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I am an older guy looking for a possible LTRTPE with the right woman that is willing to relocate to me. If she is unable to relocate I would enjoy having her as a friend to share thoughts about the lifestyle. I enjoy the arts, music, good food, fine wine and the presence of a younger woman. (She needs to enjoy the company of an older gentleman.) I enjoy nights out as well as time just hanging inside. I am a sailor and believe the time spent in sailing has not detracted from my allotted time. Im not into drama. Honesty is essential. Friendshiprelationships are based on trust. That requires being willing to be VERY open in talking about anything. I insist that any woman entering my household be under an appropriate contract. I seek a woman who is comfortable in a gown as well as jeans, has an interest in the arts, and enjoys being onthe water. Getting to know each other follows somerather mundane vanilla processes. I offer many things in my home. Because of the lifestyle and my position in the community safety and security of anyone in my home is important. Secondly, as time progresses, hopefully some degree of affection will develop.Many of my interests you will find in this profile. I invite any questions you might have. Ive been around long enoughto understand the psychology of pleasure and pain principles, physical restriction and mental control. Understand this might not be a daily activity, but, part of other(what some might view as mundane)activities like movies, concerts, going for walks or looking for the abundant wildlife in my area. You must have a deep desire to serve and please. Lifestyle activities are open topics. It is best to be passionate about life and enjoy physical contact. Finally, I am NOT looking for a girl friend or wife, per se. I might entertain a LTR thathas Dd over tones.If the outside world views you as a wife, girl friend,daughtergrand daughter thats their issue not mine regardless, you are my subslave. The world by and large still doesnt recognize alternative life styles - their loss. If you are looking for someone to just chat with,I welcome that. One cant have too many friends.
1/17/2018 8:12:06 PM
The more I read about relyfe programming the more interesting it becomes. Need to chat with Mike Scott on the topic.
4/11/2017 3:11:33 PM
The following is true whether vanilla or Kink - why? Cuz guys are like this -  http://www.howtogettheguy.com/
3/14/2017 2:38:22 PM
Six weeks and it'll be boat time. This year it's live aboard - 6mo worth.
5/4/2016 9:57:47 AM
Short notice:  Looking for crew for a two week stint on The St Croix River (Stillwater/Hudson) and then on to Lake Superior.  Details about trip, requirements, etc, when you contact me.  6/3 to 6/16
3/29/2016 3:55:19 PM
Let me be perfectly clear as to what I seek:
            female
            21-40 (a little younger or older ok)
            Interested in learning about the world- good intellect
            A very deep need and desire to make people happy
            Ability to follows rules - there will be time spent aboard a boat
                (I'm committed to bringing back the same number of folks that left with
                me)
            I will initially insist on a contract outlining my expectations and your desires - it 
                helps keep us focused on why we started
            you must have an interest in expanding your mind at some point
            If you have children that's not a deal breaker, but, needs discussion


3/31/2013 3:27:23 AM

http://www.flickspire.com/_videos/flash/LILC/LILC.swf

  Well worth consideration.

3/30/2013 2:18:49 AM

Don't usually rant but for all you "native" americans who post in metric - 2.2 pounds equals 1 kilo.  It might help cover your scam

3/27/2013 8:45:48 PM

At the moment just meeting new people is cool.  Job assignments will have me relocating sooner than later. 

1/18/2013 7:35:52 AM

There's a lot of "talk" about having a mind and being ones self.  It occurs that real thinking and understanding  stands in opposition to belief structures.  When a person "truely" believes something, then all information is filtered to justify the belief.  Changing the belief requires tearing down the mental and physical structure to either open the mind or transplant a new belief system. 

2/2/2012 6:46:04 PM

For those with a bent for "intellectual discourse" - has anyone seen 'The Cave' in the 'Matrix'?

3/3/2011 10:33:18 AM

Though not a great fan of the Hon. Thomas Jefferson, he did have a few ideas worth considering.  He was constantly on his daughters regarding proper decorum.  Their purpose was to enhance domestic bliss. "(Her) whole life ought to revolve around the husband, hearth...be intelligent, talented, a good companion, and, a good homemaker."

He wrote to his daughter concerning dress:

A lady who has been seen as a sloven or slut in the morning will never efface the impression she has made, with all dress and pageantry she can afterwards involve herself in...I hope therefore, the moment you rise from bed, your first work will be to dress yourself in such style as that you may be seen by any gentleman without his being able to discover a pin amiss. (As cited in Padover, 1956, p. 16).

 

12/23/2010 1:46:16 PM

Submission is not about sex, it is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. It is about being the graceful, sensual, beautiful woman that resides within.  
 
Submission is about knowing who you are, and what you want. A submissive is NOT a weak person, but just the opposite. She is strong. She is strong in herself, and in the knowledge of who she is. She NEVER submits out of weakness or desperation. She submits out of strength, love, and trust.  
 
Submission is freedom. It is a letting go of one's self, knowing that the dominant is there to catch you if you falter. It is about pushing to be the very best one can be, not only as a submissive, but as a woman, a person, a human being. It is about learning, growing, and giving.

LdySSkye
 
 Age: 36
 Timisoara, Romania