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Educated professional, divorced, with a wide array of interests and over 25 years of experience. Im not looking for someone to fulfill my fetish needs - if I have a fetish, its intelligence - but rather I someone with whom to create and build a lasting relationship on the foundation of Dominance and submission. If youd like to know more, please ask. Im not going to put a lot of BDSM stuff here because my primary interest is in finding a connection that is psychological, mental, emotional, and spiritual.

10/15/2017 9:25:19 PM While not opposed to being in a relationship, I'm no longer seeking one as the primary focus of my life. What I've written is still relevant, though. If what I describe below were to present itself, I'd be in. I'm interested in creating a relationship deeply grounded in a mental, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and sexual connection which includes, but is not completely defined by, a D/s dynamic. - I believe in equality of individuals but clarity of roles. - I believe both Dominant and submissive are servants in their own way. - I believe friendship, mutual respect, a common view of life, and common goals are the foundation of any long-term relationship. - I believe kink, rough sex, and exploring limits can be fun, but more importantly are a workshop for developing trust and understanding. - I believe communication is absolutely paramount, and requires both parties to value clarity and truthfulness. And don't say you can't communicate because you're an Introvert; I'm an INFP, if you're into the whole Myers-Briggs thing. If we're considering a relationship, I'll not make Dominant-type requests of you prior to reaching some common understandings and agreements. Our initial meeting - or meetings, until you reach a level of comfort with and trust in me - will be a date, not a test drive. I am first and foremost a gentleman until it is no longer appropriate to behave strictly in a gentlemanly manner. I'm primarily a Mentor/Teacher/Daddy/Sensei type of Dom. Don't assume from that, however, that I am either unwilling or unable to be extreme should extreme be called for.