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| I first entered the BDSM community when I was 18, while I was stationed in the UK, and it has been an important part of my life ever since. I’ve been kinky since I became sexually aware at all, and I haven’t ever had luck with vanilla relationships. Since entering the community I have been fortunate enough to meet some truly amazing people and had the opportunity to learn from many of them. While I have been know to switch on rare occasion and there are more than a few men I find attractive, I am essentially a heterosexual dominant man and I unapologetically love being one.
I’m a U.S. Air Force veteran and that experience has gone a long way towards making me the person I am today. Since leaving the Air Force I have been on an interesting journey to decide what the next big step in my life will be, I feel like I’m getting closer to discovering that is, but I don’t know that I’m quite there yet. My most recent passion is brewing, and while I'm not sure if it's the thing I want to do for the rest of my life, it makes me very happy, and it's a hell of a lot of fun.
As a top I am first and foremost a reaction junky. I love the sounds of a girl in pain, or of a girl while she cums, the look in her eyes when you cause her to suffer for you, and then that beautiful transcendence when she slips into subspace. I also have a special place in my heart for begging, or pleading which I personally think is a much hotter word, and for orgasm control, not necessarily denial, just control. As a dominant, when I’m given someone's submission, my play related interests are essentially the same, but my real joy comes from the submission itself. That can manifest itself in a variety of ways, because regardless of how annoying the vanilla cliche the “the submissive is really in control” is, as a dominant my goal is to nurture the submission I have been given and that, by necessity, has as much to do with the submissive I am dominating as with my own desires. This community is also very important to me for a great many reasons that aren’t about playing. I have made many of my closest friends in the BDSM community, and I have a love for its history and a deep respect for its traditions.
One of my greatest honors has been to educate others about our community and help people to discover more about themselves. I have had the amazing opportunity to lecture on the basics of BDSM at several community colleges and Sacramento State. Lecturing at colleges is an amazing opportunity, and one I am honored to have, however what I find even more meaningful is the people I have had the opportunity to personally introduce to the community. I have been fortunate to introduce several very close friends to the BDSM community, and be part of the self discovery that resulted from those introductions.
I do have interests outside of BDSM, although my friends and play partners tell me that sex and or BDSM does seem to be on my mind most of the time. I have a profound almost sports fan-like love of politics, and while my beliefs are very strongly rooted I love a good debate, and have been willing to change my mind, at least once. I also love food, cocktails, wine and BEER, and will admit to being a bit of an epicurean in general. I’m a hard core sci-fi geek of the first order and my interests in that greatest of all genres are many and varied. Finally I was raised in the the theatre by theatre professors, and it will always have a special place in my heart, there are few places I feel more at home than in an empty theatre.
Oh lastly, I love ROPE I really really like ROPE, my first interest in the community was rigging, and I have never stopped finding the ability to create living art, or put a beautiful girl into that special floaty space that only rope can deliver truly magical.
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