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I'm an old fashioned, vintage style gal who enjoys receiving mail the old fashioned way. Send to:
Miss J
P. O. Box 391
Ponchatoula, LA (USA) 70454
1. NOT interested any any relocation 'opportunities'�or offerings for you or Me.
2. Do NOT waste My time with your bs and games. If you're not legit go drop your bait in someone else's pond.
3. kik or Skype now being considered for those deserving direct contact with Me. My time is precious but worth it.
4. I prefer to NOT be addressed as Ma'am. Informally, in lieu of Ma'am, Miss is just fine with me. Mistress is fine as well but not required for informal introductory communications.
5. I don't travel for play or sessions or meet ups, not on My dime at least.
6. If you are married and playing or seeking on the sly. No. If you believe that your situation is a special case (lol don't they all) then message Me and plead your case.
7. Not younger than 35 or older than 50 for real time. If you are outside of that age range, with experiences, truly submissive and genuine then message me and plead your case.
8. Male or female, straight or LGBT.
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About me: Dominant natural born female (bi) with moderate Sadist tendencies. I take a bit of a more loving, creative, strict doting and often twisted approach to what I do and offer depending on my mood and what lessons need to be learned. Don't mistake my sweet smile and doting style as a weakness, you'll regret it tremendously. I may be nurturing but I assure you, I am very strict, commanding and quite capable of extremely harsh meanness when warranted (at My discretion of course).
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I'm huge on communication, various protocols, assignments and always developing my skills/talents as well as those of the sub I spend My energies on. I'm less inclined to spend My extensive time and energies on a fully inexperienced 'just curious about the life style' type of individual, strictly kinksters or strictly fetishers but it really always depends on the individual and I do believe even the kinksters and fetishers deserve an outlet to exercise their demons also. So what I look for is sincerity, genuineness, accessibility, interests, needs, etc.
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I expect a submissive to be able to converse with Me about many things, to be able to articulate ideas, feelings, thoughts... One word answers or 'just because' doesn't cut it for Me - at all.
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I enjoy orgasm control & denial, cbt, bondage (rope & other), toys, humiliation, degradation, protocol, ass play and training, spankings, whips, paddling, flogging, various forms of pleasurable pain and.. Well.. Pain for the sake of pain, assignments (photo, video, reading, writing, specific purchases or research, various physical assignments), services (not necessarily sexual), adoration and worship - of Me, not you silly boy/girl. I have a pretty extensive profile on the other lifestyle site MissJ_is_real is how you'd find me.
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If you keep peeping in on Me, I know that you are. you might as well just go ahead and message Me so we can chat. Doesn't mean something will develop but if you're peeping, you're curious about something.
If you add Me as a favorite, be a polite little sub or slut and introduce yourself. I don't exist on this site for your pleasure. It's all about Me. Gestures and tokens of gratitude are welcomed.
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Time with Mistress.
It had been nearly an hour since he arrived, precisely at 3:00. Not a minute before or after did he dare knock on Her door having learned that lesson the hard way. Not a word spoken just as the previous times and as he'd been taught,. Stepping into Her home was like entering a house of worship for him. He was here to worship and be cleansed - mind, body and soul. To exercise and embrace his secret and hidden demons. Upon quietly closing the door he had immediately placed his relaxed and unclinched hands in the small of his back while opening his stance, relaxed his shoulders and bowed his head in humble acknowledgement that he was in Her presence again. Where he truly belonged. Her only acknowledgment of him, was to give him the command 'prepare yourself slave', which triggered his response of 'yes, My Mistress' and he quickly left the room to do as he'd been instructed and trained.
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Declaring Myself an appointment with adult beverages TONIGHT, come hell or high water. It's been THAT kinda week and I'm over it and will be moving on and past it.
Lesson learned
point taken
Fool Me once, shame on Me. Fool Me twice, shame on you.
better luck next time
tomorrow is a new day
you're a doucher
It's always darkest before the dawn
Keep your chin up and your flogger hand strong
All that shimmers is not gold.
And finally...,
What-tha-fuck-ever dude.
It's going to be a fun night ;-)
- M. J.
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Thoughts of a random Domme.
Sometimes I find Myself wondering - why am I doing this? Why am I spending My time and energy when sometimes it feels as though all I'm doing is spinning My wheels, wasting My attentions on some, My genuine interest isn't appreciated, My sincerity isn't reciprocated, My honesty isn't matched in kind.
And I'll think about stepping away, going back into the shadows of a hidden unfulfilled Domme existence, completely giving up any hope of someday having that 24/7 D/s loving functioning relationship with that one submissive who suits Me best and understands and accepts that the Mrs. is always going to be a Mistress. I'll think about giving a plan old vanilla relationship a try. Again. So I'll get bored in 6 months. Again. And be the asshole and end the lackluster boring relationship. Again.
Dommes (Doms) have low days. It's an emotionally and mentally taxing responsibility. Sometimes I think I need to just reinforce the shields protecting My emotions and feelings. There's certainly subs/slaves out there who seek and thrive on the coldness of the non-emotion, completely unfriendly Domina but that's really not My natural way and style. Every time a potential or claimed submissive stings Me with disappointment, dishonesty and revoked (or disingenuous) intentions, I find I have to stifle My auto response of becoming jaded and hurt by it.
Fortunately, these low days are usually perked up by an endearing and devoted message from My pet who genuinely misses Me, or proof that My international sub is making strides in accomplishing household tasks I've assigned, or My sissyslut makes a thoughtful gesture of appreciation, the female sub I mentor and counsel reports a very successful session thankful for the guidance and push for bravery I gave her beforehand.
Then I feel rewarded as a Domme yet greedy for not feeling complete as a single woman who's waiting for that right lifetime sub who is truly My other half in all aspects of My life and existence and who's presence in My daily life with challenge Me and fill the void I constantly feel. And I know, there's just no way I can attempt vanilla again and I won't. And there's just no way I can become that cold rigid Domme, that while I am strict and harsh at times that it's My affectionate and caring way that is true to Myself. And that's why I'm on this journey, to be finally living true to Myself. Even if occasionally My feelings and heart sometimes pay a price.
- MissJ |
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The 'Make MistressJewel's Life Easier' list:
1. Keep Me out of the grocery store. Even if I'm paying.
2. Every Sunday, take My truck to the gas station for a fill up. This will last Me an entire week and I'll never have to pump has again = MJ HAPPY!
3. Keep the container of cooked rice in the fridge full for the dog's food fixins.
4. Dusting. I LOATHE it. Naked dusting? I LOVE it. (you, not Me silly sub/slave).
5. Keep the grass cut so I can spend My weekends doing more enjoyable things like gardening or painting.
6. Figure out what is wrong with My daggummed bath tub faucet AND fix it!
7. Amazon wishlist or giftrocket works delightfully.
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Ahhhh Weekend, you temptress little whore.. As usual I'm glad to see you again yet you never stay long enough. Crossing My pretty fingers for a nice relaxing weekend. May treat Myself to a pedi, since I'm the only person who thinks I deserve one. Then I can torment foot sluts on skype tonight and over the weekend :-) lol
This is My world.
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So I'm noticing that My list of admirers is growing. Delightful. Although, for some reason only 1 or 2 maybe have actually directly contacted Me.
Am I wrong to think that if some little subbie wanted to add My profile as a favorite and become one of My admirers, they'd show the courtesy of messaging Me to ask if they might have My permission to do so. Even if they aren't worthy of serving Me or offering themself up to Me for My use and entertainment.. I'd think it would be polite to message and ask. Maybe these are just pitiful little subbies and sluts without good home training in their lives. Hmmm... Maybe they should message Me about some training to correct the error of their ways.
- M. J. |
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