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Well, greetings to all! I thought I'd actually add a bit of text here, to fill out a bit more about me.
I've been in the lifestyle for 10 years now, through two M/s relationships and a marriage. I'm also pretty well entrenched in the public scene here in Seattle. I'm now looking for something a little more Daddy/girl and a little less M/s.
I'm a great submissive, but I'm a strong and independent woman as well. I want to hand over control but I have to know the person who is getting the control can handle it. I'm very competent and compulsively organized, so I'd need someone who can respect and use that. I'm pretty open about how that happens.
However, because of my awareness that I truly can handle my life better than most other people can, I come across as toppy. Especially since I'm outgoing, friendly, confident, and no one's doormat. I submit to who I choose to submit to, not anyone who asks for it or demands it. *shrug* That's just me, and I make no apologies for it.
Kink-wise, I'm considered a fairly heavy bottom. I enjoy fisting, large toys, impact play, breast torture, breath play, hair pulling, and age-play. Age play is actually becoming pretty big for me - I tend to play around 5 years old. Anyone who Doms me has to make me feel safe - which means I need to trust. I'm also willing to at least try things out for my partner.
I require copious amounts of cuddling and sex. And while I am poly, I'm currently looking to be someone's primary. *shrug* I won't automatically turn down new play partners, but my goal is to form a new pairing as opposed to joining one already established.
I am Pagan, childfree, a college graduate (bachelor's degree), a voracious reader, a kitty mommy, and I'm convinced that TV rots your brain (with a few VERY special exceptions - yay Browncoats!). I've got 19 piercings (18 in my ears and 1 6g VCH), and I'm done with that. I'm now looking at tattoos, and have a few planned. I communicate very well, am loyal and honest to a fault, and honor is incredibly important to me - both in myself and in those around me.
I am not interested in relocation, cybersex, or phonesex at this time.
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