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There just has to be someone else out there on the sub side, who is in the same situation as me here, on the dom side.
Someone who is in a vanilla marriage, but desperately needs what she can get from a discreet D/s or M/s relationship. A woman who is willing to start out “on the side”, but, IF….IF it works out right, would be willing to start anew in that D/s, M/s relationship.
That is where I am. I am pretty new to BDSM. Only a couple of years ago did I discover what I really am, a Dominant. Actually, quite accidentally. But now, here I am, dying to fulfill my needs, for control, sex, bondage& training. Just as I know there must be a submissive out there who is seeking to be controlled, ravaged, pain-inflicted, bound, humiliated or some combination, thereof.
I don’t have all the answers, but I have been told that I have a knack for this. I am a VERY patient dom/master. I have a way of delivering just the right amount & combination of what my sub needs.
Anyway, that’s my story & I’m stickin’ to it!
You can contact me if you are serious. I prefer IMing somewhere besides here.
-JM
BDSM, master/slave, dom/sub, the kinky. Real/time as well as on line
Dominant ISO obedient sub, public as well as private. Equal opportunity Master. Adults only need apply."Its only kinky the first time."
"A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains but a True Master inspires."
"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the one worth suffering for."
Something that I found on another profile, but I thought it bears repeating:
There is something about~
Being pushed up against a wall, face first~
Cheek resting on rough wallboard~
Breath caught in your throat~
Listening to the growling in your ear~
And trying to remember your own name~
There's something about being~
Pushed up against a wall~
Your back flat up against it~
Staring straight into eyes that see through you~
Swallowing hard~
Waiting for your heart to start beating again~
There's something about~
Being made to crawl across the floor~
To a seated Man, staring into your eyes~
Not letting you not look at Him~
Not letting you stumble~
Drawing you to Him without a word~
Trembling, a whimper caught in your throat~
There's something about~
Being pulled up by your hair~
Feeling that hand slink up your neck~
Into your tresses, close to the scalp~
Grabbing, gripping it, guttural sounds emitting from His lips~
The pain not nearly as strong as the urge~
To cry or bite a hole through your bottom lip~
There's something about~
Being bent over the back of a chair, without warning~
Without pretense, without question~
Having your skirt flipped up, cool air hitting hot skin~
Your cheeks blushing, with the same color of your ass~
As He warms it with the striking of the palm of His hand~
The tears you cry not cooling you~
The tears you cry because He has found you~
There's something about~
Those words He uses~
Those names He calls you~
Those phrases meant to elicit a response~
And you do respond~
All of you responds~
And your body betrays you, always~
There's something about~
Being thrown down and taken~
Not against your will~
For your will is to be there~
To please, to submit, to offer, to relinquish~
And you cry out for breath, for more, for Him~
And you know you are home~
There's something about~
Being dragged into the shower~
Forced to your knees~
Hissed at for silence~
Growled at to be still~
And awaiting the flow~
That you know~
Marks You as HIS~
There's something about~
Kneeling quietly beside Him~
Your body reddened, coated, tired~
Your mind silent, for once ~ for a time~
Your head bowed, your eyes closed~
Your lips quivering as His fingers touch you~
Your submission, unquestioned~
Your Peace at Hand.
Author Unknown
BDSM Beattitudes -- Blessed are they
(Author Unknown)
Blessed are the Dominants,
whose willingness to exercise
responsibility for a submissive
is the foundation of our Lifestyle.
Blessed is the submissive,
whose only true joy and
desire is to serve.
Blessed are the Tops
whose careful and knowledgeable
application of pain can make us fly beyond ourselves
and reach peaceful heights of self-awareness.
Blessed are the bottoms
who cheerfully and trustingly
yield their bodies and becomes
the Instrument for a Top's virtuosity.
Blessed are the Masters and Mistresses
who realize the
great gift they have been given
and dedicate themselves to utilizing
that gift with love and care.
Blessed are the slaves
who find that One special
person they can trust wholly and completely
without fear so they may yield their hearts, minds, bodies,
and souls without reservation.
Blessed are the Teachers and speakers,
who impart
precious knowledge to us all.
Blessed are the newbies,
may they know only joy in
this Lifestyle.
Blessed are those whose trust has been broken,
may they find those who will help them heal,
and may they once again build up the courage
to extend trust once more.
Blessed is the Collar,
the external symbol that binds
two hearts and minds together.
Blessed are we all,
for we are all bound together by
the ties of our Lifestyle,
which will forever separate us from the world at large.
Submissive Creed
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realise that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. i will not try to manipulate my Master. i will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. i will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfil His wishes and desires. i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, I know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, i will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where i have been i will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Master, i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority, i know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which i do not share.
I am a submissive woman
~Author Unknown
i find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive
to my Master in a loving relationship.
i am not weak or stupid. i am a strong woman,
with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life.
i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
i will look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never
will i be more complete than when He is with me.
i know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul
with His strength and wisdom.
He is everything to me, as i am everything to Him.
His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me.
Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy…
His punishments may be harsh, but i accept them thankfully,
knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.
If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him
and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of O/our relationship.
The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt,
those are all parts of this relationship.
My body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am.
No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes,
and because of that i hold my head high.
If He says i am His precious jewel,
then i am that…a beautiful, sparkling gem.
If He says that i am His pet, His slut, His whore, then i am that..
as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be.
My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can.
i have no secrets from Him… for secrets are a thing that would
keep me from being more perfectly His.
Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself…
and i do not want walls.
His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own,
but they are lessons He has decided that i need, and so i learn from Him.
My soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be
when i kneel naked at His feet.
Never a moment goes by when i do not feel His presence,
be He miles away or standing over me.
If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul,
worse punishment than any lashes could be.
The anguish of my soul that i feel when i disappoint Him
is harder to bear than any physical anguish i feel.
i am grateful that he cares enough about me to spend
His time and energy so freely on me.
i have the easier job, to feel, to experience,
to let myself go and abandon everything to Him.
i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously .
i am a submissive woman.
i am proud to call myself that, my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly,
and can only be given to the One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.
Only to my Master who has that strength, will i give myself fully,
because i am strong and proud.
i am a submissive woman
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