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i am seeking to be the distaff part in an FLR relationship - if you will, the male wife of a strong, controlling female husband. i am shy and insecure. You will be strong and assertive.
i meet many who are not really strong and don't really understand what it is they seek.
i am a good cook. i can clean and generally take care of the house. i am old enough that i don't appreciate need or want children.
i have spent 40 years in my profession. i am looking forward to reaping the rewards of that long career, hopefully in the presence of a companion that will help me transition to a condition where fewer and fewer decisions would need to be made. i enjoy music, photography, travel and good conversation. i do not smoke, but i do enjoy my wine, beer and whiskey.
i am not a masochist. In fact, there have been very few times in my life where i have experienced real physical pain. i do not seek pain. i do understand that my role in such a relationship involves being on the learning end of things, and that might entail discipline in the name of effective guidance.
Relationships such as this take time. If you are not willing to invest the time, then please understand. i am really not looking for play sessions.
If anything you have read resonates, then drop me a line. To begin a journey you must take a step. Or, if you are Cajun, First you have to make a roux.
On occasion, i have tried to send a message to someone and gotten a "Profile not found" response. If, on the off chance, you try and send me a message and that happens, i have the same screen name on Yahoo and Gmail.
Please do not contact me with the intent of getting me to pay you money. You will waste your time. Additionally, i will not "prove" i am real by going to some other web site, signing up and establishing a profile. That does not prove i am real; it proves i am stupid and i am not. Also, i am not interested in young girls.
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This afternoon, i wanted to add something to my profile. Somehow, the "Edit Profile" button has disappeared - at least for me. I guess, for the time being, we are stuck as we are. (And i was so looking forward to seeing the profiles of all of those who said "I'll do this later.") |
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i had a wonderful conversation with a real Dominant a couple days ago. The distance between us is great, and She was concerned that i have a minimal level of actual experience. She strongly suggested i increase my actual experience, but such a thing is rather difficult with the level of "players" around. i would appreciate any comments or suggestions. |
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Kind of tired of pics showing off the manicure on the second finger. i guess the intent is to show toughness. Really demonstrates immaturity. |
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My God! How many different messaging platforms are there? Yahoo, Google, Skype, Kik, Whatsapp, snapchat. i was just messaged by someone who wanted to chat on IMO or Hike. Really? Please, i am facile with Yahoo and Google. i have a Skype account. |
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It gets frustrating. i look at someone's profile and enjoy it. They look at mine. i try to write them a message thanking them and making contact, and when i try and send it, it says "Profile Not Found." i don't know if that is because they have turned their emails off or simply inadvertently no checked the box to allow messages. Oh Well. |
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lately things have been kind of active. i have exchanged messages with several wonderful people. i do my best not to judge people, as i know i have my own shortcomings (although i choose to think of them as adorable). Anyway, i did have one exchange that bothered me. She got quite upset at me because i stated i am not particularly eager to be beaten. She recognized herself as a sadist. i do not recognize myself as a masochist. However, since i readily admitted i was not interested in being beaten, she told me she had no interest in me (which was fine with me) but then went on to berate me as not being "real" and wasting her valuable time. i'm sorry. apparently everyone "real" on this site is ok with being beaten. Since i am not, i must be a fake. So be it. i still look forward to my next exchange with whomever comes along. |
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For some reason, maybe the phase of the moon, I am being contacted by men lately. Please. I am not interested in men. |
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i do enjoy looking at the pics, but i often wonder. i would estimate that of the profiles for dominant women, easily over half have pictures of the feet - some in shoes, some without. Not oddly, none of those show the feet in sneakers or casual shoes. i get that (and enjoy it). If you add to those the profiles in which there is an emphasis on the breasts and or cleavage, the proportion must be easily over 75%. Again, i know why this is the case, but it just seems like some diversity might help. |
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i enjoy looking at some of the pictures people have on their profile. However stimulating the pictures might appear to be, it is really the words in the profile that i savor. It is the picture that is being painted. i come across the occasional profile where someone comments that writing in the profile is meaningless. Well, if you think that, you are conveying an attitude that tells me you aren't interested in doing what is necessary to achieve whatever it is you are seeking. |
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It would appear that there has been a recent clearance sale at several adult stores involving purple dildos. Several Dominants have featured them in their profiles. For some reason, it reminded me of the old children's rhyme with a little adult orientation.
I've never seen a purple dildo
and never hope to see one,
After hours of thinking though
I'd rather see than be one. |
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i am perplexed at some profiles. The person claims they seek a TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship. Yet, in the profile, they say they seek someone who is strong and aggressive in the vanilla world - "an alpha male," but who is obedient to them only in the bedroom. i cannot understand how that is TPE. To me it is, at best, a limited exchange of power - LPE. |
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It seems to me that there is a lack of appreciation of the distinction between D/s and S&M. It seems that most dominants don't express their dominance, but rather express their sadism. Being sadistic is not being dominant. it is being sadistic. i am strongly submissive, but not really masochistic. If you are here to find people you can inflict pain on, we will not be a good match, as i find physical abuse sad and lacking in nuance. |
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