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Im Interested in reconnecting or finding new friends of any gender or orientation. If Ive written you, even one line, Im interested in chatting with you. Feel free to write me first.
This includes clothes on conversations, which might be a foreign concept here.
Because of the experiences here, I tend to be more blunt when emailing. Not out of disrespect, simply Im sick of having my time wasted. At the same time I have no interest in random casual sex, cybering, online only, jealousy
Im not a fan of labels as they dont fit well, a few things Im not A sub, a switch, a service top, a social butterfly, a sugar daddy, a diaper changer, a grammarian
1. Im just fine with the picture I have, I dont feel the need to put up dick pics or gym selfies.2. I have no problem chatting with anyone, regardless of whats between their legs how many years theyve lived or what color their skin is. Unless you lie, then Im done.3. Yes I have real pictures4. Of course I entered the Nigerian lottery, why did it take you so long to get back with me?5. Not looking to jump into anything 247 or live in.6. I see this as a way to meet, if we are chatting long enough expect for me to want to meet you in person.
7. Want to know what Im looking for specifically? Just ask.
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To CS spell check: Go home you're drunk.
So many of my messages and part of my profile are screwed up.
Type the word S P A N I S H and send it to someone and see what I mean. |
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New job travel and likely relocation forthcoming. This is not some cover story for travel cheating, I'm not married. |
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Apparently I can be my own admirer.... |
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http://blazingsword.org/index.asp |
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Factory reset my phone the ducking auto correct gets to relearn all sorts of new curses. |
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youtube.com/watch?v=UPcJx_VQYBU A good thing to know about me especially if I bothered to write you, even a one liner. |
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http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-baadmaster/predator-pro-dommes/
Male sub advice.
Does this count as peg blocking? |
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I recently sent 2 nephews a 30 pound box of dum dum suckers and my other siblings 3 kids 12.5 pounds of pixie stix.
I think that qualifies me as a sadist and amazon as an enabler. |
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http://kaylalords.com/2015/04/top-10-signs-hes-an-asshole-not-a-dominant/
"Note: This is directed at?male Dominants...
1. He demands you call him Sir or Master from the moment you meet.?You're a submissive, not?his?submissive. I advocate being respectful until he gives you a reason not to be, but anyone who demands a title before it's earned needs to be ignored.
2. He starts out an introduction with a dick pic.?No Dominant is going to send you this without some sort of agreement between the two of you. It's just not going to happen.
3. He sends you unsolicited instructions of how to please him or orders to obey.?Did you talk about this list? Was there communication and consent? If not, this is just another poser.
4. He ignores your hard limits.?Don't just walk away from this loser, fucking run. Ignoring your clearly identified and communicated limits is the sign of an asshole and an abuser. A Dominant will push your limits, sure, but not without first talking to you - a lot.
5. He disregards your safe word.?Yes, some Dominants out there claim not to play with a safe word. I find that dicey but won't pass too much judgment. If?you?use a safe word, though, it should be respected. Ignoring this is just more abuse.
6. He lies.?I know some people will say that everyone lies. White lies to save face or feelings. Most Dominants I know are honest to a fault. Think about it. How can you communicate openly and honestly if you'll lie about things - big or small??John Brownstone?doesn't lie; he simply refrains from speaking until the time is right to tell the truth. I can respect that.
7. He thinks more about his pleasure than your own.?Caveat: if you've negotiated a relationship where this is acceptable to both of you (yes, that's possible), that's okay. Not my kink, but okay. I'm referring to the jerk who gets off and then ignores you or doesn't listen when you tell him your preferences.
8. He makes you feel bad about yourself.I'm not talking about a humiliation fetish in the middle of a scene or even as part of an on-going relationship. I'm talking about the soul-sucking, self-esteem shattering bullshit that makes you feel less than human and unworthy of love and affection. D/s should build both people up, not tear you down.
9. He separates you from family and friends.?Okay, let's be honest here. Some people are just bad for us. They make us feel bad and doubt our self worth. I don't mean those people. I'm talking about loving relationships with friends and family. A good Dominant wants a happy, healthy submissive - and isolating you from people who care about you won't achieve that. Frankly, it will simply show that he's selfish and, most likely, insecure.
10. He tells you that you're not a "real" submissive because you have your own opinions.?In a D/s relationship, how you express those opinions will vary based on your consensual, negotiated agreement but you should?always?have your own opinions. The other flavor that goes with?this one is that you're not a real submissive because you're too independent, aggressive, or (best of all) not willing to do what you're told by someone you just met who claims to be a Dominant. (Insert big, fat eyeroll.)"
Not my words but worth repeating. |
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Currently processing the book "Leaders eat last" Very interesting. |
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A man was walking down the street when he came upon a brothel. He saw
a couple having sex on the lawn, another couple behind a tree, & 2
more behind some bushes. He knocked on the door & asked what in the
world was going on. "Oh, that," said the madam. "We're having a yard
sale."
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