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	I am looking for a balanced relationship with someone with whom I can share many common interests. Definitely seekingsomeone who can be a partner to me. I want a relationship that is based on mutual compatibility that includes BDSM, not a relationship that is based on BDSM with hopes for mutual compatibility in other areas. Many relationships I see where the foundation is BDSM and the rest of it takes a back seat dont seem to last. In a nutshell, Im very outdoorsy - I love to rock and ice climb and I enjoy skiing. I also enjoy riding my motorcycle in the summer. I stay in shape. I would like someone who is also active, outdoorsy and in shape. If your preference is towards more sedentary activities, we will not be a good fit. If you want to stay in shape or improve your fitness, hanging out with me is probably a good way to do it. Who wants to join me for a Spartan race? And Im not a unicorn for folks hunting one. I am not submissive. I am a bottom at best. I don't do power dynamics, which is why I seek a power balanced relationship. Ive been in the lifestyle for about 30 years. At this point I enjoy intensity in my relationships, but I also want a laid back side so the relationship is balanced. I have an amazing life. Id like a partner to share it-not a dom to upend it.

12/26/2016 6:21:10 AM

Please, no more couples! Apparently folks don't understand the unicorn reference in my profile. I DO NOT do couples. I am NOT interested in being second fiddle to an existing partner. If you already have a partner you DO NOT have time for me. Being single is far preferable to me than being an afterthought in someone's existing relationship. There's nothing a triad has to offer that can improve on my existing life, so I'm not interested.

1/19/2014 7:15:04 AM

Finished my first marathon on 1/12/14. Super happy!

10/12/2012 5:58:59 AM

I get approached by a few guys who seem to want to create order and structure in the lives of others, while their own lives are not in order. If you cannot manage your own life effectively, you're probably not qualified to manage someone else's. Start by taking proper care of your own affairs.

10/11/2012 7:13:00 PM

I did Tough Mudder in Las Vegas last weekend. Any takers for Tough Mudder in Colorado next June?

5/26/2012 11:47:47 AM

I push myself hard. I want a partner who pushes themselves as hard as I push myself. Someone who wants to push me but doesn't push themselves is not interesting to me. Someone who pushes themselves would be a great partner in crime for me. I don't need a cheering section for my next half marathon or mud run. I need a running partner.

11/2/2011 5:54:33 PM

Apparently my profile isn't clear enough. I am looking for a long term primary relationship, not a play partner. If you are married, you are not available for that by definition. Since I've had a whole bunch of married guys contact me recently, I guess I need to be a lot more blunt about it. Married men are a hard limit for me, so let's not waste each other's time.

8/31/2011 6:31:48 AM

I'm starting to wonder if there's an inverse relationship between how "real" someone professes to be and how much of a fake they actually are.

8/15/2011 6:05:07 AM

Great weekend of climbing at Elevenmile Canyon. I hadn't been out in a while and it was great to get outdoors, do some climbing, camping and hanging out with old friends.

7/27/2011 5:53:30 PM

I'm athletic. I climb. I ski. I like whitewater rafting. I do Aikido. I don't expect someone to be a world class athlete, but I do want someone who can keep up with me.

I like people who are willing to spend the time to get to know me. If you want sex/play on the first date, you're going to be disappointed with me. If you expect instant subservience and submission from me just because you have decided you are dominant, you're going to be disappointed with me. If the only thing you want to talk with me about is sex/bdsm you're going to be disappointed in me.

If you're willing to take the time to get to know me, I don't think you will be disappointed. There are a lot of layers. It takes time to peel them away and find interesting stuff underneath. But that's where the fun is.

7/25/2011 11:06:30 AM

This seems like it's really difficult. I thought what I was looking for was fairly simple. I want a long term relationship that involves romance, fun and heavy SM. Is that so much to ask for?

5/7/2009 9:56:00 PM

And no, I don't do cyber or phone.

5/6/2009 6:12:04 AM

Apparently I haven't been clear, because I still get mail from people who don't live in the Denver metro area but can relocate. I am not interested in a long distance relationship, even if the person can potentially relocate later on. If they don't live within a couple hours driving distance of Denver then they're not a suitable match.

4/30/2009 11:51:10 AM

Althought the attention is flattering, it is also very frustrating when I get inquiries from people who have either missed or (more likely) deliberately ignored the fact that I state in my profile that I am only interested in people who live in the Denver metro/Colorado Springs area. I admit I don't know why folks ending up wasting both our times. Color me confused.