I am a lifelong practitioner of SadoMasochism. The former by far, the latter, rarely and only under certain very specific circumstances. That being said S/m "Top/bottom" are my preferred dynamics's by far.

I am very compartmentalized and do not fluctuate between the aforementioned roles.

Your defined role will clearly indicate the nature of my interest and my reason for contacting you.

I respect al protocol based relationships for those who live the lifestyle out loud. Howeve, I do not live the lifestyle and do not practice the protocol.

My personal perspective is that the central pillar of a Sadist Masochist partnership is mutual gratification between parties sharing mirrored interests.

I prefer equipment and implement heavy sessions. As negotiating compatible schedules can be complicated, I prefer lengthy sessions when possible.

Honesty is the first step in establishing trust, and equally important is safety and the disclosure of any physical or emotional health issues.

I strive to never surprise anyone, and have no tolerance for anyone surprising me.

SafeWords and SafeSignals are an absolute, however, I will say that few or none of my PlayPartners over the years have ever actually needed to

use them.

That is because I pay attention, read the room, observe body language, and throttle up and down accordingly.

Anyone lacking basic self control and the ability to act in a responsible and measured manner has no business Topping in any capacity. Period.