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| My name is Dee (Mistress Lady Dee). I am a relatively new DOM. I've had three short term relationships. ONLY Looking for a female sub in the NY/NJ/CT area. If you are open to traveling to NY we can have a discussion. Hard Limits: ABC (no animals, no blood play, no children). There are some grey areas I will venture in to, to obtain the maximum experience and to heighten my pleasure. Sincere inquiries only. Not available for lengthy conversations unless you belong to me. No wanna be's need inquire. Games are for children. I believe that obedience training over a period of time can mold and develop you into what you were meant to be. Update ONLY LOOKING FOR A FEMALE TO BE THE s IN MY D/s.
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I had to change my profile because I was getting bombarded by so many inquiries. I am "vetting" a few potential candidates. Males are easier to find than females. Most men who are approaching me are looking for part time role playing or a findomme. Since I am planning to move to FL in the next two years my goals have changed/developed into building a relationship. |
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For the first time I reached out to, two female subs in the past week. One who admired me and another who came up on a search. I'm considering poly. |
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Talked to a few interesting subs tonight. And a Dom who is really a switch. I don't usually get involved with switches but she has peaked my curiosity. Now that my sub has moved away I am truly considering taking on a new prospect. I have spoken to three possibilities. But as everyone knows there are a lot of bullshitters on this site and those pretending to be a part of the lifestyle. I for one have a very low tolerance for BS! |
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I haven't been on this site for long but I have been able to interact with quite a few individuals. Some who seem to have difficulty understanding that we all, most of us anyway have lives, sometimes outside of the lifestyle. For those of us who work and live in a somewhat vanilla world, we love and appreciate the time we are able to be ourselves. To exhibit our true nature and to do what we were born to do.
Growing up with a strong dominant nature is not always an easy life for a woman. But inside you are aware that you are different and that one day you will come to know your true purpose. People are drawn to you because of your strength and sometimes volitility. They often covet your creative energy and try to stiffle it. The DOM in your nature always finds her way out. You may have even tried to live a vanilla life, in a vanilla relationship, in a vanilla world only to rebel in so many different places. (I have found that it only works with another DOM who understands you on a primative level)
So now is the time to be who you are, your true and authentic self, to stop lying because it makes people less afraid. To stop hiding in the shadows doing what you do best. Creating a source for pain and decimation is what we were placed here for. Everyone has their time and place. Ours is now to be who we are and a slaves is now to submit to the domination that is going to make them better than what they ever thought they could ever be. I see it clearly, don't you?
Mistress Lady Dee |
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This was written by a sub, very clearly states the objectives, responses and feelings of subjugation.
Subspace (also sub space, headspace, flying, or floating), in the context of a BDSM scene, is the psychological state of the submissive partner. The term is unrelated to the mathematical term subspace.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive's mind and body is in during a deeply involved play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The psychological aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn't placing him or her self in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Physiological Processes
During the scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasure trigger a sympathetic nervous system response, which causes a release of epinephrine from the suprarenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins. These natural chemicals, part of the fight or flight response produce the same effect as a morphine-like drug, increasing the pain tolerance of the submissive as the scene becomes more intense. Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong. |
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It isn't difficult to get into the mind of a lesser being when you review all of the data presented to you. The psychology of why someone needs to be dominated plays only a minor role in the relationship. While it does pay to be aware of where the need originated. Sometimes it is more important to determine how deep inside the individual the need is. As a DOM one of my roles is to make the subject actualize the need from their inner being to their outter. You work on the mind, body, spirit and soul of the individual. One needs to be broken down in order to fully realize ones "inner self". We were all put here with different purposes. One is to serve and subjugate, while the other is here to command, improve, train and dominate until perfection of some type is achieved. |
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