Found Myself a lovely little playpartner (On another site) My slave gets on with her rather well so thats good. But of course, as a result I'm not currently seeking ANYTHING else whilst that settles down. Then once I see how much time and energy I have left I can better judge what I have to offer and what I might choose to add further to this household.

Meanwhile My slave has also asked for and got permission to seek a playpartner of her own to indulge her Toppy side.... From what is catching her interests, that looks likely to be female (And no, that doesn't mean I'll be looking to be involved.... I am rather fucking particular about chemistry... if it ain't there, I don't care what they look like, I ain't interested!)

Sheesh around two years since I've done much on this site, but then year on year I've watched it get worse and worse. Mainly use another site now (FL). But I'll likely pop back here every so often so I may as well update it.

The young lady mentioned in the last update, two years ago still belongs to Me and has rather blossomed under My Ownership. It took time for her to fully grasp the depth of a proper M/s dynamic and also to build trust and comfort in Poly, but We got there eventually.

Currently looking for a playpartner again and, if the right chemistry is found open to adding a second slave to the household. Though I'm in no rush for either, I'd rather do without than waste My time with someone who simply isn't upto scratch. I don't appologise for having high standards, it takes more than simply having a cunt between your legs to be of interest to Me!

Well last weekend was certainly eventful and most satisfying. My new girl came for her first weekend with her new Master (I formaly recieved her total submission early on Friday evening). she was very brave considering the quarter centuary age difference between us.

I could hardly ask for a more delightful, enthusiastic, loving and obedient slave. I think she had more than a few surprises too. Even something that hithertoo had been a hard limit (Which when raised as a potential issue she immediatly reclassified as something she was willing to try 'for Me') is now a firm favorate (A big difference between someone incompetent trying to do something and putting her off it and someone taking the time and care to ensure she was introduced to it correctly.... plus of course she has an actual Dynamic working for her on such issues now).... she was rather inordinatly proud of herself having managed it. she was also rather proud of the bruises she found after We had been playing (She'd been claiming she NEVER bruised LOL)

Although she had to return to Southampton on the Monday, We have been in contact most of the time on most days so far. She is very much looking forward to getting back where she belongs on the 7th..... Not just to be back in My arms, but also I am taking her out on the london scene that evening. Her first major club and the first time I shall be playing with her in public.

From there We have (Barring a couple of days) a whole week together which will Be most benificial to both of Us (And another smaller event to attend on the 14th)

As I indicate on the profile. I am not currently seeking a second slave, I will start that search once I am satisfied this one is settled. For for now it is only playpartners I will be seeking.... especialy interested in those seeking higher levels of pain and/or objectification.

Remind Me not to change My aftershave, something is working thats for sure LOL I seem to have found the most delightful young slave.... Certainly real (Active on the scene in her area... We know some people in common) and hopefully meeting up soon.

she certainly ticks a large number of boxes, very cute, bright, good communicator, maso, slave.... and also a need for D/lg which she appeared to think was a barrier whilst in fact is a big bonus :)

BOGOF..... take on one slave/maso/fucktoy and get a free daughter LOL

I'm really hoping this young lady goes the distance, she certainly seems to be VERY special and has the potential to make Me proud to own her.

Good grief I did remember the password it has been so long since I've been on here I did wonder *g* I tend to use these days, Whilst I have found some amazing girls through here in the past, these recent years I've hardly spotted anyone actualy interesting on here any more, I am sure they are out there, just buried under all the idiots, trolls and people who would struggle to find the word 'Dynamic' in a dictionary!

But yes... currently back single. Last girl I had long term parted on very good terms (Still damn good friends).

The only search I've actualy given up on is 'submissive'.... It would only frustrate Me, I need someone seeking M/s, nothing less will really do. it takes a slave... it takes MY slave to press all the right buttons in Me and let Me feel actauly fulfilled in a relationship.

I am open to playpartners, but they are not as important to Me (If you can't accept that, click next profile now and don't waste My time). Such are scratching a few itches and having a few laughs (Even though time together will be a lot more CNC than most such offers you are going to get... if you don't know the term or what it means then likely I'm not the playpartner for you!)... just any authority/control lasts only from when you arive till when you leave, the rest of your life is your own and is of little interest to Me.

Only a slave will get that 24/7 commitment and responcibility from Me.

Well My girl has certainly learned there is a cost to puppyish bantering whilst her Master is talking about caning her on her birthday. Puppys of course get seven years for every human year, so 24 turns into 168.

she isn't the biggest fan of canes and has had a couple of months of antici............. pation of this coming. I had quite a nervous girl as the date approached, trying her best to find some way to avoid or reduce that number.... to no avail of course.

Her mind was somewhat distracted from it with a string of forced orgasms last night, but the nerves soon returned as We finished breakfast and she realised ... the time had come.

Flogging, paddling, spanking, punchplay... sounds like a nice little play session... and sometimes it is, today however... that was simply the warm-up. Then into the canes.

First batch 25 from the singapore, 25 from the straight dragon and another 25 from the singapore (She isn't as scared of thuddy, hence, of the two, the singapore is Me 'being nice'... OK, being as near to nice as I get)

Then a couple of hours tied to the bed, by way of a break. A slighter shorter warm up and the rest, spread out again between dragon and singapore. her nerve did break a little at one point and she couldn't hold position, bursting into floods of (very enjoyable) tears. But that was soon gotten over, even if I had to be rather firm about it... there was NO way out!

After getting back into it, she was surprised when I pointed out she only had 25 to go (I'd slipped in the spare 18 without her noticing, she'd totally lost count) and those last 25 (With the straight dragon) where very soon dealt out.

Not only had she gotten through it despite her fears, she had plenty of play left in her........

......... Out came the chain flogger for a session LOL

Followed by knifeplay and more forced orgasms... see I DO aftercare *g* OK OK, so there was lots of cuddles and "good girl"s too

she is still bouncy (if sore) having gotten through her birthday treat... well the play part. Still has her favourite tea to come, followed by ben&jerrys and....... a chocolate birthday cake.

Maybe a little waxplay later too... I shall see how I feel :)

There was a question elsewhere regarding wether I would accept money for My skills as a Top. (Not counting Demo's or workshops in this, only one-to-one sessions. Demos I have no problem with, even paid ones, if it was a skill I lacked I would consider paying to improve it)

Theoretically I have no problem with pro-topping (Just don't get Me started on whether pro-dom/mes are actually nothing more than pro-service-tops).

But realistically, if someone is paying then they want what they are paying for (Else they ain't going to come and pay again!) rather than what I want and I am no service Top.

Also as already mentioned, one does have to wonder WTF is wrong with the people who have to pay to get what so so many enjoy for free. Cheating on their spouse? (If so I'd have a ethical objection to being involved in it), real bad social skills (They would bore the hell outta Me so much that unless they where talking over 1k an hour I wouldn't consider them worth it!), Bad hygiene (Just no!) or downright dangerous (Put down the bunny and step away from the pan of boiling water!)?

So no, I VERY much doubt I would ever go the Pro route... I'll leave that to those who are ONLY Tops (service or otherwise) rather than Dom/mes *g*