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It seems like a lot of women on dating sites of all sorts are all about getting to some easy life thats all about living in extra-yuppie-expensive houses, wine and cheese, campfires and sunsets, or travel to exotic places. I dont really do any of those things regularly, just occasionally. Are you interested in becoming a better person or doing something good for others, and not just out to just be a better sub or degrade yourself or limit yourself? That is what I encourage and can enable in you.



I work in teams on things that have the potential to help millions or billions of people. While my life is more than comfortable, I do not focus on that easy-living stuff - it seems trivial compared to what I should be doing for others in our society. If you would like to be doing something more worthwhile than lollygagging around wasting your life away - if you are what some call service oriented in the right way - you could help with me with one or more of the following things.



For example, I have some farm- and food-related businesses Id like to get started. So there is some marketing (selling) work to be done that I just do not have time to do. Even doing housework for me would be helpful, because the cooking part of it would be the research for the food business.



I am designing a new medical product and a software service around it. Here there is some office work to be done (filing, writing, internet research like an administrative assistant might do, not dictation and typing like some secretary from the last century would do).



Another project I have going on would benefit from investigating legal issues related to a domestic violence and a rare serious mental health situation. (No, it is not me.) This kind of work requires more than casual interest or education in the topic if you want to help, but not necessarily a college degree.



Perhaps you would like to help me construct some educational projects for junior-high or high-school age kids? I do not even know where to start on this one yet, so its pretty open-ended at the moment. But, if its the kind of thing you might like to do, lets talk about it.



I have a day job that pays the bills easily enough. I have some rather technical hobbies (computers, telescopes, tractors, instrumental classical music). Sometimes I am so busy I cannot keep it all organized in my head. So, I would love to have a partner that organizes my life, schedules some social events, decorates my houses, makes some minor travel arrangements (I do not think I will be travelling outside the U.S. any more), does some shopping (wait, wait, that is shopping for things that *I* want, not for things that *you* want - ), helps me study my online classes (you do not have to understand the topic to be helpful), shortens my essays when they get took long, and keeps me warm at night.



OK, do you remember back a few paragraphs where I said I was busy? Now you should probably understand why. Your mission, should you decide to accept it, is to team up with me in a way that lets us do more than either of us could do together, and enjoy doing it. Complex? Hard to figure out what I am really getting at? Yep. I would not have it any other way, though, because this is the real world I am living in, not some easy-peasy dream life.



I do not have a pre-determined goal about long-term vs. short-term relationships, friendships vs. intimate relationships vs. marriage, etc. Were all in different phases of life and on different schedules, so we fit together however we fit together and I am good with that. Being a guy, though, I admit to having an occasional interest in uh, relieving frustration once in a while, if you know what I mean. Its not a big part of life, but its not completely nonexistent, either. In a favorite fantasy, I have an intimate friend who seriously fights me every step of the way when I push her towards the bed, but does not really mind when she loses in the end, and comes back the next night to do it all over again. Its a good thing its just a fantasy, eh?



I am not ever out to truly hurt a lady, but if the trust has been built, then I can give bare-handed kings or use a light flogger in a bit of a massage mode. Its generally for the pleasurable aspect, enough to get enhanced sensation, not enough to damage tissue, but I can use it for discipline or limit-testing where that is valuable. I would enjoy getting to know someone who can get to that subspace feeling through king or flogging or something similar, or at least find someone who would like to try.



Overall, I am living a peaceful, meaningful, rewarding, fulfilling life. In my way, I am out to change the world, and enjoy doing it. I am not very interested in artificial emotions, games, explicit roleplaying.



Well, that is a bunch about me and the kinds of things I like. What about you? Tell me something you would like me to know about you, or something you spend your time on, or something you just think about but have not gotten involved in yet.


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12/30/2017 8:45:46 PM

I've been hearing comments off and on about how cold it is since October, and I always say "this isn't cold - wait 'til January'. Well, we didn't have to wait. It's already 20 degrees below zero out there for the second night in a row. That's cold. That's the temperature that cars (with carburetors) can sometimes fail to start, even if they're tuned up properly. And that's not some flimsy wind-chill excuse for a temperature, either... it's the real deal. Wind chill temperature isn't real. It's what your exposed skin would feel like IF you were outside, in the wind, naked, and soaking wet. Which you're not.

Well... umm... oh, hang on a minute... I just got an idea....

 


11/27/2017 8:42:05 PM
I enjoy getting to know shy, quiet ladies.  But, I'm also very busy, and don't always get around to making "first contact" when I should.  If you're shy, or just don't know what to say, but think you might be interested, just send me a quick message that says "I'm interested".  Nothing else.  I'll take it from there, hoping that that will eliminate the barrier.

11/17/2017 12:01:49 AM

The days are short, the nights are long.

It's cold outside, but warm by the fire.

It's dear-hunting time in Minnesota again.


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MissAlexia
 
 Age: 26
 Houston,Texas, Texas