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| I know who I am I am assertive, I love to be in control, I like to get my way, I am polite, I despise arrogance and believe in "Please" and "thank you". I am a mixture of playing by the rules and a hater of the status quo because I have never fit the constraints of what society expects of me I despise stereotypes - I know it's been ingrained in us and somewhat an unconscious thought (one might say reflex). I do my best to clear my mind of it and appreciate others doing the same. I'm British, let me pause for a moment to let you wrap your mind around this fact "yes there are black British people. We don't all look like Hugh Grant or Simon Cowell." (Note: if you're rolling your eyes and wondering why I'd make such an obtuse statement, chances are we will get along immensely, but if you're still taking that moment to digest the above stated fact, then brace yourself).
In my vanilla life, work takes an enormous proportion of my time. My job is stressful, intense, unpredictable, demanding and I absolutely love it most of the time. I love traveling, the world is really an exciting and beautiful place to explore and I feel like a global soul. I like meeting new people, experiencing different cultures and exploring landscapes. I love getting involved in the local kink scene wherever I travel to so you can say I don't do half measures, I take in the city in its entirety. I'm a long distance runner, I enjoy music, theatre, hiking especially with breathtaking views. I enjoy watching TV but even that gets dull at times.
What I'm looking for In a relationship
First and foremost, a connection - vanilla and kink
Monogamy - non-sexual play with other tops is permitted and I am open to negotiating FLR - definitely
Have a mind of your own. FLR or submission does not mean you're brainless. Yes you have your opinions which I actively encourage you to voice but ultimately, decisions will rest in my domain
Active submission - you will be required to do things for/to me, following my instruction of course. This is both in sexual and non sexual contexts. Passivity is a turn off. Don't just lie there like a sack of potatoes. Unless of course you were instructed to. You will learn to anticipate my needs and act accordingly within negotiated limits and not require micromanagement
Intelligence is definitely a turn on, I'd like to have conversations
You must have your own life i.e. something that fulfills you, be financially independent (I'm not looking to take on financial responsibilities and vice versa)
Loyalty and devotion
A genuine willingness to serve and please me
A wicked sense of humor
I believe in a Domme- centered relationship. Ask not what your Mistress can do to you but what you can do for her. In my opinion,the main objective in D/s is for the submissive to please the dominant, serve her needs and wants within agreed limits (stating the obvious). This doesn't mean that I don't like to play, I've got a kinky side and sadistic tendencies so I do love to play.
I'm not into:
Cyber-domination (very long distances usually require a flight)
Polyamory, (something to explore in the future, perhaps but not at the moment)
Being someone's "other woman" (in plain English, I'm NOT interested if you're married) Race play or being told "I've got a black Domme fetish"
Ageplay
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