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TristanofTreve

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I have been in the lifestyle for a little over 20 years now as a Master. My focus has been the Master/slave dynamic in a 24/7 TPE relationship. I have recently learned that what I seek now is more along the lines of a companion sub, someone to spend time with and have a relationship with, while keeping the dynamic in place. I am one who feels that being a Dom has many roles and responsibilities. I am Owner, Master, Caregiver, Guide, Companion, Nurturer, Disciplinarian, Ruler, etc. A sub's life should improve with the strong guidance of her worthy Master, and this is my goal for any sub that comes into my life. My ideal person is a natural sub, one who lives and breathes her submission. She is one who understands that her submission to me is not a game to play or a role to per. To her it is a burning desire, a need, a hunger, a lifetime search to serve the right Dom, one who fills that emptiness that constantly gnaws at her soul. It would be beneficial if you were bi or bi-curious as I am not a very sexual person. While I might have sex with you on occasion, it is not something that will happen regularly. This does not mean that there won't be intimac, as there are many ways to be intimate. I seek someone who understands that there is more to being a sin than the sexual/play session side of the lifestyle. There is a Mistress in my household (not My Mistress, she does her own lifestyle thing outside of the household) who is willing to fulfill your sexual needs on occasion, but understand, you would be My sub and My sub alone. The ideal person will be capable of joining our household in lifestyle and life. When I talk to you, be willing to meet and greet in person or via video to confirm your identity within a short period of time. There are too many fakes and flakes for me to bother wasting my time if you are not serios enough to prove you are a real person with a real desire to serve Me as My sub. If you are not willing to travel or eventually relocate, please don't waste my time. I am not a Sugar Daddy or someone who will support you financially. That is not what this lifestyle is about. I support my household, but even when you move in with us, you will be guided to find and follow your soul's passion. Life must have a purpose, even for a slave, and even if that purpose requires her to work outside the household.
3/23/2018 4:09:11 PM
I seem to be having an issue with messages on here. If you send a message to me, I always reply, no matter what. If I don’t reply, it is because the message never arrived, so try sending it again. I have had a few people tell me that they have sent a message without me receiving one. Though, it is possible they are deceiving me, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Therefore, if I don’t reply to a message, send it again as I didn’t receive it.
2/28/2018 8:04:08 PM
why is it when you have what seems to be a decent conversation going with someone, and you start asking about their interests in the lifestyle, they stop conversing? I mean, wouldn't it be prudent to understand such to know if you both have similar interests and, therefore, are compatible? 
2/12/2018 6:04:27 PM
Thought I would do this again to see how much may have changed: 

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Master/Mistress
94% Owner
87% Bondage Giver
73% Sadist
72% Degrader
69% Primal (Hunter)
61% Vanilla
51% Experimentalist
49% Exhibitionist
44% Voyeur
43% Daddy/Mommy
5% Non-monogamist
4% Ageplayer
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Brat
0% Bondage Receiver
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch

2/6/2018 6:01:06 AM
So because I was in bed asleep and didn’t immediately reply to a message from spankmyass72, I am now blocked. Do people really have such little patience these days? Patience is a very important part of this lifestyle, especially when first talking to someone, perhaps people, on both sides of the spectrum, need to learn this better.
6/5/2017 8:51:54 PM

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Master/Mistress
95% Dominant
92% Owner
71% Rigger
66% Sadist
61% Voyeur
59% Degrader
52% Experimentalist
49% Vanilla
48% Primal (Hunter)
43% Daddy/Mommy
37% Exhibitionist
16% Non-monogamist
2% Ageplayer
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Boy/Girl
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Brat
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch

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 Age: 47
  Michigan