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Marriedmom40

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I love being a submissive horny slut in heat. I've realized that I'm far more submissive than dominant and have accepted that and made this change in my profile to reflect it. ---------------------------------------- *Not accepting subs at this time - I"m here to learn how to be a domme* New to the site and many thanks to the domme who told me about the mail controls. Since I'm not really interested in meeting guys on here all men are filtered to bulk. I hate talking about myself for these profile things so will keep it short for now. I've been interested in bdsm for a long while though the hubby isn't into it at all. I'm hoping to be able to talk with some other dommes for learning and fun and then maybe find a submissive to play with. Note: I'm married and I'm a mother, thus my handle on this site (the 40 is because the first 5 tries didn't take, it's not my age or my bra size). Note 2: I'm a mother, that does NOT mean I'm into adult babies or diapers. I diapered my children and there's no sexual fascination for me in diapers, urine or shit. Stop asking me to diaper you!! Note 3: As said in my journal I'm so new to this that I'm still not sure exactly where I fit in to all this. With so many saying I need to be submissive first before I can be a dominant I'll probably experiment with that a little to help me find my place in this lifestyle.

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4/19/2017 10:59:51 AM
Spring break for my daughters and am out with them.  Messaging and replies will be rather sporadic


3/9/2017 8:43:33 AM
I don't have anywhere on my profile that I"m looking for males of any type yet constantly my "who's viewing me" page is filled with guys gawking.  Even worse, I get dozens of messages every day to my bulk folder of sub guys wanting me to dominate them (I'm a submissive as clearly stated on my profile dumbass!) and guy doms who clearly haven't learned to read.

Guys of any type go to bulk.  Couples go to bulk too because in my time on here I've yet to meet a genuine couple that can show me a picture of them together. or on the phone together.

My solution:  In bulk mail  "Check all"  & "Delete"


As unstable as this site is I surely don't need a bunch of mentally challenged guys interfering with my search for the right woman.

3/8/2017 4:53:37 PM
Pictures taken from magazines, supermodel portfolio layouts, or just skimmed from the net off of other sites.  So easily checked and searched, I mean really, there's at least 7 image search engines that I know of and probably more.  Who do these fakes think they're fooling?


2/10/2017 1:37:50 PM
Issues after issues after issues.  SIX tries just to get logged in, then page errors and loading errors just to try to get the 'read mail' page open, and won't even bother to list what it's taken to open a single message. 

Since weekends are always the worst and this is early on a Friday with so much problems, I'll be off for the weekend and try again next week.


1/25/2017 2:08:28 PM
Lots of site errors today, will be back tomorrow to try again.

1/15/2017 2:42:08 PM
Seems the site is up to its old tricks again today with page errors, slow response, etc.  This happening every few weeks is VERY frustrating!!!


11/30/2016 12:57:19 PM
And yet again, pages don't load, messages won't open or send.  This is NOT the kinds of frustrating denial I was looking for!


10/5/2016 9:27:36 PM
Ugh!!!  Cloudflare errors through Dallas (primary route to this site) and Chicago (secondary). Can't open messages, load pages or reply to messages.  Guess it's Sudoku time tonight instead.


6/30/2016 5:51:41 PM
Okay, previous journal edited to remove my email address because some people can't help themselves from playing childish games.

If you message me then ID yourself by your site handle here.  I've had enough bullshit for one day and don't like playing games like "guess who I am?"


6/24/2016 3:04:20 AM
Here's a little story.

Imagine you've got a car and it's out of gas.  What's the options?  Get some gas for it or walk, right?   How about yelling and screaming at it instead?  Stomp your feet, jump up and down, throw a tantrum like a 4 year old.  Tell me how much that helps please. 

Does the car fill itself up with gas?  Nope

Does the car drive down the road anyway without gas?  Nope

What good does the temper tantrum do?  Nothing.  It changes nothing.  It's pointless and useless.

Now boys and girls, that's what I find in my messages tonight.  No names given, just a domme I met who decides to throw a childish temper tantrum because my tablet won't run their preferred messenger app (which has known privacy and security leaks anyway).

So for that domme and any others out there, go ahead and throw your tantrums.  Like the car, it's not going to change anything.  It's not a choice on the car's part, but go ahead and show how dominant you are by continuing to shout and stamp your feet.  Do it good and hard now, give it all you've got but I'm sure my 12 year old can do better at throwing tantrums.




6/22/2016 10:49:43 AM
Loving some of the new terms I'm learning.  Sluttification, wow never knew there was a word for it but I like it.  I've also discovered that women can have ruined orgasms.  From the stories I've read I thought that was only a guy thing.


6/22/2016 8:43:26 AM
A very many people have told me that the site being flaky with page errors and crashes is normal but it is oh so frustrating when there's pages and pages and pages of messages and I can't get them open or replies sent.  

6/22/2016 8:25:20 AM
I'm not really sure where I fit in with this whole bdsm thing.  My sole experience to this point has been erotic stories on the internet and some erotic novels in the naughty section of kindle.   I get so aroused from the stories but sometimes it's fuzzy as to whether the arousal is from the dominant's taunting humiliation of the slave girl or the slave girl in her need & craving for orgasm that is denied over and over again.  What I do know for certain is that I'm here because I want to do it for real not just read about it and I want to experiment to find my place in this wonderful life.

Several have told me that in order to learn to be a domme I first have to learn to be a submissive.  I don't know if that's true or not but I'm willing to experiment and learn about this lifestyle so I can find my place that I feel comfortable and is the real me.



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xxxlinda4love
 
 Age: 51
 Colorado Springs, Colorado