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I'm looking at the profiles of people who are actively seeking dommes. A lot of the profiles don't mention dommes at all. I'm wondering if people just forget to update what they are seeking.... |
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If you are still trying to hold on to being 'anonymous' or some shit like that don't message me.
If you wont ask for the opinion on message boards don't ask me.
If you have nothing really on your profile, don't message me unless that message is the equivalent of a full profile.
Once again no face no contact this means women, military, and professionals. On top of that I'm not going off site to see your picture.
Also I'm cool with web cam after chatting a bit first, but if you don't feel comfortable with me viewing you. Just don't ask.
Please follow these simple requests when contacting me. The people who don't seem iffy and full of shit, you may not be but that is what I think.
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I'm not into the randomly bratty, jokey messages.
similar note:
So tired of the bitching whining messages I'm getting from guys. I'm a woman on the internet I get alot of messages. Throwing a tantrum cause you don't like my response time makes you look bad. If it bothers you so much skip telling me about it and start with someone else.
Also I wrote my profile for a reason don't think you are the exception. Its annoying. |
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Most of my admirers have never messaged me.... Its a little creepy but okay |
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Feeling sick this morning. In a lot of pain if im lucky Ill pass out or ill start to feel better and go to to sleep.If not I'll have A 24 hour day. |
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I hate and kinda like my profile update. Mostly hate it can people not waste time please, so i can change my profile back? |
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I'll be 20 today. Yay living!!! |
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My first cat passed away this evening, the house just doesn't feel right. She has been a part of the family for sixteen years. |
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So I've been reading a good bit of shoujo ai/yuri this week cause I've been stuck in bed, and it makes me remember how much I enjoy being in a fem/fem relationship. I don't know how to explain why being with a fem is different for me. Those relationships aren't necessarily better but I really miss them. |
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Fruitless night for the most part. Most conversations have ended with me blocking a creep and/or waste of air/time/space. |
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Maybe I'm not in the right mood to talk but the conversations I'm having just went to stupid. |
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I went to the whippersnappers social and had a blast. |
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So collarme's chat no longer looks like shit on my computer. Guess I'll use it now. |
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So I'm looking for munches and socials in my area that are 18 and up... |
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I've had some nice first dates/meetings lately. |
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So maybe I am having a bitch moment, but I'm very sure that my interest list shows more than my kinks. So if you can say we have kinks in common, you should know if we have other things in common too. |
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So I'm chatting online with a random sub and he asks if I had a wishlist... I bust out laughing cause I made one last night. Now if I think someones full of shit I can be like "I demand four goods in four days! Bwah hahaha!!!"
Lolz
But yeah I started the wishlist to price out things I plan to get for myself . |
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Don't know if I mentioned this recently so here:
My notebook is more busted than usual, so I do not have access to a webcam. |
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I'm going to try and make it to 2 whippersnapper events. |
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I should be in bed but I decided to search for folks close to me looking for friends only. Not many. Sigh. |
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I've gotten a few messages so here is an update to my last journal post.
I talked to my mentor about the letter, a number of her other friends contacted her about it too. So she and I talked/giggled about it, she dealt with the craziness before I even got her on the phone.
So yeah |
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So I received what I'd call a blacklist letter about a previous mentor of mine. I'm stuck between forwarding the message to her so she knows whats up or ignoring the whole thing to cut out possible drama.
(I'm posting this in a forum.) |
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So some random domme sent me a message and it went something like this:
Random: Do you like having men entertain you?
Me:Sometimes
Random: Ever make them get on cam?
Me: not anymore cam isn't my cup of tea.
Random: Too bad you could've been a big help and had lots of fun.
I'm under the impression that she just wanted the last word. I get that I could've been helpful, but how could I have fun when I just said I don't like cam bull shit? |
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I am super tired and out of it. I hope that everything I've typed today has been understandable. |
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A submissive I'm looking at finished their first assignment with flying colors. Its nice to have a sub be upfront when we are just feeling things out. It makes me feel like we won't have any safety issues because of a lack of communication. |
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I am now looking for a Domme mentor of practice.
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My style of poly.
I'll probably scare some folks off and I don't care
I believe:
In having fun with dating and such
That I can have loving committed relationships with multiple people.
I want to have:
Partners
Lovers
Subs/slaves/bottoms/pets/tops
I don't do:
one genitalia policies.
closed triads and such, I will accept a max number of lovers and/or partners
I won't accept:
A person that isn't current on their testing.
A person that will not ask about the STI testing or show their STI testing results.
A person who feels guilty about being in a consensual poly relationship.
A lack of communication.
Lying.
Iffy bullshit, If you are in a relationship with someone already its one of the first things you should mention. I'm going to need to talk to your person before we touch each other.
I wrote this on another site and decided to post it here too. |
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I don't know why I look through my inbox when I know I won't have time to respond to any of my messages...
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I managed to injure my lover during a round of vanilla-ish sex. His junk is chafed, and his pelvis area is a big bruise. I feel really bad.
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My profile mentions that users that interested in talking to me should provide a visual of their face. If I don't see a pic or a cam link I'm going to assume you are a stupid shit that can't read.
My profile also has an age range mentioned.
Pay attention to detail folks, it gets you places.
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I wish there were more lgbtqi women that serve women or hot not straight dudes that serve women.
It probably wouldn't help me out enough since women don't seem to like me.
Can I get a sweet meat pet to love up on?!?!?
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In vanilla land it irks me when people want an adult relationship with someone but uses nouns for a minor when discussing/interacting with them.
Note: I should not be referred to as a 'young' girl a young girl would be a female child, a young submissive/slave that allowed themselves to be called girl, or someone into age play.
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I'm okay with the idea with dominating someone's finances but I am not into black mail/extortion.
I'm also not into humiliation like that, its not on my list of things that make me hot.
One another note whats with all the male doms stalking my profile and messaging me? There is a tool on this site to help folks find people that are looking for them.
Note I don't have a problem with the profile views or getting mail from all male doms. My problems are with the ones that disrespect my profile and the way identify.
All in all if you want to be my walking wallet we can talk about it, I'm into extortion/black mail, humiliation is something that has to be earned, and while I'm okay with chit chatting with a male dom, I'm not going to serve anybody.
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Wanna know why I haven't tried to sleep yet?
Cause the old ass cat keeps mutilating herself on my bed, and then acts likes nothings wrong. Shes like 'Oh let me scratch my balding ass til my skin is raw and bleeding in places, and I'll go ahead and irritate my abscess too. Thanks for cleaning me up and giving me all this attention human, but I can't help scratching too hard so you'll have to do all that again later. You should go to go to sleep so I can lay on you to keep myself warm while I scratch and sneeze on your bed.'
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But really why are there so many pictures of people that look moody? Can we get some more smiles please?
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I may need to change some things about my profile. Like listing myself as a dominant that likes to bottom for certain activities.
edited to add
I'm going to do that for a bit and see how it goes.
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I don't think women like me online. :(
On a different note I'm afraid to have my pet take me out for seafood because he is allergic. I don't know how allergic but I keep envisioning a piece of fish smacking him in the face and making us go to the hospital.
So I guess I need a pet that loves seafood.
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I was going to respond to a few of the negative Nancy journal post, but after reading further into those journals I realized that my opinion (at least the way I was typing it) wouldn't actually help.
Moral of the story if the response won't help don't send it.
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I'd love to have a few more pretty pets.
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I just want to eat a bunch of sweets and chill.
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So I was told that my profile has spelling errors. Now, I know I have a flawed spell check, so normally I would appreciate someone pointing out an error. With this person I didn't. A simple message that should have just inform me about a few typos ended up sneaking in an insult or two. Maybe I'm just being sensitive but I'm pretty sure that having a stranger call your profile annoying is an insult or at least the wording made dude seem like a tactless ass.
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People that are away! Ya'll are away! If you come down to Atlanta like two or three times a year we can talk. Understand I want, a service pet, there aren't a lot of useful services that can be done from a distance. I'm just saying.
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Balancing pills is the pits! When will the miracle migraine medication for me come out?!?!
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If you think I'm the cat's meow and your worthless, why do yo think I'd wanna be with you?
I'm just saying. I'm a light person I don't need your dead weight.
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People for the love of being able to breath , look at a damn kink/lifestyle dictionary, in fact look at two or three of them. They are easy to find online.
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I think people should be forced to have ice friendly tires in Atlanta.
I've had to reschedule my v-day plans because of the weather.
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I'd rather get a "Hi" than a "Hi sexy", I'm just saying, "Hi sexy" messages annoy me.
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I got a message from a person, who 'viewed' me, but their message made me doubt that they actually read my profile.
Come on folks think before you type.
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Notes on my edited profile that may need explaining.
"DO NOT ask for something you aren't willing to give." this has
been seen as negative, but really I'm just saying if you ask for
something be ready to volunteer it, or something to that
effect.
"They want to provide for me.((its not a problem if they
cant.))" If I am close to a person I do for them when I can, and
I'm there for them. If I'm someone's partner or close friend and
they want or need something, if I can't help they sure hell
know that I want to. If I want to do for someone else shouldn't they want to do for
me?
"they work on their issues"* If a person can't work on
themselves how can they work on building a strong relationship with
someone else?
'Either has or is looking for a job, going to school or doing
something.' This statement isn't about money or wanting higher
learning. It is about trying to do something for yourself.
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A journal entry inspired by a profile critique I received on another site:
I was also told that an older person won't message an 18 year old if they
think that the youth is stupid.... That isn't true. People sometimes
message my age group because they think our lack of years will let them
get away with shady mess.
Apparently shady older people exist in vanilla land. lol
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I was very disturbed and saddened by a post and a separate thread I saw in ask a sub.
((Edited slightly.))
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I was thoroughly reminded that vanilla people can be rude/mean/disrespectful fuckers on the internet.
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I was telling a guy that he wasn't my type because he wasn't on the slimmer side of average. (on another note average is larger than I thought...)
His reply: So you think I'm fat? lol nice.
This annoyed me.
Why would someone try and put words in in a person's mouths, especially if the added words are negative?
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Yes age matters. I don't believe age should dictate everything, I think
it should be thought about like everything else, but it is way more
than a number, think of things biologically.
With that said I have an age range for a reason, I'd appreciate having it respected.
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On another site I have a line in my profile about calling out stupid shits that can't read, and I keep my word. Today while calling people out most of the culprits apologized and we ended up having okay conversations.
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I've ordered dinner from this place called Chico & Chang. It serves Chinese, Mexican, American, and some other random foods. Hopefully my meal will be good.
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I feel like getting in a fight.
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So the chick that fell into my lap as a sub is back in my lap. She is into humiliation, public play, and a few other things that I don't do on the regular.
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What on my profile would make it seem okay to ask to see me topless in the second message?
If something on my profile makes that seem okay please tell me so no one makes the mistake of asking again.
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If you have read my profile before, I invite you to read the full profile again.
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Apparently masturbating can help some people avoid migraines if they start when they notice an aura.
I wonder if this knowledge will eventually get insurance to pay for the sex toys of people dealing with chronic pain.
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This is odd to me: A lot of the couple profiles I've seen do not have pictures of the couple together.
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I'm pretty sure that my subs would have to be service or task oriented... I'm just saying my inner sadist is an inner sadist, she needs a reason to come out and wail on people. So I sure that a pet of mine will need to earn some positive points for us to play and indulge kinks.
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I'm thinking of posting a thread on/in message boards about searching for other users. I'm not sure if it should go in general bdsm or off topic discussion. I guess I'll just put up the side note "I have no idea where this should go, please make it work. :)"
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This whole 'young people don't know shit' attitude is pissing me off!!!
Ya know what else pisses me off?!?
People contacting me interested in some sort of relationship without reading my profile or ignoring parts of it.
Know what that says to me?
It says 'maybe that individual doesn't even have low level reading comprehension skills lets ask them to read again, maybe right a cheat sheet.'
or
'that individual is a disrespectful jackass.'
or
'that person is really superficial and only contacted me because of my looks.'
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I went on a date today and realized that it wouldn't work out because I hated his driving and the way he responded to road directions.
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Due to bad trial runs I am back to having Stray aka Pet Sweets V as my only pet .
If I was feeling things out with you something has or hasn't happened and you now seem like a joke or a time waster, your number and im address has been deleted.
Try again later, if you are ready, don't expect me to know who you are.
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Think about what you are asking before it is typed and sent to me.
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If your main profile pic is of someone else I have a problem with that. I probably don't want to talk to you...
There is a difference between an avatar and a pic of someone else.
Plus me not having a picture of you when you contact me means you didn't read or respect my profile.
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If you think that it is okay to break up with someone via silent treatment and there wasn't abuse involved don't contact me.
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If you aren't submissive/bottom/slave material' don't contact me asking to be those things...
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Why do people use descriptive words in their user name? Some words won't be able to describe you in time.
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I'm disturbed by the number of ignorant up and coming dominants in my age group. I hope that they get some help before they seriously fuck things up for themselves and/or somebody else.
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So lately(the past 2weeks) I've been getting a lot of greetings that address me with a pet name. I don't think there is anything in my profile that would elude to that being okay, someone please correct me if I'm wrong.
Note: I do encourage individuals that are interested in serving me to address me as Miss or Ma'am.
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Got this message from a dom that didn't read my whole profile or meet any of my 'criteria'.
'time you stop researching and start obeying'
I responded with this 'Time for you to stop being a jack ass, and greet people you don't know with an air of politeness.'
Yeah I could've just ignored it but I'm in a mood.
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Note: Why would I want to waste my time doing something exciting or fun with a lazy and disrespectful pet, that can't even put effort into a simple or boring order?
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WTF is up with the sexist, and narrow minded comments about tributes?!?!
Dominants no matter their gender, sex, or profession can ask for/accept/encourage/demanded tribute.
Some submissives call their dom/me lord/lady/god/goddess/king/queen/, guess what those titles got things from the people that served them.
I personally value the tributes that my pets give me, and I have positive feelings when I give tribute.
When a pet gives me a tribute its proves that they thought of me outside of my presence, that they pay attention to the little things and are willing go above and beyond. It makes me feeling all fuzzy inside, which is exactly how feel when I receive a gift from my dominant partner.
I give tribute to show that I appreciate/care for/think of care for my dominant, when they see it or think of it they will think of me fondly.
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Wanting, accepting, or encouraging tribute doesn't make a dominant fake plus why do so many people assume that a tribute equals money
On another note: I'm waiting for my photos to be approved on another site.
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If I could date a bi switch or sub male/male couple I would.
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So my first pet Pet/Stray, who isn't actively my sub at the moment, is having an tough winter. I can't help but feel like he needs to be cuddled and that I should rip off the faces of a few people.
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I'm shopping around for a strap on, and it is a nice little adventure.
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I am feeling things out with a new cyber pet. He seems to have a good head on his shoulders. By the end of the month I should be able to tell if he has the potential to be named and collared eventually.
He doesn't even have the potential to be my dog's poo.
Edited Jan 27:
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An owned out of state switch asked me:
ARE YOU JUST WASTING OUR TIME, OR ARE YOU FOR REAL?
I responded with this:
Says the person with only one picture that looks like a glamor shot.
Sorta a compliment to you, but think about this fact before you go accusing people...
Why are you yelling?
If this was a fake profile why would you care?
I've never contacted you.
Yes I am for real, and no I don't need to prove it.
Why?
Because the only people that need to know I'm real are the ones I'm interested in.
Note: I didn't put anything in bold when I replied to this person.
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There are 4 people on cm that I've seen on at least two other sites, one of them has an all powerful personality and matching quiz thing-a-ma-bobber, going by that and the fact that I liked their profiles, I should get along with them if I ever talked to any of them.
So I was wracking my brain trying to figure out why I've never chatted with any of these people and the answer is boring. I couldn't figure out a good opening message...
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If I can have more than one submissive, I should be able to have more than one dominant. Thats just the way I want to do things. |
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So a couple contacted me, and they seemed to have an interesting kink.
That said the way they contacted me proved that they don't fully play into their kink, if they did they would realize that the way they address people would in theory destroy their 'kingdom'.
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So I've used CM's search on Dec.6. I've found that there are currently no dominants in Atlanta, that I'd consider.
I don't think they would consider me either. |
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I just discovered bulk mail....
lol |
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I've spent a good bit of time telling people off this weekend. Why won't folks pay attention to my profile!?!?! |
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Okay so if you read my profile, I invite you to read it again. |
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Its 5:12 am in Atlanta GA and a chick is typing porn to me. I didn't even have to ask... I'm suppose to be writing a cover letter to try and get a job and a chick is typing porn to me on a vanilla site, and she is hot!! I know the profile is fake but its moments like these when the thought is all that counts!!!!!!! |
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My opinion of the males on collarme is rather low. In my first 48 hours on the site my inbox was full of messages that proved people don't read and are stupid (Can someone build a compound for these people so decent folk can live in peace?!?!)
I got a more than a few messages from male doms I would never talk to claiming my profile was fake. (Note those guys didn't have anything on their profiles that would give someone a since of their personalities.)
I understand that some people have been led on by 'fake' users but that doesn't mean attack everyone with a new profile.
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