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I've had a lovely image of a "first date." After a lovely series of emails and discussions, You finally decided that I am to be allowed the privilege of meeting You in person. Of course, there are several caveats, not the least of which is the requirement that I attend the date locked in the metal chastity cage You had me purchase shortly after we began chatting. I am to bring the key to the lock to the "date." After You are comfortably seated, I am to place the key to the lock presently on the cage onto the table. It will stay there during the meal and drinks - a symbol of the relationship being considered throughout. If at the end of the date, You are interested and attracted to me, you'll take the key with You and leave. If not, you'll leave the key and there will be no second date. Of course, You have a slightly different plan, as You are always several steps ahead: if you are interested, instead of just taking my key, You'll slide a lock across the table - Your lock. I am not allowed to leave the table until I take off my lock (proving I brought the right key) and put your lock on the cage (for which only you have a key). If You want to own, You would never risk that I have a spare key at home. Ownership must be real, and a metal cage with a metal lock is the only way to ensure Your ownership is truly real. ********************************* Update: Let me be clear (as there has been some confusion), I absolutely love to cum; I am very normal in that regard. I simply know how allowing a man to orgasm regularly changes his attitude and submissiveness. To me, being a good submissive should be more important than my great enjoyment of cumming - hence my profile name. Of course, using that "desire" as a means of torment is - perhaps - one of the best ways for a Domme to get what she wants! ;) Back to our regularly scheduled profile.... I understand that Mistresses have to deal with flakes on the sub side, too. If we both are reasonable and genuine, I'm sure I can provide you with the enjoyment you desire! ;) I'm a very polite, eager, helpful, enthusiastic submissive. I will not fight you or struggle with you. What works for me is being truly, fully controlled. I hope to find the right, beautifully sadistic Woman who absolutely believes cumming is truly for women and takes great pleasure in control of me and caging of (her) cock. I saw a Mistress' profile which read, "The longer you are denied, the more controllable you become." I thought that was well put and very true. I want to see how far that goes. I'm very focused on my Mistress' pleasure and I want her to be happy - and not have her "worry" about my deep need to cum - except as to make it worse and worse for her pleasure! I am attractive and fit, very polite and respectful. I am a professional man, and fairly "alpha" in my job and vanilla life (though, more affectionate and caring than what would truly be considered an "alpha" male). Deep down I most want to have a beautiful woman in charge, and feel the cage she locks onto me each and every day, and I know I could please her and increase her happiness. As is my nature, all inquires will be addressed with respect and understanding of the relative position of power a woman should have over me. == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
84% Slave
79% Masochist
73% Primal (Prey)
46% Degradee
43% Brat
42% Pet
34% Rigger
32% Boy/Girl
28% Voyeur
27% Experimentalist
12% Vanilla
7% Exhibitionist
6% Non-monogamist
4% Primal (Hunter)
2% Ageplayer
2% Daddy/Mommy
2% Master/Mistress
1% Dominant
1% Owner
1% Sadist
0% Degrader
0% Switch

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4/19/2018 3:50:52 PM
A few thoughts on how the game of chess mirrors D/s, beyond the merely strategic:

The King’s movement is tightly constrained, only one small step in any direction at a time - to keep him for venturing to far out for his own good;

The Queen’s movement is the most free, any direction, any time, without limitation or worry as to the eventually consequences for the whole endeavor;

The King begins directly next to the Queen, the most powerful entity on the board, for his ultimate protection;

The Queen begins in the center of the board, dominating every lane of travel from the beginning;

The Queen begins on her own color, as she defines the strength of her side;

The King begins on the opponent’s color, in danger from the outset;

The Queen’s dynamic maneuvers cause all the other pieces to define their own status relative to her position.

The Queen is ultimately creative, able to carry out her every whim;

The King is plodding, his movements defined entirely by others;

When the King is done, the game is over. Everything must reset.

When the Queen is done, nothing stops.

2/1/2018 9:09:15 AM

Is there anyone left on this site that's real?  Someone who isn't operating on some prefabricated list of responses?  All of these profiles, with all of these professional (stolen) photos purporting to be the actual person typing....  and then emails written by someone for whom English is clearly a fourth or fifth language.  Check this one out:


"are you still OBEY or Comply to serve end want to explore more in the realness Hypnotized darkness of BDSM ?"

What does that mean?  I've tried numerous times to figure it out.  If you have any idea, please let me know.  lol


12/11/2017 11:53:16 AM
Once again! 

I have been lead through the "Sign up for a slave profile" more times than I can count.  I get it. You must get some commission for getting people to sign up for some random website. I'm not going to do that. 

Please just don't bother me with that pre-form anymore.

9/22/2017 11:34:31 AM
Interesting experimentation:

Having recently purchased a metal chastity cage, I thought I'd try a few things that should be unique in a metal cage.

First - being forced into a frozen cage (even dipped in water before putting it in the freezer for a couple of hours). 

While this seems like it would be interesting and a devious punishment, it really doesn't do much. The contact between the skin and the metal is a bit shocking at first, but the metal quickly warms to the temp of the skin.

Oh well.  Always fun to try new ideas.  If anyone has any other experiments they'd like to explore, I seem to be running my own little lab over here!

10/21/2016 3:45:24 PM
Free to cum as I wish!!!  And cum and cum and cum.

Feels wonderful to cum, but also feels wrong knowing that I'm taking a critical pleasure away from a beautiful Woman who would enjoy controlling and denying all such things.

I used to believe that I should minimize my orgasms - even when not under the control of a wonderful Miss, out of a sense of respect for the Woman I hoped to find.  But, I think, now, all such "control" should be Hers and Hers alone to enjoy.  My attempt to regulate is a form of co-opting the control we all know She should have. 

Or is this just a good excuse to be able to cum and cum and cum until "She" says Stop?

Hmmm.

9/8/2015 5:16:58 PM
Looking for a whole 'nother level?  ;) Not only should a man be denied orgasms, perhaps, he should not even be allowed to use the word - or any word that connotes his pleasure.  I think the language that we use (or don't) can be a wonderful part of the control She has. 

Online, I suppose it is a bit like protocols in person:  She tells him where he is allowed to look, head bowed forward, kneeling, hands behind his back - all the while knowing how much he wants to be able to see Her beauty.  

I think a well-owned cock should exist in the whim of the superior Woman who owns it:  no asking or begging, it is soft when She desires it to be, hard when She thinks it would be fun to torment.  

Thinking about that one special Mistress who desires to teach and demand a completely different level of control.   

9/18/2014 10:00:53 AM
Only so long I can go and be good without being controlled.  Orgasm is unavoidable!  grrrrr

9/5/2014 4:36:51 PM
I found this wonderful list which mirrors my desires and is exactly what I believe I should follow:

The femdom rules of engagement:

1) Her word is his command.

2) His body is hers to do what she wants with.

3) She decides what clothes he wears, if any.

4) He may never touch her without permission.

5) She can order him to use his hands, penis or tongue to pleasure her in any way she wants, at any place and at any time.

6) Being allowed to lick/kiss any part of her body, including her pussy, ass, arm pits and feet is a privilege he should thank her for. 

7) He must never have an orgasm without her permission.

8) He must never touch his penis while it is erect.

9) She may tease and stimulate him as she wishes without any obligation to allow him an orgasm.

10) She can bind him in any position she wants for her pleasure or amusement. 

11) His genitals and ass must be clean and shaven at all times.

12) She can inspect his genitals and ass whenever she likes.

13) She can punish him physically for not following her directions or if she simply just feels like it.

14) She may penetrate his ass with butt plugs or strap-ons whenever she likes. 

15) He is responsible for buying any sex toys she wants and cleaning them after use. 

16) He should do all household chores, unless exceptions are made by her. 

17) He must ask for permission to go to the bathroom.

18) When sharing a meal together he must always wait for her to start eating before he starts.

19) He must exercise for at least 30 minutes on average every day

20) She may change or add rules whenever she likes.


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chilipeppermama
 
 Age: 32
 Houston, Texas