT someone who likes to top from the bottom if this profile gave you that idea, I would (humbly) like to correct that. I tend to think a lot, which may have influenced this profile. In fact, I need to think less and, instead, obey my Dominant!

I value trust and honesty greatly. We both need to be able to trust each other (including with our privacy) and of course communication is key in any good relationship, but especially in one with a power exchange.

** What I am looking for **
I think the connection between a Dominant and herhis sub is more important than individual fetishes or kinks, especially as I am eager to experiment and try new things. So I dont have a shopping list of things I need, or want to do, but of course I have interests. So, here are some things I know I enjoy, but I consider less important than a real connection. I am a sucker for pain, bondage, being restrained, nipple torture, CBT, tease and denial etc. I have also experimented, and enjoyed, both puppy play and sissification - but those are just small aspects of my submission

My core kink, if I have one, is chastity I adore wearing a cage, giving up control over my physical pleasure. I also know I am disciplined enough to not need a cage chastity for me isnt about being unable to masturbat, but about is about making me submissive. It acts as a constant reminder of my submissive nature I cant do anything without being reminded of my Dominant, and I love that!

So far, I havent met a kink or fetish I didnt like and I am always looking for more!

I am looking for something serious, definitely not short term a relationship of two (or more) people where trust and control play a large part, as well as shared interests.

** Summary **

I am incredibly eager to serve a fun, devious and intelligent Dominant. I value honesty and privacy and will of course return the favour. I have served several Dominants in the past, and learned a lot from them. I consider myself mature and adult, and am patient, eager to learn and experiment, push my boundaries and limits.

If you recognise yourself in words like trust, privacy, communication, and take BDSM seriously, I would love to hear from you, especially if you live in or near the Netherlands. Id also be interested in meeting like-minded people, even if only to chat.

TLDR if youre the person who needs a TLDR, please dont get in touch. If you think I am arrogant please consider the option that I simply know what I want and need - or get in touch to teach me a lesson. On the other hand, if you read all this, we probably have a lot in common - so do please reach out to me!

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4/21/2018 5:37:57 AM
Just joined Collarspace, looking forward to meeting like-minded people. 

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storymiss
 
 Age: 58
  New Jersey