Laughter and intelligent discourse is the way into my heart. I thrive around people who push my boundaries and make me think about things differently. I’m easy going, don’t fluster easily, and roll with the punches. Don’t mistake that for being a doormat; I’m strong-willed and speak my mind when it matters.

Life is too short to get caught up in the little things. I’ve alway been someone who charts my own course and have found traditional pathways don’t work for me. I fly by the seat of my pants most of the time and it works. It’s taken me to places I never dreamed of and I’ve found experiences I never imagined.

I am a city girl who longs for a spot in the country with a huge yard and lots of space to garden. I’m comfortable in all types of social settings; dive bars to Michelin rated restaurants; stomping grapes to wine tastings; rodeos to galas. Life is to be enjoyed and I’m doing all that I can to enjoy each moment.

My chosen career requires me to be organized, demanding (in a nice way!) and in charge. The short of it is that I have teams of people that look to me to know what to do, how to do it and when to get it done. I’m self-sufficient and capable of making my own decisions. I do, however, relish being able to give the reigns to someone else for a while.

Deeper connections are my speed. I like being part of a team and having a person. That means I’m actively seeking a long-term relationship. I ultimately want a full, rich relationship where I can share all aspects of life, not just my bed. Until I find that person I’m open to fwb. I need a connection, a spark, something that inspires me to be with someone. I am not monogamous at the moment but that would change for the right person. I want to be courted, darn it! I’m a romantic at heart. It’s little things that make a big difference - a text letting me know you’re thinking about me - regardless of our relationship status goes a long way. Above all, in a relationship, I value open and honest communication with a hefty dose of integrity. I want someone that respects my boundaries and knows when they can be pushed. My ideal partner is capable of having open conversations about wishes, hopes and desires; someone who sees me as more than a fetish delivery system.

I’ve been in and out of the lifestyle since I was 19 years old. My kink list runs the gamut. If you really want to know my kinks, what turns me on, get to know me. I’m very unlikely to play with someone I don’t know and even less likely to discuss my sex life with a stranger. Daddy/babygirl and service are at the core of my being but precious few have experienced being called Daddy by me.