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Female Dominant, 23,  Oxford, UK

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 Dominant Female




 108 lbs





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Before I joined Collarpace and other fetish sites I had an image of the submissive male in my mind, the kind of males I had met throughout my life who had submitted to me in their own ways. sweet, kind, helpful, caring, generous, the sort of male that actually wants to SERVE a woman and contribute to her happiness.

But instead I have found the majority of submissive males are the most truly selfish self obsessed individuals I have ever met. They think serving me is about me doing things for THEM, they want to use me for their fetishes and fantasies while not caring in the slightest what I want.

There has been a lot of talk on this site about women exploiting poor vulnerable males, but it is them who want to exploit me and use me.

I read all messages within a couple of hours, if I don't reply then you have not impressed me.

I am not a professional Mistress. I am not offering any kind of service, males serve me.

I want online subs and slaves whose only mission in life is to devote themselves to my happiness, worship me and show their devotion. Yes I have a wishlist and I like gifts from my subs and slaves, it shows their commitment and appreciation and devotion. This is not findom, it's just a male being polite and courteous and a gentleman. 

Serving me is nothing to do with sex or webcams, strapons or whips. I prefer talking to MY SUBS about everyday things. I love Star Wars & Star Trek, The Walking Dead etc, anything to do with sci fi as you can see from my outfits. I'm also into computers and gadgets as well although I'm not into gaming. I like getting to know my subs and I expect to still know them in 10 years time, there is no quick fix of your fetishes here.

My domination and control is very subtle, but my subs always know who is in charge. Subs will address me as Miss, Mistress or Goddess. A sub will never want to disappoint me or anger me, this will result in them being blocked for a week, month or year.

Sometimes I might give my subs tasks that are useful to me, like assisting with my world domination.
Sometimes I install an app on their phones so I can track them 24/7.
My pet peeve is selfish males, so if you think you can message me about your fetishes and fantasies think again!

I'm 23. I have a normal life & a normal job. I have a degree from one of the top 3 universities in the world. I look tall in my photos but I am actually 5'3 without heels. My photos & videos are taken at home on my iPhone, They are not modelling photos in a studio, I just have a tidy house! I like to be a perfectionist in everything I do.

Some clips and verification videos of me...
I am also on Twitter: @Mistress__Lucy
and fetlife: L-u-c-y

I no longer meet due to many timewasters. I have met around 20 people from Collarspace and other fetish sites, I far prefer online interactions, I find it fascinating to speak to people from all over the world.

Journal Entries:
2/15/2017 8:14:23 AM
Taking off my white heels video

2/11/2017 2:20:03 AM
"A gentleman of four outs", that is, without wit, without money, without credit, and without manners.

2/11/2017 1:59:42 AM

"Easy to get stupid slaves"
This has been said to me many times by people who message me, "I'm not one of those easy to get stupid slaves". I have never come across such a thing on this site. Occasionally subs/slaves approach me and submit straight away, but that is because they have followed me for weeks, months or years and they see I have put a lot of effort into my photos, videos and blogs, therefore not easy. There are plenty of stupid subs/slaves but I don't want those, they are too stupid to actually submit in ways that please me, they only think about themselves.
So no need to put down "easy to get stupid slaves", there are none.

2/10/2017 5:25:13 AM
Valentines day
If you like my photos, videos and blogs then today is your chance to do something for me, ask me for my wishlist :)

2/5/2017 12:10:58 PM
Male fools
You see a beautiful woman online, you go through all her 100's of photos and videos and blogs, she's spent so much time and effort doing them, she must be a real Goddess worth serving, you would do anything to serve her and make her happy, but what's this, she wants you to do something for her straight away to prove you are serious and not a timewaster? How dare she ask that without getting to know you first! The mean uncaring bitch!

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