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Let me introduce myself. Im a single Dom. I'm an adjunct professor and an attorney with an office in LA and San Diego. My practice takes me all over LA, Orange county, San Bernardino and Riverside. I drive a lot. I'm enlightened, patient, sensual and playful. I'm serious about important things and intense about the pleasure I enjoy inflicting on a lover. I have many wickedly creative ideas to explore.

I have a lot of sensual interests. The erotic arts are made of many different areas and I tend to be open to many different things. Strict respect of another's limits, while working patiently to expand those limits is important to me.

While I am a Dom, I get pleasure extracting pleasure from my partner. I have a high sex drive with a taste for the intense in everything I do. That includes an interest in exploring kink or vanilla activities (I love marathon sessions, giving and receiving oral, and lots of other simple, kinky and intense things). I want passion. A slut for pleasure. And I want someone who is an active and expressive lover. I hate the sub who does nothing but passively lays there, and is just a receiver of pain and pleasure with no physical participation. (that's not to say that I don't deeply enjoy the occasional tie down session where you would be helpless to receive the perfect balance of pleasure and pain that can mix into ecstasy).

I seek many activities to share with the right person. While I do not require any one thing, I love to share with others. While I strictly honor limits, I do enjoy beong physically aggressive. If you like or can tolerate being manhandled, we should talk. I like to give a good spanking if its desired. Id love to find someone who truly enjoys very rough. But while I hear such subs exist, I have never found one. So if you're out there, let me know. And if you're reading this and this doesn't describe you, don't be scared off, I don't require this, or any one thing in a sub to be happy.

I treasure creativity and intelligence in and out of the bed room. I am open to exploring short term connections if a longer term one doesn't pan out. But I am very open to and I long for a deeper long term connection with the right person who I can share the life I have built. Its lonely sometimes, and I've had my share of personal tragedy. I can share life history once a connection is made. So talk to me. I can show the right person many amazing things in this world.

PS, I've been often told that I am more attractive then my pictures suggest. I think they look like me but I have a video clip that I will share if a connection is made.

6/24/2011 2:22:58 AM: I was recently asked what I was about by someone. I gave that a lot of thought and I think my answer revealed something of me that I should put in my profile so I edited my answer to remove the parts that were private. Asking me what I am about has many answers, depending on what is really being asked. It may be asking what I do, as in for a living. The answer of course is a part of who I am. But only a part. I am a teacher, a part time adjunct law professor and teaching has been a part of what I have done for many years. And, that means I am an attorney full time. In that capacity I am often the guider of lost souls, helping them along the way to find the place where they should be. It’s a job that takes me all over the LA area several times a week. Asking me what I am about might be asking me about some of the quirks that are unique to me. Like that I tend to be a night person - but one that likes the sunrise, and one that gathers strength from the magic of the night when most others are fast asleep. Or that I love the color purple, the color of bruises both from that trauma of the skin and of the soul. Or asking me what I am about may be asking me what I seek. As in what I am on this site looking for. The answer to that will sound superficial but it's actually the product of what I believe is enlightened wisdom: I seek what I find. By that I mean if I find a fleeting moment of transcendent beauty - be it sensual, erotic or otherwise - it is important to be open to actually see it before it slips away. And it means being open to finding a lasting and profound connection when it presents itself. And being ready to accept life if it doesn't.

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