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Currently have a female roommate, who is very into this lifestyle, but she has had negative experiences with Posers, non-lifestyle type idiots who were just posing in the Dom roles because they wanted to take advantage of sincere submissives. 1152017

She and I will be helping each other, with our profiles, with our photos, and help each other not be taken advantage of poser ding-a-lings. We are not interested in being a subslave couple together, in the near future. We are just helping, supporting each other in my current communal artabnormalvery beyond the norm type of warehouse in which we reside. We are exercising together, weight and body modification program.And myself and her, Jaime, are not going to be in this warehouse forever. It is very easy for us to leave, but we are not jumping into any situation without proper preparation, planning, correspondence, established connections, interests and very responsible lifestylelife choices. Her profile will be on Collarspace, Fetlife and other websites.



I am here for correspondence with others, relating to, sharing tips experiences. Also here for a possible future relationship. Realistic possibilities. Involving Real compatibility. Not in hurry.

-------I Am able to leave my life here, in new mexico, after March 23rd, of this upcoming year, 2018. Yes I am serious. And i do not have anything keeping me from a total life of servitude. I posted some, two, recent photos.--





Currently correspondingin contact with the very Genuine.



Primarily interested as the role of a submissive. Or evolving further, depending on compatible realistic possible partnerpartners. Open to different possibilities, combinations thereof. I am experienced in being a submissive, also have some past experience in being a Switch in relationships. Had a small, very-part-time side job as a Dom in the past(My partner at the time was a Full-Time Domme for a while, then a part-time domme, as her job situation changed. She was a full time domme out of a very out of the ordinary turn of events relating to her employment. Most past relationships have had this power-exchangekinkbdsm lifestyle as a part of the mutual interests and activity. On varying levels.



I am open to different levels of a BDSM involved relationship, as well as being pan-sexual, it is about the connection, human interaction, mutual interests, not the sex, looks, surface andor superficial aspects of a person, or people, possible prospective future partners. Dominance, submission, whether it be with another person, a couple andor poly it should be safe, sane consensual- and being realistic according to others lives, andor possibilities- limits others might be experiencing, or have in their current situation. Will it be a mutually beneficial, cohesive effort, between interested people? What is possible, for one person or poly home, not be possible or realistic for others.



I am actually realistically re-locatable, since i have a military retirement.



For the last couple of years I have been seriously considering finally taking the plunge into a TPE, relationship, possibly as a sub or slave. I have been thinking about i all of my life. But also very open to other levels of a relationship one or more possible partners. But not an unsafe situation, relationship -involving wreckless irresponsible play. A Faithful safe sane consensual union.



I have been involved in this type of alternative , different loving my whole adult life. I have been dominant in the past -(because of a partners preference).

-I am a college graduate , prior military, now retired, artist, Art market consultationresearcher.

I am Pan-sexual, it is more about the person, common interests, what potential partners are about doing with their lives. Not relating to the power-exchangekinksexual aspects of the Lifestyle, But In terms of maintaining positive, responsible lives outside of this Alt. lifestyleinterests.

Currently seeking a relationship that is compatible, in interests that go beyond the scopeforum of this website. But power-exchangebdsm is also a mutual interest that is very much a part of common interests. I am open to one partner, a couple, poly, or other possibilities. Depending on compatibility, realistic expectations, goals, honesty, a solid foundation of shared common interests, a realistic potential for future growth, success and mutual enjoyment. Made possible by a consistent high level of effort.



I love service, being productive, stay positive, enjoy making others laugh-and i have been told i am pretty darn good at it, enjoy making others happy. I have been doing a lot of volunteer work Wcommunity Veterans organizations. And for the last 3-4 years been helping some people, with finding possibilities to make their lives better. Almost like a part time, social worker. I majored in sociology besides my art education for my Bachelors programs(B.A.)Have had people stay with me, that needed to. So they could get back into another living situation, or because of a crisis, like suddenly finding their employer went out of business. I provided this assistance Solely to help out. Not because I had ulterior motives or attempting to take advantage of a situation or the person(not looking for kinksleeping partners). It is amazing how good it can make you feel, when a person does move on and appreciates the sincere assistance that you provided.

I do not do one night stands, engage in unsafe-wreckless behavior. Have recent bloodtestsscreening results, hiv negative, no other social or medical diseases.



I do not go out much. Only Frequent a very private social club. That is extremely selective in accepting members. Not a kinkbdsm type organization. It is not affiliated with a larger nationwide group. Just real,positive,responsible and great people.

Dont watch TV, would rather listen to inative radio programsmusic while working on things. Listen to most music. Lean towards music a person can realistically think while, and work while listening to.



-- Limits scat, no wreckless irresponsible play-(partners I have not known, no proof of blood testing).



Humans crave companionship, acceptance, love, intimacy and more. Do they seek and court possible partners in a realistic manner? Who can tell.



It is hard to be objective about ones self and a relationship one might be in. Takes real effort.

signing off for now. hope everyone finds what they might be looking for.



-flashmarker (this handle has nothing to do with being interested in flashing, or being a flasher. it is a characters name from a very old cartoon series. Not a recurring major character either)








At the heart of submission is the choice to submit and the option to say No. The submissive decides how much authority they will cede to another, how much control theywill bow to, and what ects of thier life will surrender to the dominants command. Submissive power exchange is about choice about the option to decide how one feels about a demand and what one is going to do about it. At any point that the sub is not comfortable with this arrangement, it is within their rights to say No, Im not going to do that, and this becomes a signal to the couple that they need to renegotiate something. It does not completely derail the power dynamic between them.

A submissive chooses to submit and has the option to say no in at least one ect of their life.

A submissive who is controlled in large tracts of their life their sexuality, work, dress, social habits, etc - may fall into a space of obedience where orders in those arenas are never mulled over or reassessed.

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12/24/2016 7:47:31 PM
Merry Christmas CS members! 
   
  

9/24/2015 10:20:16 AM
Have not been on this site in a while. I have had a lot of opportunities and interested local people who want to date me. But how do you tell them it just won't work without hurting them and without being explicit about alternative interests like the ones on this site?

12/20/2014 9:54:31 PM
Happy Holidays. Merry Christ-mass(Christmas)!


From some of the profiles I have read there are some prior bad experiences related mostly by Female dominants, who have been contacted by posers/fakes. Also seems to be some past problems with member's account profiles being canceled, maybe from them being compromised by hackers? 

I have been contacted, checking/feeling things out. Trying to see if things are as they claim they are. 

I do not have skype or webCam, does this make me not for real ? NO. But then my life is very different than most people- I will get these things after my PC is out of the shop. But I have a laptop, an android tablet, an android smart phone. I get rather frustrated with getting new installments, new software/hardware. I dont care about the cost, but it wastes a lot of my time just dealing with these computers, and not really using them to make life easier. And they seem to waste a lot of my time, just getting them to keep up with all of the advances. I do not use my computer for much except research and correspondence. I estimate I will just buy another brand new computer(whatever type is needed or best for my situation, ) I will buy one in 4 months? we'll see, I have some things to "Turn Over" first,. 

  Not in a hurry, or willing to jump in a situation just because of any number of reasons, one would do such a thing. Would rather get to know, meet with, any new people who are interested. 

 But my living situation has already been trimmed, So changing things ,moving, will be easier. I live on my own, but got rid of a lot un-needed things, when I in transition, recently. 
 
Happy Holidays everybody ! Stay sane, safe and consensual! 
  

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Amberlynne
 
 Age: 43
 Canton, Texas