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I am a dominant man and have been very active within the BDSM community since 1998. I live a 24/7 Master/slave relationship with my two slaves and live in Colorado Springs. I am polyamorous, Sadistic, Evil in all the best ways, a Daddy, a Dominant, adventurous and a relentless toy-whore. I love building toys, dungeon furniture and am the Founder of Voodoo Leatherworks, a dungeon, swingers club, art studio and alternative lifestyle community center in Colorado Springs, CO. Mentoring I teach classes regularly, am a member of several different educational BDSM organizations and provide private Mentoring to individuals who I feel would benefit from that knowledge and who are interested in paying that knowledge forward by teaching others and by contributing back to the community in their own way. To me, Mentoring is a non-sexual, non-play relationship between a teacher and a student. It's a meaningful exchange of ideas and experience between one person and another for a mutual benefit. I expect to learn as much from my experiences with an apprentice as I hope my apprentice expects to learn from me. Mentoring includes: * Basic BDSM Philosophies * Developing Self-Awareness * Developing Communication Skills * Developing Relationship Skills * Developing Teaching/Instructional Skills * Community Awareness * Play-Based Skill Development R.A.C.K I am a close follower of the R.A.C.K philosophy - which essentially means, we are *all* responsible for our own actions. If and when I fuck up... and believe me...I fuck up; I own it. I take responsibility for my actions and do my very best to know what I'm getting involved in before I accept the risks and move forward with the decision. This philosophy applies to my play, (who I play with, how I play) but it also applies to my relationships. M/s, 24/7 and TPE carry just as many risks as does heavy play. Do not expect to engage in that kind of relationship with me (or with anyone) until you have really considered the risks involved. Conflicts I have an open door policy for anyone who feels as though my actions or words are or have been offensive. I can handle criticism and I can handle the idea of people not liking me. I do take issue however, with those who feel offended by me, my actions or affiliations and have chosen to address their grievances with others in the community as opposed to having the strength of character to address their issues with me personally. I take issue with these passive-aggressive and cowardly behaviors because they undermine the quality of the community that several people have worked very hard to build and maintain. So, if you feel as though I have harmed you or offended you and/or your loved ones in any way, I sincerely hope that you will address the issue with me directly. Without discussing the issue with me, there is no way I can possibly apologize for an oversight, explain the context or intent of my actions/words, or address the issue in an adult manner. Talking about me... instead of **to** me is just chickenshit. Other stuff... I like to play hard, but I am able to play at many different levels, again depending upon the experience and comfort levels of the person I am playing with. I enjoy sensual Sadism, sensory play, light to heavy bondage, domestic discipline, body percussion, objectification, obedience training, orgasm control... the list goes on and on. I enjoy banter, intelligent argument, playfulness and I truly appreciate the grace and beauty of submission. I understand that respect is something that must be earned and that open, honest communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. I have no illusions about who I am. I have no spooky powers and I don't expect submissive women to fall over themselves for the opportunity to kneel at my feet. I am just as comfortable flogging a submissive in a bathrobe and slippers as I am flogging her in leathers. I am approachable, casual (although I appreciate high protocol as well) insightful and feel that I have a good sense of humor. I'm human, I fuck up sometimes, I make the same mistakes other humans make and I do my best to learn from those experiences. I am always interested in meeting new people and truly enjoy teaching, training and getting to know the amazing people I run into every day. I don't deal with drama, toxic personalities or manipulative behaviors and have taken measures to create as peaceful an environment as I can for myself and for those I consider family. I believe in surrounding myself with quality people who are intelligent, humorous and of solid character. I don't spend much time online, but I am always interested in meeting new people.