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test results... I don't necessarily agree with all of these amounts though. Updated March 2022
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Owner
100% Master/Mistress
94% Dominant
93% Switch
90% Non-monogamist
90% Primal (Hunter)
83% Pet
81% Brat tamer
71% Experimentalist
67% Primal (Prey)
63% Voyeur
62% Degrader
61% Rope bunny
57% Submissive
47% Masochist
37% Brat
14% Exhibitionist
11% Daddy/Mommy
2% Vanilla
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Slave
0% Ageplayer |
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WA2jBMk-Pk |
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Ok, due to the fact that I am overwhelmed with messages and asking the same thing over and over... starting September 29, 2016 I will not reply to interested slaves without the word "application" at the top of their initial email. How do you write an application? It is pretty much like a job application. You tell about yourself, what experience you have, what you are looking for, and what interests you in a position with me. |
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You must be 'so intelligent' to enter.
One liners don't get attention.
I actually read your emails in length, so don't worry about writing too much. It is the 'too little' that bothers me. I don't want a empty glass. |
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Moved from Europe to Arkansas. Sounds like a mistake but isn't. The land here is so beautiful and I have a good chunk of it.
I'm missing my subs/slaves so time to get a few. Looking for live in slaves. |
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Hurrassment and internet stalking is bad ok?
Number 1... I am female, and was born a female. I have multiple pictures almost everywhere online to show this is true.
Some horrible woman on here.. well ok I'll back up...
I found a profile of a 'female submissive' and I really liked what she said in her profile. I knew I didn't fit what she desired, but I respected what she said and I wrote her saying so. Then after I sent her the email I went ahead and sent her a 'friends invitation' which if you notice on my profile I don't just add anyone.
She emailed me using quite rude language, and accused me of being a 'dumb male'. Uhm, ok. For one I'm not a man ok, and for 2 I was writing you with a compliment and you sent me this shit back? WTF!
Ok, so I emailed her explaining that she was mistaken and I didn't appreciate her response, and then I blocked her. Because honestly I didn't want another shitty email in my box.
So nearly a week goes by and I forget all about it. These things happen right? Wrong. She uses a 2nd account she owns to send me a threatening hurrassing email and again declares that I am a 'stupid man'. WTF!
Ok, so she's blocked on that account now and I've reported the email.
Seriously people, get a life! Some of us would rather spend our time on REAL PEOPLE than those who have so much hate and sorrow in their hearts that they spend their time spreading it all over others.
Well little monkey, go throw your poo at someone else.
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I'm just back from a 3 week trip in the US. I know there's several emails I haven't answered. Be assured I will answer them once I'm over my jet lag (in a few days).
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My slave is no longer with me, so if you applied before and I said I am 'full up' ... I'm not anymore. So I'm on the hunt now. Feel free to drop me a line if you are serious and real.
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You know what is really annoying is when someone complains about all the fakers and claim they are looking for someone REAL. Then when I show them I'm real they suddenly become the 'faker'.
If you can't handle meeting a REAL Mistress, then don't bother writing.
You should be real, just as I am.
If you aren't real, you are just an illusion... a nothing.
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Well I'm back from my trip to the US. I had a lovely time at the 'Thunder in the Mountains' event. I learned alot. (rubs hands evily) I met a lot of new people and caught up on life with some old friends as well. I hope to go next year but we'll see how it goes. I'm still suffering from jet lag and generally having TOO MUCH FUN. haha..so I'm ending up answering emails at weird hours. Give me a week and I'll be back to normal. (If there is such a thing as normal.)
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WHY in the world would you chat with me for weeks, send multiple emails on negotiations and what kinds of things you like, and then NOT show up when we finally set up a meeting???? Seems like a total waste of your time to me. If you're going to wuss out in real life, don't bother even emailing me.. much less any other Domme. Bad sub, no Domme for you!
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Sometimes people ask me things in chat which I really get a feeling that they are only asking because they want to jerk off to the fantasy in their head and really have no interest in knowing how things work or what I desire. You must realize I am NOT STUPID. If you ask questions like that I'm not going to answer them.
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Ok, added another picture since the one on the steps makes my face look blurry. Enjoy!
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Ok, I've posted this once already but the stupid site errored out so it didn't actually post. So now I'm going to put the highlights in that I can rememer. This is to talk about the flowers I received afew days ago which I am still enjoying honestly and they are blooming quite nicely. My post before apparently didn't explain things well enough so here's the basics. I don't have sex with my subs/slaves and I'm married. If I meet you for lunch it is NOT a DATE it is a INTERVIEW. So with these things in mind put yourself in my shoes and decide if you think flowers would be appropriate as a gift? Or do you think you'd feel a bit strange like I did? So, with that all said I DO like the flowers, they are one of my 3 best liked flower types and I'm thankful I was given them. |
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I have to rant now about the people on collarme.com. Now you must understand I've met some people from collarme and it has all turned out very good, so this has to do with the online presence. Now the collarme CHAT seems very friendly. People are nice and seem to have their heads on straight. As for the forums, well these have been a HUGE disappointment. When you post to the forums not only will the main point of your post be totally ignored but you will be picked apart, piece by piece and basically displayed as imperfect shit. My advice, don't post on the forums. Infact, don't even read them. Well, except for the jokes section which is pretty damn funny. The majority that post on the forums are narrow minded, everthing is either black or white, one sided, obsessive, unrealistic people who dwell on reading between the lines and focus on subjects you didn't even post about but happened to mention and they become obsessed with! One guy even accused me of having guilt due to my 'cheating on my husband'. WTF!? If you read my profile you'd pretty much gather that my husband knows about everything I do. Hell we've even shared a sub before. However my husband has nothing to do with the posts I posted! So now we can add people who attack you for no reason as well. Maybe I'm too much competition for him? Geeze. My god, all you forum people can just fuck off in my opinion.
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Gifts
I met with a potential sub today, he was very nice and we might get together sometime in the future. The thing that struck me as odd was the fact that he gave me flowers as a gift. Now that was very nice and sweet and I love the flowers he brought, but it got me thinking about how out of place giving me flowers was. I mean, certainly as a woman it was flattering and I certainly am not given flowers often enough, but he's a sub. So it got me thinking about what good gifts might be. I mean, if you actually want to buy something for someone for your first meeting. So what would be a good present for a Mistress? A new cane perhaps? A flogger? Perhaps a inexpensive set of leather cuffs. With today's prices these can be bought still within budget and they will certainly last her longer than flowers will. And cause less questions by vanilla family members who know my husband doesn't buy me flowers. haha. I suppose the only issue a Mistress might have with recieving these items is the pressure of playing with you. A Mistress wants to play when SHE wants to play and not be forced to play with someone she is still 'deciding' on. So I suppose you'd have to add the comment that it was just to add to her collection and comes with no strings attached. :)
Honestly I had a sub bring me a single tail recently. He bought it while touring europe and knew I'd like it. He added when he gave it to me that in no way was I allowed to use it on him. haha. He was serious (the little wuss) but I laughed anyway and thanked it. It really was a great gift. :)
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Ok, I need a houseboy/housegirl (no live ins). I've updated my profile for this, but I'm still accepting applications for other types.
I'm kind of a different sort of woman who likes to meet a person for lunch before I ever play with them. After all, I don't want every freak on the planet to know where I live. I've been stalked enough as it is. :/
One thing that really bothers me when meeting people is that they end up not even showered. I dressed up all sexy...but because you're male you don't think YOU have to? I'm sorry, but that extra danderuff hanging from your eyebrows is bothering me. You really think I'm going to let you in my house? Geeze. Don't think so!
If you want to be worth my time, then try to make yourself somewhat presentable ok?
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I've received several emails lately by people who apparently didn't read my entire profile and ask me questions that is already stated in my profile. This is one way to TRUELY piss me off and be added to my ignore / blocked list.
I've also received emails in German. Come on people...read my profile...it says I can not write in German. Geeze! I automatically delete those emails.
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