I am here just to meet people who understand that BDSM is not about abuse.  It's about an exchange of power and control between willing partners.

My submissive of almost 20 years left because I could not give her the 24/7 attention that she needed.  My life situation limits my time.  So I am here to primarily to make friends.  If it works out with a sub who needs occassional attention who is in So. Cal., then that would be great.  But that is not my expectation.

I am only interested in females.  Not gay males, nor trans.  Sorry, just not my cup of tea.