Hey there, thanks for checking out my profile...
I'm a Dom from the extreme SW tip of the UK.
I am happily married to soul mate Serentan (also on here). So if you're looking for 'The One' then I'm not for you, I wish you luck. We are open to a Poly relationship for the right person or persons given time to develop that trust and friendship.
We're pretty active in the local scene. Okay, I guess very. So if your in Cornwall or Devon we might well bump into you.
We're not monogamous as far as play partners goes although not promiscuous either.
I'm a pretty fair hand with impact and sensation play but my real passion currently is physical force and skills. Pressure points, capture and take down and so on. Rope is something I've learnt from some really excellent teachers and enjoy :-)
I'm not currently looking for anyone, having my hands full with current friends and play partners and work. I'll get around to altering my profile more shortly.
Some more Stuff:-
Rules I try to live by, both in Kink and generally:-
1) Do No Harm
And not just because I like medical play on occasion ;-). By Harm I mean no long term lasting physical or mental damage. I've considered branding and so on and that might cross this line...but as a rule...no. Hurt is another matter and with consent I'm fine with this. Sometimes the line gets crossed without intent. Then its my job to minimize it.
I tend to the 'Knight Protector' sorta role. I like to look after people but don't call me a Daddy Dom as frankly that sorta thing makes me think of age play and child abuse.
2) Never in Anger
Hangover from my Re-enactment/Western Martial arts. Dont Dom Angry (or Drunk come to that). I do however fake it really well for you Brats.
3) Real Life comes first
Mostly aimed at the online folks but also applies to when there's a choice between 'lifestyle' events/moments or other events. I've made some real friends in this lifestyle and allied ones so its not a case of not valuing that. I've turned out in the middle of the night to collect a friend and a stranger they rescued from a bad scene from A&E when things have gone wrong for them. If someone has to cancel a scene, leave early or otherwise bail due to events in Real Life.... that's expected and fine. Shit happens. If your life is so full of Real Life drama/events that we cant match schedules or ever finish a scene then that's sad but them is the breaks.
4)If you Fuck Up, Own it. Shit happens and if its your fault then don't make excuses but put it right or have the decency to apologise for it and make sure you learn from it. I'd prefer not to fuck-up in the first place but it does happen on occasion.
