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SO it seems that more people are electing to only take messages when they are on the site themselves. By hiding their profile they cut any communication outside of the time they are actually using the site.
Frustrating to prep a message and pics only to have 'Profile not found' pop up when you send it. |
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
99% Primal (Hunter)
98% Master/Mistress
96% Experimentalist
90% Voyeur
85% Non-monogamist
79% Degrader
66% Sadist
53% Exhibitionist
47% Vanilla
47% Owner
43% Daddy/Mommy
3% Girl/Boy
2% Primal (Prey)
2% Brat
1% Ageplayer
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=4643737 |
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So many people posting photos with no idea that Tineye is a thing.
"yes that is me with a cock in my ass" - That pic first shows up when you would have been 14.
"Yes that is me at 30 weeks with my current pregnancy" - That pic first shows up in 2013. If it is you it isn't current so why lie about that?
"Yes that pic is me with two office mates after I lost a bet" - Then why does this video clip show the same scene without your face?
Really, if you want to fantasize just do that and be upfront about it. Don't steal 'honors' from others who have actually done the things you dream about. |
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When it rains it pours - interactions with multiple subs at the same time. |
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So is "I don't understand you(r writing)" the new "Fuck off!" or am I really writing above the ability of some subs to understand? |
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"She has 6 gallons of ass in 5 pound pants and she makes it look fantastic!" |
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So what is the mystery with the word d*e*s*c*r*i*p*t*i*o*n in the messaging function? It comes out as deion for me. |
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Written by a self identified ruebenesque woman.
“Why are men in their 50s, 60s, and even 70s writing to me???? There are plenty of ladies on here who are over 50 who I am sure would be delighted to hear from you -- why insult them by passing them over and writing to a woman in her 30s?”
Which prompted this thought -
I am sure that the question of why ruebenesque women advertise for tall fit males has never come up has it? Why would you overlook big handsome men (a euphemism for male pattern ruebenesque build)? Do you think that your 'birds of a feather...' ideology applies to age alone? It is no slight to older women for a man to look for woman of the age he wants. Or even not considering age if she has the same interests that he does. There are plenty of men that like mature women many of them younger than the women. People like what they like and if that shocks you then you have a whole lot to learn in this game. |
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There are asexual monks that give better head than you... |
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As a Constitutional scholar you are a hell of a sex toy. |
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"Hush, I know what your limits are. I am only going to nibble around the edges of them." |
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"So does being gang-banged fulfill your interest in volunteerism?" |
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This is a test of the BDSM Emergency Alert System. In case of a real BDSM Emergency you would be told where to go, what to wear, and what to do when you got there. |
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One of my experiences with anal was in dominating my lover.
I had fucked her hard from behind until she came. Then, completely on the spur of the moment as I lay atop her, I whispered into her ear "Now I am going to fuck you in the ass." Not a question, not asking permission, just taking charge. There was no reply from her, no protest nor squeal of delight. This was completely foreign to her and I don't think she had ever even considered it an option.
Spread her, lubed her, drove both thumbs into her to work the inner sphincter. When I felt it relax I tried to withdraw the thumbs while sliding my cock into her. Problems with the condom ensued. It was hindering penetration by slipping my cock everywhere but where I wanted it to go. In frustration I finally ripped it off, set the tip of my naked cock against her anus and pushed the head on in. I felt it expand the inner sphincter. Wait. Push. Wait. Push. Not a word from her. Not a grimace nor a twitch. To this day I don't know if she was just shocked by the invasion of her ass or that she liked having her ass invaded.
When all of my cock was in her I started to slowly drag it back out and push back in. Pump it and the next time take a bit longer stroke. About the time that I had lengthened the stroke to the point that just the head was staying inside her I felt her hips move up off the mattress. She was liking have my cock in her ass and didn't want it to go away! Got into step with her so that her hips were coming up to meet me as I was burying my cock into her sweet tight ass. I mentioned to her that she seemed to like getting ass fucked. She didn't say anything but I think she blushed and her hips moved deeper and faster. This caused her already well fucked cunt to pound the mattress. I am sure that she was still tingling up front while I was plundering her backside.
Finally sound came from her. Moans, rising in pitch and falling again. I could feel the orgasm building in her belly. A hand placed on her flank let me feel her abdominal muscles fluttering. Her head was turned to the side. She was glassy-eyed and slack jawed and her nails were driven in to the mattress. At this point I think she had ceased conscious thought and was just riding the cock in her ass and feeling at all the way through her cunt to her clit.
That ass of her's was tight too. It held me the way a drowning man holds a rope. From tip to testicles my cock was massaged by that woman's ass - something her cunt had never done.
Soon she was taking full long strokes at full tempo. More moans, more tension building. I stopped thrusting just to make her back her ass up onto my cock to get more of it in her. I was so proud to see her not hesitate a moment to scoot back and raise herself a bit in order to throw her ass hard onto my cock. Not only did she accept that I was going to ass fuck her for the first time but she was actively engaged in pursuing it for my (and her!) pleasure .
And pleased I was. My cock had never felt this good in a pussy. In my very core there was a ball of ecstatic butterfly wing energy buzzing and building. I was now bent over her raised hips with a hand in her hair trash talking to her about fucking that virgin ass of hers and how much she was liking taking a cock in her ass.
She came, hard. More moaning and her nails trying to shred the sheets. I came right after her. That ball of buzzing winged butterflies burst forth and consumed every nerve in me. I tingled all over, toes to scalp. It was so intense I nearly fell off of her. I lay draped over her feeling my cock throbbing and tingling and still drizzling cum into her ass. It was a defining moment for me. I still can't tell how much of it was from making her take it and how much was the loving glove tight fit of her ass.
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Reading through profiles that want interesting comments only to find that they want 'age-restricted' interesting comments - over age 'X' need not apply.
Just because I am over 'X' age doesn't mean that I am not interesting! Ugh.
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Hmmm. I see that someone has checked my profile, I look at the synopsis and even open their profile and then when I open the 'Who's Viewing Me?' page later I see that they are not listed any more. Why would that be? If a person hides their profile does that take it out of the 'Who's Viewing Me?' page? |
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Roller coaster rides with Chinese harmony balls stuffed in you. What do you think CM? |
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Ha! Still the only Hommedejoie on CM! |
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It occurs to me to ask how often is the submissive that is looking for a 24/7 situation really just a broke slacker with slutty tendencies that is willing to trade sex for three hots and a cot? |
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Random Thought of the Day or RTotD: "I want to pierce your labia with a ring and miniature bell so that when I fuck you I can literally say that 'I rang your bell'."
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Liberty Esse update.
Still using this. Still fun. Even when it slides across the hardwood floor. Apparently made with carpet in mind. I may get a piece of rubber backed carpet to put it on to keep in in place. |
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So many calls by subs for a man that is a true dominant yet no good description of that is forthcoming. Dominance is a wide ranging thing and is used in accordance with the Dominant's ethics. As a sub you must surely have some idea of what behaviour you expect from a dom and what you do not. At least sketch in some of that. Most of the profiles I read actually sound like all the 'sub' really wants is for some one to be insistently passionate about sex. |
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Out for two weeks. Don't screw anything I wouldn't...which still leaves you an awful lot of choices. |
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"She has a voice I would love to fuck." |
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I like my women the way I like my doughnuts - glazed or creme-filled. |
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I like to begin my day with blow-jobs and bacon. I have got the bacon so get busy blowing missy. |
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5/12/2013 12:44:42 PM: why do you admirer someone and not send a message?
I do it because I found that person's profile interesting enough to mark it for future reference. I may write a message later or I may watch their profile for a while just following their adventures on CM. |
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How about this as an idea for discouraging empty profiles. As a member of a kinky meet-up site you only get to see the information from others that you yourself are willing to put up for others to see.
Don't put up your weight? No one elses weight will be presented to you. No location information set out? You don't see where anyone else lives. No likes/loves/lives for data? None for you to judge on either. No pic from you then you don't get to see the pics of others. In fact pics make such a strong statement that it may be good to go one-for-one with that. In other words you only get to see as many of someone elses pics as you have up. |
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I have run into young women on CM that want someone to degrade them, make them into hungry cock sluts, train or break them to do vile nasty things. And then they get upset that I ask them questions, that I probe their sexual history, that I want to know what type of person they are.
I do those things to get an idea of what they know, what they have done, and what kind of person they are. And the essay below is why.
From Septimus on that Other kinky site:
The Truth About Kinky Women
This was written in response to a post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties. (Also available here
.)
You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That's wonderful.
Let me ask you something:
- Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says "I'm a guy. I'm looking for a girl. If you're a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?"
- Suppose you're into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say "I'm a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I'm looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting."?
- Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say "Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?"
Every time you post on here asking for people to "help you out," that's exactly what you're doing.
You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she's somehow different from a "normal" woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.
Submissives aren't submissive to everyone
You'll hear submissives say "I'm submissive, but I'm not your submissive." No matter how many times you've read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.
Kinky women are not whores
Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them "whore," but they're not sex workers. They're not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)
Kinky women are not easy
Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.
Kinky women are not objects
Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.
Kinky women have feelings
Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she'll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference? |
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naughtylady7 seems to be a front for a sexy dating site - at least that is who spammed me with an invitation to see her over there. Oh and her pic belongs to a nude model which I doubt NL7 is. |
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I appreciate proper spelling and punctuation, especially since I am occasionally given to grievous excesses with English. Doesn't turn me on, but, the part of my brain wired for appreciating civilisation - it gets a hard on. |
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My plan for what to do with a big lottery win - set up the Salon de Joie School for Wayward Women. So all you women that want to be made into Master's sex toys can enroll there. ;) |
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I keep getting pinged by female dominants from Yep.hookup. I just have to laugh at that. |
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I wonder how many women on this site go through the same learning curve in regards to posting pics of themselves? It seems that pics are the thing that will boost unsolicited dumbassery the most. They then remove the pics to get some relief, get past the idea of politely answering each message and then give up on answering each message based on its merits. Finally find or give in to the temptation to use the mail controls or just leave the site. Anyone have a guess (educated or not) as to how many orphan profiles there are on this site? It seems that the management really doesn't want to clean up any of it. Which makes me wonder if profiles ever do actually delete. |
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http://oglaf.com/submission/
Oh this made me laugh and think of CM. |
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Ah CM you amuse me so - especially with random juxtapositions of profiles. Case in point - HugeTitBabe right next to tinysoftbreasts in my search feed today. I just find such things funny. |
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Hmmm. Interesting tidbit about searching by distance. The results are being truncated. I am pretty sure that there are not exactly the same number of kinky women the same distance from me for every distance listed. Secondly the distance search is constrained by the state field. So while I may search on distance within Indiana I won't get those that list Florida as there state but that have a distance from me of 1 mile. Distance is given by comparing zip codes I have been told so any result that is anomalous like the example is the result of writing down a state for public viewing and a zip code that is not part of that state. Some people may have figured this out and are spoofing the algorithm for better personal security.
Kind of shows how much action I am getting right now if posting technical details of the CM site is the highlight of my evening. |
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Another in the series of 'humbled women' has come to light - Kajol34. Text very much the same as Kajol29 and 30. Pics are different. The mystery deepens. Or broadens. Nothing new has come to light just another datapoint.
Update - lital26 has disappeared to be replaced by lital27. Same face, same verbiage (as far as I can tell -it is a wall of text). The change seems to be so that the number keeps place with the age.
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So it occurred to me that in all 12 areas of interests that you can check off to describe yourself and what you are looking for on CM that there is a glaring omission.
WHY THE HELL IS THERE NO CHECK BOX FOR ORAL!
In fact there isn't one for sex at all but not having one for fellatio/cunnilingus seems like a silly oversight given the number of women that fess up to loving it. Did the site creators just consider it not kinky enough? It may not be but then neither is chess or badminton. Oral may be very mainstream but that doesn't mean that a person is good at it or a connoisseur of it.
Most importantly I can't search on that interest to find play partners that value it or show others that I do.
So for the record - I like giving oral to women and getting it from them. Eh, no surprise but at least it is mentioned now.
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Something ain't right....
Rareloyalsub, lital26, and mariane31 all have long personl bios and they all have substantially the same bios. In fact they have much the same verbiage plagiarized either from each other or the earlier iterations produced by findingmyself32, kajol 29 and 30, and betti31.
I have written these people about this and basically received no adequate explanation for the similarity in the bios. Findingmyself32 actually said that kajol 30 was her sister but declined to comment on the sibling status of kogol29.
Oh, and early this morning the three of them; rareloyalsub, lital26, and mariane31, logged off in sequence together. Pretty strong evidence that they are all run by the same person. But to what end? Is someone trying to see if different women with the same bio will get different responses? These bios are not the usual online fantasy fair either. No "Hi! I am kinky, how will you tie me up?" nonsense. They go to some length to present the woman as stable, succesful, and for the most part not yet involved in any kink. Rareloyalsub seems to be the exception to this. |
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Esse update: Neat piece of furniture. Comfy. With a small coverlet or quilt over it it makes a nice reading spot. As for sex it is very supportive and doesn't collapse as some products do. It will take 400+ lbs on it with little deformation. The small insert that is a slice of the curve of a cylinder is a fine little addition on its own and has been used several times to position hips juuusst so.
With out it the well opens up. This is a place where you can place your feet and sit on the small hump and it will allow you to bow your head over a set of genitals that are sitting on the big hump and appreciate them.
With me in the well the Lotus position (Woman astride) becomes very well supported. She can have her feet on the floor or the Esse and really push. With my back against the big hump I am upright enough to play with her bouncing breasts with out straining to do a stomach crunch with a woman sitting on me. I may try this with both relaxed and reclining.
With her over the big hump I find that the Esse is too short. I can see why the platform has a market. I may try to build a platform to raise it and see what happens.
I am also interested in seeing how the restraint option cover works. I may pop for it to find out.
One thing I did find odd is that the red cover is not colorfast. Moderately warm water used in cleaning up a spill left the washcloth stained red. Wash separately! |
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Perving through a search of 'Joined" subscribers in my state I see that today 7 beautiful women joined all of them 123-128 miles away. I could be wrong but I suspect that someone is making a bunch of profiles for no good reason. Other clues - syntax and grammar just aren't 'Hoosier' enough. |
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I like thrift stores. Rummaging around in stacks of other people's past consumption. Marveling at what they they throw out and pondering what ever possessed them to buy this or that thing in the first place. At one store I turned a corner and in the furniture section there was a Liberator Esse. This is a premium piece of sex furniture with a lot of applications in my life. See it here - http://www.liberator.com/eng/product/esse/10049
It was coyly marked as a "Yoga exercise chair" - well you can certainly do a number of yoga positions on it and I might get to do some Tantric stuff with it. The staff did not seem to know at all what they had! I had to resist the urge to tell them "You know this is really a sex toy, don't you?" It was marked at $90.00 and today was half-price day so I snatched this gem up. I will let you know how it works...
Might actually buy the kinky conversion kit for it. |
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https://.com/users/137685/pictures/10864320
I wonder what ever they could mean by that?
<Apparently CM has been censoring journal entries. F3TL1f3 in front of the .com. And this behaviour may be what they meant.>
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Movie idea - Participants in a BDSM online community come to the shocking realization that members are being replaced by increasingly faulty simulations of members. What happened to the real members? Who is doing this? How much kinky sex can be packed into such a film? Who is cast for the leads? What stereotypes get used? Catch phrases? Title? Discuss. |
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Toothache. Percocet. May not be responsible for what I say tonight.... |
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Double standards - Men are often caught in a double standard concerning normal sex. They are expected to have experience but are castigated for visiting prostitutes to gain it and parents certainly don't want their daughters to be some boy's training wheels. Likewise boys learning from cougars is frowned upon as 'inappropriate age relations".
I see much the same in BDSM profiles. Submissive women wanting Masters with experience. None of them are saying "Come here first timer -let me show you what being submissive is all about." How can they expect to get experienced Masters if they aren't willing to help give experience? |
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Do Asian Bisexual women get the most friend requests? |
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Been a long weekend with lots of driving. New driving past time - Eyeing rest stops and other places for suitability for semi-public play i.e. under the noses of the unsuspecting public. |
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How many people with a profile on CM have a sibling that has a profile on CM as well?
(9-3-12 At least one CMer responded that they do have a sibling on here! Cool.) |
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Fetch water, chop wood. Repeat. |
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Things that make you go "boing!"
Finding the empty packaging for a tube of Anal-Eze in the trash of a residence of a very sexy Mother-Daughter pair of MILFS.
Ladies, if you have to resort to Anal-Eze you are doing it wrong. Here let me demonstrate... |
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SlaveMyra has some very nice artwork on her profile and at her own site. Go ask her for the password. |
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Kink without sex is just kind of pointless to me. If you like to be blindfolded, tied, spanked, waxed up, wetted down, suspended, caned, thumped, pierced, and set on fire but still can't see your way clear to engaging in intercourse, fellatio, and sodomy - well *I* certainly won't be having a good time And that is what I am here for. |
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Cutebabydoll19 is a huge fan of Bollywood sensation Tamannah Bhatai. She is such a huge fan that she uses pics of Tamannah's as her own when playing by email. This of course calls into question whether CBD19 is cute, 19, or even female. When asked to talk about why she was doing this she hides behind the block button. Well maybe that shows that CBD19 is 19! |
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eyecatchingname has left CM and I feel the poorer for her leaving. Her journal was whimsical, light and breezy, literate and several steps in front of the usual bitching that is indulged in here. It served to allow us to know her mind a bit. And lets not forget that she was teh hot. |
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Naughty and nice list-
Oh NastyNina! - It is so not nice of you to ask for anyone to message you with tales of how they wish to use you and then set your mail to trash those messages. If you have a preference in gender or age or favorite peanut butter you should state it up front.
Eyecatchingname continues to humourously (at least to me) relate the goings on in her life. Drop by for a read and make some comments - with the newly broken leg she could use the cheering up. |
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Quizfarm BDSM test meme - Thanks to subtotry for the lead.
Exihibitionist/Voyuer - 100%
Experimental - 86%
Dominant - 75%
Sadist - 57%
Switch - 54%
Submissive - 39%
Bondage - 36%
Degradation Lover - 25%
Masochist - 18%
Vanilla - 14%
Not sure which questions give a switch response. I am going to try several other quizes just for fun. Any one have a line an actual Psych test for BDSM? |
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Hmmm -Just noticed I was blocked by LoveHowl. No idea why.
ION I opened CM and there was a splash page with a gorgeous girl's profile. Entered my password and typed in the name on the profile - and No Profile Found pops up. WTF? I can be teased with the profile of Heartshapedass05 but i am not allowed to actually see it? |
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Had my first really bad message experience on CM with sweetkittengirl. Toxic, ill-informed, vulgar, and unable to cope civilly with having her very narrow views of relationships discussed. For the record not all poly people limit their sexual activities to just their polymates. Nor are all swingers "whores out to f**k anything that moves". Finally, "polymongay" isn't a word at all, at least not that I can find. Anyone know if this is a portmanteau that is making the rounds? 
I won't put up with the uncivil and ignorant and I don't have a problem with pointing them out to others so they may steer clear. |
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First a thank you to all of the people that have responded to my emails. I am trying to establish connections in the CM community and I have enjoyed hearing from others about how things have been going for them.
Secondly I briefly saw a buddy request for an IM service pop up and I suspect it was from someone here. I thought that I had OKed it but no new buddy shows up. I would ask that if you tried to contact me please do so again and I will see if I can get it to stick this time.
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