Dominant male located in a suburb of St. Louis.
I've recently married a wonderful girl. This is a continuation of a 4 year relationship. Without question this has been the best Dominant/submissive match of my life and I couldn't be happier with how things have progressed in the relationship.
I was recently engaged in a very thoughtful conversation about, 'what are you seeking.' Generally I am not seeking anything. When I've been in the best place to 'find' something was when I wasn't looking. I provide for my life as I see fit and if I am fortunate I will be blessed with a girl or two to serve me well. I don't have an application. I don't have a vision of what I would 'do with you' if you were my girl. I'm competent and experienced. I know how to handle and make use of a slave. I also know life isn't a series of scenes. Life is lived as a human being. Dominance or slavery is something we choose to embrace. We could fight it and suppress it but to be 'lifestyle' it must be understood and embraced.
My journal has more of my writings. I will be updating this as my time and interest allows.
11/1/2010 10:53:14 PM
I'm not gonna close my account... because I really don't want someone else hi-jacking the name.
8/27/2010 2:08:08 PM
It really is a wonder anyone meets anyone on this site. It is amazing, I write someone who appears to be an interesting individual a nice, respectful letter detailing my interests and my sub-missives interest. One of three things happens: 1. I get a reply that says I'm a 'chester the molester'... (aren't we all ;)) 2. I get a reply that says the party I email doesn't respond to 'canned' messages... Which I don't send... 3. I get no response at all. What happened to common decency. What happened to just replying with a 'no thank you'.. or 'I'm not interested?' Very bizarre classifications of submissive's and dominants on this site... I'm reminded why I haven't really posted here in a year and a half.
11/6/2009 5:54:30 AM
It’s offending to the sensibilities when a reasonably attractive submissive has the ability to communicate well via emails but continually has computer problems, doesn’t have a cell phone (or any other method of voice communication), nor does she cam ‘with people she doesn’t know’ (yet she can watch the cam of others.)Typically I find those individuals have the ‘available to others’ catch line embedded in their profiles somewhere.I also have tickets for free unicorn rides available…..
6/18/2009 12:12:01 PM
So it seems 'fake subs' as well as 'fake dom's' exisit on CM. Here is an uncouth and uncultured e-mail I recieved in reply to my message to one 'girl.' Each of my e-mails are directed at specific people. There is nothing 'canned' and 'pre-planned.'
"quote":
So uncle fester and his preteen plaything are back once again. Take a hint baldy.......I wouldn't fuck you for any amount of money. The canned, preplanned, copy pasted bullshit email says a lot about you as well.
"end quote":
No where in my "pre-canned" e-mail did I mention 'fucking' anything. Avoid the OCK 'subs' with gansta photos. I learned my lesson.
3/4/2009 12:56:26 PM
I want to hear from you. If you are tired of the same thing, over and over. If you feel there should be more to D/s and this endless search. If you feel there should be a better way than to sort through 450 messages a day, 449 of which are total horse-crap. Lets talk.
3/2/2009 11:47:26 PM
*NOT ALLOWED TO TALK TO OTHER DOMINANTS* Seeing this little tag line always makes me laugh. Talk about insecure, unsure, control freaks. I encourage those who are in my house to converse with other Dominants. Nine times of the ten it simply re-enforces proper behavior and etiquette. This tenancy by a Dom to control his new found prey's contact with the outside world is troublesome. Isolationists have something to hide. The very FIRST thing these disallowed girls should be doing IS talking to others. Maybe I shouldn't laugh, in the end it really isn't funny.
2/27/2009 7:18:39 AM
Is the true quality of the Dominant male so poor that every submissive female on this site instantly disregards any message sent? I've lost nearly all respect and interest in CM. It was at one time a fairly fun place to at least converse with others in the lifestyle... now it seems its a meat market where everyone is scared and distrusts everyone else.
