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Intelligent discourse wanted. Differing viewpoints encouraged. Deep thinking encouraged. Childish behavior and blocking means both sides lose.
I am redheadvixen64 Master. I have been here over two years and finally decided to create my own profile. I am looking for switch and submissive women to augment our relationship. When we chat here I have one request Write like an adult. Text speech and profanity are poor substitutes for the English language. When we first chat there is a requirement of mutual respect between us. Sir is always appreciated but not required. Master is not a term I use loosely. That will be determined by subsequent discussions. I am vixens Master. She is required to use that honorific. When she stops using it freely then our relationship will be considered to be at an end. I am open minded to most kinks and fetishes. If your particular kink is not something I wish to explore, I will tell you. I offer a safe haven for those who seek it. The ability for a woman to explore her fantasies and know that someone is there who had her best interests at heart gives her the freedom and confidence to try new things. It is understood that there are fakes, wannabes, and clueless dolts that think they understand BDSM. If you feel that being caged and humiliated is what you crave, then you should have it. The concern arises when your desires outweigh your safety. This is where I come in.
I have a good amount of toys and experience with them. Bondage, flogging, various insertable. Lets explore your kink together.
The following is borrowed from another, but illustrates my feelings about BDSM. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honour. You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are not equal. We are parts of a whole. We compliment each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfil our needs. You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust,because I have opened my heart and soul to you, because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the most beautiful gift a woman could give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it. I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely cannot in reality be bought and if it could, it would never mean the same.
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You identify as slave?
You give up your rights
You give up your preferences
Your likes and dislikes are irrelevant.
As slave you are subject to the whims of your Master or Mistress
Be wise when you choose
The only other one you have is deciding to leave.
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Still looking. So many women seem to have preconceived ideas of what they're looking for. Found one today-likes huge cocks. No surprise. I like big tits. But just because you don't have big tits doesn't mean I'm not interested in you. I can't change what my parents DNA made me.
But, all she could come up with was a cutting remark. Good thing I'm not that thin-skinned. For the record; I call myself average in size.
So she crosses me off the list because of that and fails to take into consideration what I know about bdsm without inquiring further.
Another thing: "Don't start off with "hi" or " how are you"."
I thought the art of conversation was to make an introduction. So "nice tits" or "nice ass", "let's meet and let me beat you" is better?
Just what kind of introduction are you looking for?
Of course not. The truth is; no matter who you contact, you're going to get somebody upset. |
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Christ! I'm so sick and tired of the poseurs and the fakes!
I want a sub that learns and needs to be controlled by her Dom, and wants nothing more
than to please him. I am a fair Master and I value what a sub has to offer.
But these freaking demands are ridiculous. Either you put your trust in your Dom
Or you don't. Enough with the games!! I could say more, but why? |
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So,again I look at the profile of a female. In this last instance a Domme. I see she saw my profile so I send her a note. Surprise!! I'm blocked!
So, either these women have doubts about their power or position in the bdsm world, or they the most deplorable lack of manners.
If I send someone a note, for the most part it is to recognize their position, at times to ask questions to learn more. I'll admit to the occasional error, but I try not to be rude about it.
Honestly, 30 years old, 50 years old, or whatever age, act as an adult. |
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So I look at a "bisexual" female. Looking for a woman.
They look at me and I send them a note.
I'm blocked. Really? Why?
Not all males are idiots.
Many of them are. |
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What is it with these lesbian Dommes that block you for looking at their profile?
Have a few issues do they? |
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I was recently asked; "what kind of Dom are you?" I replied that I am a Dom that likes to help subs expand their limits. I am pretty much open minded to almost everything. And, I do have a chest full of toys. But, that is for discussions between me and the person involved.
SK |
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Well I cannot believe the amount of mail I get. I must be something right. It's nice to be wanted.
A couple of things.
One, I don't care if you're owned or not. I am not coming after you. I might talk about possibilities, but I'm not gonna try and tell you to drop who you're with. I want to enter into conversation. I want to learn more. If my questions put you off, then maybe you should reexamine your feelings about the subject matter. So, yes, I am very blunt.
I am a Dominant. I cannot change that anymore than you can change what you are. I have no need to prove it. When I enter into a dialog with someone I expect the same respect shown me, that I show to you.
I feel any topic is pretty much open to discussion. I'm always ready to listen to a different perspective or viewpoint.
Two: if you post a lot of pictures of one body part, and I say nice... Don't get put out, you posted the pictures, why, if not to invite comment.
Three: your hottest part of your body is your mind. |
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