I became a member to find a Dominant female partner who genuinely enjoys this lifestyle and wants a long-term relationship with a submissive male. If you're only seeking an occasional play partner or a submissive to accompany you to parties, that is not me.
If you would like to know more about me, I would be happy to send a letter of introduction. I'm hoping to meet a someone, 40-ish to mid 50's, intelligent, down to earth, and compassionate. Someone who enjoys control and exploring what this lifestyle can do to enhance our relationship.
Physically, I'm attracted to women with a healthy figure for their age and height. I don't consider myself to be Ken looking for Barbie. I'm about 10 to 15 pounds overweight myself and realize we all gain a bit as we get older so that's not an issue.I'm not going to waste words with lists of likes and dislikes...instead I wish to emphasize my sincerity. I have been looking for some time now and know all too well how difficult it is to meet that special person. This profile is meant to announce my intent.
To me, this lifestyle is not about fantasy nor do I seek fantasy fulfillment. I'm deliberately writing this profile in a no-nonsense manner so it's clear that I'm looking for a life-time partner. All the pomp and protocol will obviously come later if we meet and things develop from there.I'm intelligent, devoted, very sincere (maybe to a fault), and despite how this profile may read...I do have a sense of humor. I would be delighted to hear from a Dominant female who has the same attitude and thinks I might be a person of interest.
3/20/2011 11:35:14 AM
Well it's been an interesting 7 years so far. I have accepted this site is 99% fake but decided to keep my profile up on the snowball's chance in hell I just might meet a partner anyway. You never know.
11/27/2008 6:34:08 AM
The last couple Dominants I have met here have displayed an interesting trait. They expect me to "hit the ground running" so to speak without either of us actually knowing each other beyond initial acquaintance. I suppose this is their idea of demonstrating commitment. I didn't warm to it and they simply stopped communicating without any explanation. I can only speculate they were not looking for anything with substance or perhaps just seeking play and nothing more.
3/8/2008 1:47:32 PM
Updated my profile once again (slightly).
9/29/2007 11:05:26 AM
Been offline for a few months. Thought I may as well try again. Nobody will know I'm here if I don't have something visible.
6/16/2006 9:22:05 PM
I've updated my profile once again to make it clear my intentions are sincere. I dropped the list details in favor of sharing that information with someone who's interested in finding out who I am. That information will come anyway.
I haven't posted much on the message boards lately. After several years, you begin to see the same old topics being asked anew by recent members and it gets old after a while. D/s is a part of a person's life...it is not "life" per se. I would much rather simply talk and get to know you first and then later, if we hit it off, add in the trappings of Domination and submission.
That's how it would take place in person anyway, so why not start there!
I have met several Dominant females on this site who clearly are living the life and being well served. I'm honored to know them.
8/1/2004 6:46:10 PM
I have revised my profile description to better communicate who I am and why I'm a member of Collarme. I've come to realize placing a profile online can be fraught with misunderstandings so hopefully this will do a better job.
6/13/2004 10:07:58 AM
I have added a photo of a cage I designed and built a few months ago to show what I'm capable of making. There's a head stock in both ends as well as the top. The cage can be stood upright to serve as a standing cage. The top doubles as the door in this postion.
