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| June 2015
It has been a long time since I visited here. I see it has a slightly different name now. I was going to rewrite my introduction/profile. But what is here is still what I would write now. Either my life is very stable or quite boring!!!!!
You should read this all the way down, it does have information you might find helpful.
July 2013
As life continues many things change. I once again find myself desiring a gentleman who seeks a no-strings D/s relationship. I recall the beauty of a strong man kneeling willingly as I place cuffs on his wrists and thanking me after a long spanking. My hands remember petting his head as we sit and sip wine in the evening. Having someone cook a meal or clean up after me when I cook, watching a gentleman open the car door and carry shopping bags are all things that might happen once again - with the right person.
I am still married and s to my Sir. But only to him.
I have grown to recognize and embrace my D side I am not a true sadist as I get no sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain or other sensations. But to have a strong man willingly submit himself to my hands and accept what I do to him is such a head rush. For me it is the power, the feeling that you trust me to do things that will make you squirm, things that might make you laugh or might even make you cry; that is what makes me happy.
Being pampered once in a while is nice as well. Foot rubs, having someone brush and braid my hair, being read to are all wonderful things.
Hello,
I decided I ought to add a bit of something here. I actually like most of what I have written here, but time moves forward and feelings and desires change. While I have had the extreme pleasure of meeting and getting to know some very interesting and enthusiastic submissive/masochistic gentlemen, currently and for the time being I am not looking to meet anyone with the specific goal of establishing an ongoing D/s or bdsm relationship.
Also, I do NOT submit to anyone but my Husband/Master.
We are both happy to make new friends in the community, and we love hosting evenings in our home out in the country. We neither feel over qualified , but we have been around awhile and we are glad to answer questions and offer ideas.
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Long, hard spankings.
Sweet, stinging paddles.
Clothespins, clips, clamps.
Slow, sensual, sharp points running down your back.
The tingling of a thousand tiny stings.
The strong, proud, masculine gentleman willingly surrendering.
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Not currently looking for any "relationship", but always open to what fate may decide to place in my path - or even in the alley!
It would be nice if new friends can also hold a literate conversation at lunch.
Happy to correspond and make new friends; we never really know what might be possible until we give it a shot.
ALL gentlemen will meet and interact with Argent, but will serve me.
Be Well
Be safe in your journeys.
Never compromise yourself.
Never settle for less than you deserve.
Make the world a better place because you are in it.
and
If you can't keep up ~ take notes!
** MsOpal is married, her husband Argent is her Dominant. However she is not a "switch" and is Dominant to ALL others. **
You may read the profile for argentopal to learn more about us.
Thank you for your time
(yes, I do believe that "D" types can and should have manners and even show some appreciation to the "s" types.)
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Once again it has been way too long. But life is slowing down some, so maybe I will have more time now.
I am enjoying perusing the new profiles and recognize a few from way back still here as well.
There is something that continues to make me wonder in many profiles .... the hard limit on knife play. if you are concerned that knife play is about being cut or bleeding or being at risk of serious harm, I would like to be able to hold your hand for 5 minutes and introduce you to the sensual beauty of blade play. If you would trust me with just your hand for just 5 minutes I could take you to the heights of sensuality and make your entire body tremble... from pleasure not fear.
of course we could do fear as well if that excites you.
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Oh Wow, I didn't realize it had been so long since I wrote anything. I admit to being on "the other site" a lot more that here.
I do hope everyone has a safe, warm, and love filled holiday season, what ever holiday season you celebrate. Our lives are full, but calm. The deer are fat and sassy, the fox is alone for the winter and still eating her hot dogs, the guinea pigs are spoilt, and the snake is sleek and loving. The completed bedroom is amazing. I am sewing again, and getting ready to bake 11 birthday cakes, all for the same person and all decorated differently!
I take joy in my good friendships, that have withstood so many trials and remain steadfast. I take pleasure at the hands of Argent and give Him in return all I can. I let go the things that trouble my soul, and welcome the peace that returns to me.
Be Well, MsOpal |
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We just met the nicest gentleman from CM. He is intelligent and interesting with a good sense of humor and a smile that includes his eyes and lights up his face. He is passionate about the things he loves and any Lady would be fortunate to include him in her life.
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~smiles~ I wonder how many hours a month I spend reading profiles, it's become a hobby of sorts I suppose. I do enjoy the informative ones and especially the ones that show a sense of humor. Life is serious enough! I know wiitwd is serious and deep and meaningful and with the right person it can be what makes us whole. But for myself, without some levity and fun it can become too heavy. Sometimes in a "scene" laughter can be as much of a release as an orgasm can. Without joy what good is anything that we do?
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Please, please, please ... Gentlemen who are or think they are dominant; my Husband and I are always open to making new FRIENDS. But I am NEVER submissive to anyone but Him. I do NOT consider myself a "switch" but that was the most honest thing to put on our profile. It is in some ways amusing to read an assumptive letter from a "D" and in some ways just insulting. Please read. Please stop!
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here boy, here boy **whistles**
panties ...
mmuuhhaaahahahaaa
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I didn't realize I had "been away" for so long! Family, friends, house, travel and assorted odds and ends seem to have conspired to distract me and keep me occupied elsewhere. Don't you hate it when that happens?
I will be catching up with everyone as soon as I can. Take care and have fun!
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Good Morning,
Life can take odd turns at times. We need to be observant and open to the oportunities we find along the way. Some of them may be hidden and need to be sought out gently.
May you find the hidden treasures along your path and enjoy them to the fullest!
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Why do MaleDoms keep reading my profile, and even sending me emails? I know the profile says I will correspond and we never know what might happen, but it also states I am married and I am "s" to my Husband/Master ONLY and "D" to all others.
SO, to be clear ... I do not understand what a MaleDom hopes to gain by writing me an email. I am not interested in a relationship with MaleDoms, except for general friendships, and those will absolutely include my Master, Argent.
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Back in the land of the living, as my aunt used to say. My hiatus was much needed.
Now ... where is that panty-boy, huh?????
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I feel a panty shopping trip coming on so very very soon!
Now, the questions is, who would they be for????
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Time goes by so fast and yet so slow. I never have enough of it, but at times there is too much between here and there.
I need to go panty shopping! I need to find some so pretty, so girly panties for that someone special.
Oh, and maybe a new paddle too!!! weg!
muhahahahahaaaaa ....
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Time, time, time - if only there were more of it! More time to spank, swat, cane, paddle, taunt, tease and hang heavy objects! More hours in a day, more days in a week, more time to discover all the delightful ways to make someone shudder and moan!
I would never have thought that I would feel that finding pretty panties for a boy to wear was fun - but - oh my goodness, it is!
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It is just a wonderful feeling knowing that somewhere there is a very good boy wearing something very special all day today just because I told him to, and because he knows how pleased it makes me to know it.
~smiles!!
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~~aargghhh ... personal trainers are the worst kind of sadist - he smiles the entire time and doesn't care if I have a good time or not ... wait, hhmmm.
One month and still going back for more, maybe a subbie know needs to watch out next time, mmuuhahahaaa ... I'm doing free weights with the big boys now!
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Doing the Happy Domme Dance!
Is there anything like seeing a beautiful man quivering under your hand!
Is there anything like hearing their moans and gasps!
Is there anything like seeing the redness on their bottom!
Wow, do i feel good today!!!
~smiles to the wonderful boy who made me feel this good~
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Now if I could just find a gentleman who would be my mechanic in return for flogging and spanking and ...
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~smiles.
When the gods smile on us, the day is beautiful! Sometimes I wonder why I ever doubted things would right themselves!
What a joy it is to talk to certain people and what a smile they bring to our faces. How we miss them when they are away and how look forward to their return.
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Does typing here frustrate anyone else??
It does not retain the form or format that I so carefully arrange as I am making a new entry!!!
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Enough with the humidity already ... I did not move to Houston!!!
I hope everyone has been having a good time ~ I had a great week.
Sometimes people are exactly who they seem to be and sometimes that is a good thing; other times it is a great thing!
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April 24 - I will not be reading or answering any messages here... but I will be back.
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Some days you're the windshield, some days you're the bug ... either way the bug is dead and the windshiled is a mess!
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Who knew it would be this hard! Just when it all seems good ... poof!
Oh well, another day another play time missed!
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Well, I hate to feel like I have joined the ranks of whiners, but I have taken the profile down because I am joining the ranks of the disillusioned. I do have a sweet, obdient boy and he is pleasure to know. But how many men and women on here are only here to "tease" and flake out whe push comes to shove. I am kind and patient and really don't ask much, but it seems that expecting someone to actually follow thru on their own expressed desires is just too much to ask. I would not even die over being told to go screw myself by somone, but to be told over and over 'oh,yes I want to ...' with no followthrough or to be told "I want to come meet you" only to have your next letter and all subsiquent attempts at communication simply ignored for no aparrent reason is frustrating and disheartening!
Oh well - their loss!
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Another beautiful Hill Country day! Yeah, it was a bit on the nippy side last night, but heck, it's Easter weekend, right? When can you recall not having to bundle a coat or sweater over that cute little Easter outfit?
Life moves on, and time goes by so fast sometimes that we hardly blink and it's next month. It has been that long since I had the chance to enjoy myself making a subbie-boy squirm. I antcipate with evil thoughts the next opportunity!
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Yep,yep, life is good! Had a wonderful first session with a gentleman ... how amazing to elicit such responses from someone; how gratifying and fulfilling! You know who you are - thank you for your trust and your body for me to play with!
~smiles~
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Big Smile! This life is good!
Well, today it is and I have high hopes that things will all turn out in a way that makes a whole bunch of people happy.
I am currently negotiating with two wonderful gentleman. They are as different as night and day, but both have great potential. Then there is an s/s couple that Argent and I are negotiating things with also. Now, does anyone have the website where I can buy more hours in a day, or maybe an extra day or two as we need them? ~s~
Each of these potentials was met right here on CM, so if you are reading this and feeling like it's hopeless, don't give up. I know that each of them has the potential to fulfill some part of what I am seeking and I hope that I can be good for them as well.
If any of 'them' are peeking in here ...
**HI** I know things are still new and we are just working it all out, but each of you makes me smile for different reasons. I love the emails and the chats and I hope that each of you is finding this part of the getting to know each other fun as well.
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I had a boy, and when I fussed, quite strongly, because he
stood me up with no explanation or apology (not the first time either) he
"cancelled" our contract, and did so by email while I had asked to
meet him for lunch to talk face to face about what ever was going on with him.
I am sorry, if you say you are going to call me so we can go
to lunch together, you better call when you say you will and if there is an
'emergency' you better call or email or pm me ASAP - and do not use a sympathy
ploy, especially not the same one twice!
I will be as patient and as understanding as I can be - but
you had better deserve it, or will get what you do deserve! gggrrrrrrr!!!!
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I don't get it. 
How many ways can I say I do NOT want a live in boy? If you send me a letter and ask if you can relocate and be our houseboy you will NOT get a response! I want to be polite and I want to be understanding, but how many ways do I need to say this?
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 Let me get this part right out of the way - I do not want a live in boy. I want someone I can get to know face to face and who will be able to come stay in our home for weekends. Please, really go read the profile for argentopal before you send me a letter from Timbuktu and say you will relocate. I will not support you, and you will not pay tribute or support me. You might spend time in our home but you will not live here. You and I will also not be sexually active with one another. I hope to find someone who wants some bdsm play, wants to learn, explore, feel new things and wants to be "in service" to a Domme or DomCouple. |
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