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I have recently moved to the Walla Walla valley and am looking to find some new friends. I am not really so uptight as what follows might sound. I have had friends in the lifestyle tell me that I am "kinky as an old garden hose." I like munches, socializing and people watching. Psychology intrigues me, trying to understand what makes people tick and use that in D/s. That may be why the following sounds so academic.


I rather dislike this form of introduction as I am not one to be pigeon holed by my own description or anyone else's. So please ask, don't assume.
My body is all man and I am not looking to change that. I am transgender but don't have an alter ego or female persona. The masculine constraints of society are just too cramped for me so I choose to acknowledge and explore my feminine side as well. I am not a "crossdresser" or a "sissy", though a night of drag can be quite fun. I don't bother hiding my maleness and rather enjoy the display of contradiction. Besides I just love corsets too much to not enjoy one for myself. Though I am open to the friendship with men and the possibility of learning and play, I have no sexual interest in men. I am very interested in a thoughtful Dom\Domme that would be willing to fulfill the role teacher or mentor.

I am generally dominant, though in a more subtle and less egotic way than might be common. I am creative, I enjoy a variety of kink and know that there is a wealth of pleasure and wisdom gained at both ends of a flogger or leash, and I refuse to be limited by ideas or roles. I do enjoy bottoming occasionally, however in the long term I am looking for women who identifies as slave, submissive or switch looking for a primarily submissive role in a relationship. I am serially monogamous and would like to find someone who fits my vanilla life as well. I am active in the outdoors and generally fit, though poorly disciplined at it. I can run a half in 2:30 with a month of training and get it down close to 2 flat in about 3, but I am not a "runner." Prefer dirt trails or a good hike, love to be out in the winter as well.


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5/4/2009 2:41:22 PM
I am very curious about Shibari and other rope work.  I have been to one demonstration/teaching a while ago in San Diego by Jap Rope but don't remember it too well.  I would like to find some one in the Vancouver WA or SW washington who could show me the ropes.

3/22/2009 1:02:57 AM
Contemplating BDSM and spirituality tonight.  Talking with a friend about the male and female,  the Shekinah.  Serving to take and taking to serve.  Not a theory or a dogma, more a vista, a muse.
It seems that many want to submit to take, to take freedom from responsibility, freedom from stress, they want a Daddy dom to kiss away their booboos, to make them feel like a princess,  or someone to whip them into a nebula of orgasmic endorphines to escape the realities of life.  A Dom can take as well, take pride by humiliating, take power by abusing.  True spirituality is about giving. Not giving out of obligation, or giving to get, but giving to place another beings good ahead of one's own.  So how does BDSM become spiritual?? 
Only when one becomes their own can they truely give themself away.  Courage is not just that something is done in the face of fear, but more that it was done having counted the cost. A Dom gives by taking, taking responsibility for the walfare of his sub. Taking the stress of life, taking the chatter of doubt, of question.  Taking away the image, the ego.  Giving the sub the space, the peace, to truely blossom and become herself.  In acknowledging his gift, witnessing her self and his sacrafice to her, she gives all she has.  She gives her new found self to him, not to get more, for she has found herslef and needs nothing more; rather to continue the giving.  

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chiara
 
 Age: 25
 Mesa, Arizona