I discovered this crazy world when I was nineteen, and to this day I am grateful for the amazing teachers I had and have. Now, ten years later, I find myself starting an incredible new chapter and I can't wait to see how it unfolds. Sadly, I was out of touch with the community for quite some time. So many things in every day life got in the way. After realizing how much I missed it, I dove back in head first! Now I'm active in both the Louisville and Lexington scenes, and hosting the First Fridays @ Fringe eighteen and up event each month.
Now, I will admit to having a bad memory sometimes, so if I meet you at a munch or party and you send me a request that I don't accept for a while, or at all, just poke me and let me know. I'm also always happy to help out anyone new to the lifestyle, the community or the area, or answer questions.
While switch is the closest general term to what I am, it is not the most accurate. I know to whom I belong, who owns me, who I serve, simple as that. I have a strong personality and a large Dominant/Top streak. Currently, I'm working on rebuilding my toy collection and getting my skills back up to par. I have had a male submissive in the past, though I have no desire to have such again. With prior discussion, I am open to the possibility of playing with male subs at the parties, or even "adopting" one for the night. I have never had the desire to submit to any woman but one, and to my amazement she recently came back in to my life in the most unexpected way! For years, I have dreamt of having a girl of my own, and I am still seeking.
I have been described by friends as odd, weird, crazy, twisted, sick, loyal, creative, dark, funny, smart and totally insane. I can’t really argue. I take pride in being a little different. I know I lean a bit towards the macabre side of life, but I like it over here. I wear a lot of black, and tend to have a slightly masculine edge to my wardrobe while at the same time having a serious formalwear fetish. I'm a little old fashioned. Manners matter to me. Butchery of the English language makes me twitch. To quote a favorite song from a classic musical, "Look at her, a prisoner of the gutter/Condemned by every syllable she ever uttered/By law she should be taken out and hung/For the cold-blooded murder of the English tongue." I believe in loyalty, and that respect is earned, no matter what. On the other side of that, I have zero tolerance for rudeness and disrespect. Aiming that at me is one thing, however, rudeness or disrespect (intentional or otherwise) towards either my Daddy or my Master will not be tolerated under any circumstances. I am fiercely protective of those I care about. The red hair may not be natural, but it is a warning. I've the temper to match!
I’m fairly laid back until I get excited about something, then I can be bouncing off the walls. I'm goofy, and I love to laugh. If you take yourself too seriously, you and I are going to have issues. I am very much a people person, very artistically inclined and very much a geek. Yes, I am a gamer. I currently own an NES, Gamecube,Xbox and a laptop built for gaming. I am also a music geek, with VERY eclectic taste in music…ranges from showtunes to oldies to metal to trance to gothic/industrial to new age to ska. And don’t even get me started on cartoons from the late 80’s/early 90’s. I love to read, cook, rollerblade, go horseback riding, camping, writing…the list could go on for a while. Theater was, and always will be, my first love and writing my second. To my absolute delight, it's looking like the later is turning in to a full blown career for me.
I have one hell of a kinky, sadistic streak to me. Ok, so, that's the majority of me, lol. I love bordering on the taboo, pushing boundaries and limits…just don’t expect me to until trust has been established. That goes for play on either side of the whip, if you get my meaning. Trust and safety are very, very important to me.
Watching Ghost Hunters International and browsing CM and FL...gee, I lead such an interesting life,lol. I really should get around to doing some more work on book number two, but I seem to have been bitten by the writers block bug.
I've also got to say, I have been getting so frustrated in my search for a girl of my own, or even just a female playmate. Now, I'm not a shallow person, some of the coolest people I know are on the larger side of life, but I am just not physically attracted to women or men who are significantly over weight. A little meat on the bones is fine, since I don't care much for toothpick types either, but it seems around here that all the cute ones are taken and all the ones that are interested aren't even close to a healthy weight. *sigh*
4/3/2010 2:14:59 AM
I feel that I should put this out there for anyone thinking of contacting me. I am a very strong willed and opinionated person. That's not going to change.
Also, while I am fine with a few emails back and forth to start, I prefer to at least move on to messenger fairly quickly, if not a face to face meeting.
Lastly, and I know this sounds shallow, but I really do prefer someone well-endowed. It's not a requirement, but it would be nice.
4/1/2010 6:21:17 AM
As I have changed my profile and know that it will be getting more attention now than it has in a while, there is something I feel the need to mention. I am a part of a near by renaissance festival, and as such my weekends are limited from now until about mid July. For now, I am busy until about 6pm on Saturdays and Sundays. Once season begins June 5th, I will be out of town from Friday afternoon/evening until sometime late Sunday evening. My ability to travel will be very limited.
12/18/2008 7:38:08 PM
In case anyone actually reads these things, I am looking for someone with editing skills to help me with some stories I am working on.
12/4/2008 4:31:48 PM
Once again starting to look for a girl to play with. It's been a while since I had the chance, and I find that I am missing it. I also have two new pictures up. Both taken by a photographer friend of mine, one in a local park and one in my second home. *WEG* Only thing that is different about me now is that my hair is slightly darker.
11/12/2008 10:28:18 AM
So, I finally was able to get my tattoo finished. I was amazed at how quickly my artist was able to do the lines for the small knot work pattern while maintaining the quality. All in all, I am in love with it, it doesn't hurt too bad and once again, no redness at all so I expect to heal up quickly. One picture up with better ones to come as soon as I am done moving.
7/27/2008 3:28:18 AM
As of right now, I have decided that it's just best if I stay single. Plain and simple. Way too much going on in my life, just had a couple of BIG announcements at a meeting at work today that directly involve me, so I am going to be swamped from now until sometime in November, if not for longer. Part of me thinks I'm just ment to stay single. Who know...
7/12/2008 1:17:54 AM
So, I finally did it. I got the tattoo that I have put four years of careful thought and planning in to. And I couldn't be happier with it. It turned out beautifully. I've put up a picture that will show whenever collarme gets around to approving it, and hopefully I will have some better quality shots of it soon. The detail on it is quite something, and I am very proud.
7/9/2008 7:39:02 PM
Apparently this site is on crack again, since it doesn't seem to want to let Me get My new profile to look the way I want. Even when I get the spacing and everything just right on the editing page, it comes up looking goofy when I go to view it. Go figure...grrrr.
Also, new pics going up...stupid site should have them up in a week or two I'd imagine.
1/22/2008 7:20:52 PM
I have to say, in the last month, I have met more real people from this site than I thought I ever would. Several from the local scene, and some just local to the area, and one special young lady that I seem to spend an insane amount of time talking to. I am excited about the prospect of meeting her real time, and sometimes it seems that we share one brain.
1/7/2008 7:00:37 AM
Seems like with the new year comes a new round of "male subs" emailing everything on here with tits and two legs. Some of these have told me that they have indeed read my profile, and found it "too difficult to understand". So I'll put this where it can bee seen without viewing in full. I am NOT interested in or looking for men of any sort! NO male subs, slaves, wives, sissies, etc. BIOLOGICAL WOMEN ONLY. I have no problems with any of you, you just are not what I want.
1/6/2008 9:18:08 AM
I love 2008. Any year that begins with an inpromptu foursome is wonderful by me. I will be moving in to a house with my Dom at the end of the month, complete with basement and garage. And I have met a lovely young lady on CM who I believe to be very real and genuine in her interest in. Here is to hoping everyone else is having a great new year as well!
12/19/2007 9:54:47 AM
Ah, yes. It seems that everything really does change at 23. I have begun cosmetology school, am getting ready to move from the complex I have been in for two years, and finally decided to start contributing stories to Literotica, under the name FierySadist. Nothing has been approved yet, but soon.
I am still searching for a real, genuine female sub or slave, but so far I have found nothing but fakes. Not that this is unusual for CM, lol. Happy holidays all, and happy hunting.
And for anyone who saw that I was considering someone on this site, she has disapered from yahoo and has changed her password and her profile after begging me to be her Domme. She is a fake, like so many here. Feel free to email me for her name.
8/14/2007 9:58:15 PM
After something that happend tonight, I feel that I need to address this. In my profile, I state that I would never force a girl to serve my Dom sexually. As a live in, she would naturally serve in other ways...getting a snack or drink, doing His laundry with mine, that kind of thing. He and I will be living together as of November, and as I am looking for a live in girl, she would be living with us, though belong only to me. This said, neither of us has any problem with my having a lesbian subby or slave. He and I have agreed that it's paws off for Him (lesbian or not) unless otherwise agreed by all three people. However, if you are the sort who wants absolutely nothing to do with men, including living under the same roof with them, please move along. He is a major part of my life, and would there for be at least a small part of my girl's life.
8/11/2007 2:17:14 AM
The male sub that I had been working with was released about a week ago, and I have to say, I don't think I will ever work with a male as my sub again. The dynamic just does not work for me. So I will say it once again...no men. I don't care how far you will go for me, how much you will do...you are not the exception.
8/8/2007 7:31:57 PM
Well, been on here a week or two now. I've had a couple of promising leads...and more than a handful of people who have just vanished on me. Par for the course. I just have to work on fine tuning my fake sorting skills I guess, lol.
