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I'm just checking stuff out. I am monogamous in my relationships - but if we're in a purely sexual relationship that is likely to be different.
Here are some components of me: I'm hairy, a bit stocky in some places, muscular in others, and skinny in yet others (oh me), masculine (I act like a man and tend to be friends with other men, whether they like dudes, chicks, both, or neither, but have a few female friends too - enjoy watching and playing sports, swimming, wrasslin, hiking, camping, and burping), nerdy in many ways (love old and new video games, sci-fi, computers, astronomy, have taught myself to read Old English, read history texts often, and always am expanding to new interests), and consider myself lucky to have developed into the "genius" side of the "genius-total insanity" continuum. I don't really hang out in the gay community that much but really just tend to move through my own social circles.
A lot of my interests that are nonsexual are just thinks I've learned about or am interested in learning more about. Obviously I don't practice every religion under the sun, but I am interested in learning more about them. Anything else, just ask if you're curious. Don't be afraid to say hi, just as long as you understand that my sexual interests are in men (and yes if you are a straight guy I can easily admire you(or not) objectively and say "You're n attractive man but not available." - I would rather have a stable friendship than a random guy I convinced to have awkward sex once.
Relocation is a distant possibility but not so definite I'd check the box. Phoenix is much more realistic than Berlin but if money were no object neither would distance be.
My only big requirements for a sexual relationship are masculine and disease free. So if that's you, there's a chance we'll have mutual chemistry. That's not to say that I am less choosy than the next man, it's just to say that "I like who I like and there really seems to be little to no rhyme or reason to connect them all other than those two characteristics." Not saying I'm attracted to everyone, but I'm attracted to some men of every "type" out there. If I'm NOT attracted to you, and you are, it's quite easy to still be friends... I will never fault or think badly of anyone for being honest about their attraction - if I did I would be insulting myself once by faulting someone for wanting me and twice for faulting someone for something I always work to do - that is, being honest with people about sexual attraction.
I do have a thing for certain kinds of guys, of course. I am attracted to military men, emergency services guys (police, fire, emt), muscular guys, and any other sort of man who has triumphed through self-discipline and taken reign of life through those means, and men who have put some critical thought into the way they view life.
Even friendships between two purely heterosexual men will have a sexual component to it. They often act attracted to each other jokingly and will roughhouse and talk about their sex lives and sometimes they may go as far as to experiment with each other; it may not be the same type of sexual component as it would be between two homosexual male lovers but it's definitely there.
I'm really rarely on here, so if you send me a message, include an email address.
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