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Single, bemused, gregarious people-watcher with a robust sense of the absurd and healthy self-awareness. Interested in spark, chemistry, eye-contact, laughing uncontrollably, stupidity and empathy. Also interested in trying to make someone special to me as happy as possible. Thats the starting point for me - the desire, the need to make someone else happy. A domme, for me, will have the self-awareness to know what makes her happy and courage and honesty to say. Ideally, Id like to find someone around my age (lets say 36-45), single and who has an honest sense of how her dominance fits into a relationship.
So within the confusing fetish lexicon, Id say I identify as sub, or slave if thats how you prefer to identify the man in an FLR. I dont believe in having a wish-list of kinks to be catered for. My happiness comes from somewhere else, from a sense of having satisfied. I need to be consumed and owned, a gradual process of control and release, each working together. And there is no way that happens without a solid underlying foundation of attraction, respect, trust and an ability to enjoy everyday life together as much as the Ds. Me, I like cooking, mixing cocktails, climbing mountains, snowboarding back down them, tequilla slammers, weekend city breaks, speaking new languages, country pubs, Burgundy (red and white) and Cheddar. Ive recently rediscovered my appetite for a good gym workout and am trying to add some muscle tone to a generally decent physique. In a relationship I like affection, warmth, wit, silliness, terrible puns, sparkling eyes, cheeky smiles and the unexpected. Okay, I also like tease and denial, orgasm control, chastity, obedience training, crops and whips, predicament bondage, gags, collars, leashes, boot worship and dozens more things...
Not here for pen pals. If weve talked for a month or more and theres not even an indication of meeting, then Ill be off.
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