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*recent pic, can exchange face pics Polite easy going respectful gentleman by day and controlling dominant with a sadistic, sensual, and passionate side during play! You just came across a very unique, skilled, experienced, and handsome Dom that's also a very kind and caring individual. Tired of inexperienced guys expecting submission without getting to know you and earning your trust? Perhaps you love a guy that knows how to take over during play, but isn't abusive and respects limits. Want someone that is completely open and upfront without a bunch of b.s. chest thumping, you just found him! Spanking, corporal, and any impact play are a favorites of mine as I'm definitely a bit of a spanko. I'm very experienced and skilled with crops, canes, floggers, paddles, whips, etc. Always like to keep things interesting in terms using different toys, positions, restraints and activities. I typically mix sensual elements with sadism and can be into more sensual play with things like rope, sensations, and many different fetishes, but typically match up with players that have at least a little masochist in them and spanko's seem to really love me as I get so much great feedback. Sensual elements are a part of most play, but I have done a lot of non sexual discipline sessions as well. I'm very strong and like it when a sub wants to struggle a bit and have me forcefully hold them in place whether it's over my knee, against the wall, in bed or anywhere else. I play great with some brats as it can bring out my dark sense of humor and elicit giggles and I'm not easily offended and like the challenge of putting a brat in their place! Always play SSC and take safety very seriously along with the well being of my subs/bottoms and am always respectful of ones limits. The level of sadism and play style varies as everyone is unique and has different needs and different taste meld together to make for different styles of play. I'm willing to listen, be intuitive and work with subs rather than just do a routine I'm feeling. Building trust and connecting first can really go a long ways before a play date, I tend to ask a lot of questions before to get a feel for what makes a person tick, although a lot of that I discover during a scene. Expect reassurance and proper after care following play. If your new I'm happy to work with you on your comfort level and ease you in. I got into my kinks in my mid twenties and have really expanded my interest, experiences, and toy collection in the past several years. I have done more formal D/s relationships, but generally do strictly casual play partners as I find it easy to meet people that match up play wise, but being very discerning and unique for the kink community. It typically doesn't take me long to figure out the potential of a relationship and I have no problem being honest and upfront about it. I'll take whats there and not try to make something work that won't ever be. Lot's of vanilla friends, hobbies, and interest. Just ask if you're curios. I want to be a positive influence in my subs life and see my sub succeed and be happy. I like a girl that likes to get their hands dirty outside and go on hikes and whatnot, but also like a girl that also has a feminine side and wants to dress up for a play date. Ideally I would like to find that perfect long term sub, however I do well with just being casual play partners, so if you want to talk about setting up just a play date don't hesitate. I play a lot at home in my extra bedroom/mini dungeon, but do play at a few events and parties occasionally so I'm also interested in finding someone I could train or someone already experienced that would be interested in playing at a party it would be a great opportunity for an adventurous sub that could include being Domed by myself and a female friend or two of mine that also Tops. YOU: honest, low drama, upfront, good intent, drive to please, disease free as I am, attractive is a plus Age: Under 40 or so NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE, CYBER, OR GUYS Happy to answer questions and chat to see if there might be anything, I'm not pushy or desperate so don't worry about about me getting upset if your not interested at any point as I'm looking for someone else who can move on if things don't work out at any point. Can't wait to chat and connect with an amazing girl:)
shakirah
 
 Age: 29
 Goldsmith Rd, United Kingdom