There is a difference between those that "like to get kinky" and those that just are. I'm the latter. Looking for true subs and slaves that are here to provide service, be used, and please.
Two things get me off, control and pain. Both abusive, both real. I demand full control, TPE, ultimately full time live in.
Shit that gets me off:
just to name a few
Open to dating with roles well define.