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LiveSpark

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Fair notice: I have been here as MontrealPhoenix, zephyr, and TheFireWithin.
This profile is a work in progress. It's likely to change frequently.
Now then. Originally I came here primarily to reconnect with friends I've made here. I am now actively looking for a Dom/Sub love relationship, that is a partner who happens to be a Dom. I would prefer that he live in Montreal but having searched profiles of Doms here in Montreal I'm fast realizing that might not be realistic. So it's more important that you be willing to travel so that I'm not always the one travelling. Know that our relationship will not happen overnight, especially if we live far apart.
Here is the kind of man I'm looking for in a partner: * You are confident without being arrogant. * You are well-spoken and know how to spell and use grammar. * You have experience and yes you have references. * You enjoy using canes and floggers and have experience using them. * You are looking for love rather than a strictly D/s relationship. * You are willing to take the time to build a strong relationship beginning with friendship. * Chances are you post on the fora. Not mandatory but it's easier to get at least a small idea of what you're like. * Above all you have a sense of humour and don't take yourself too seriously.
A bit about me:
I have been in the lifestyle for about 7 years now. I've been in a few relationships with doms that for one reason or another ended badly. So I will not rush into another relationship. Just as well because I believe the best relationships start as friends.
I'm also monogamous, in short I don't like to share.
I am in possession of a fine sense of humour and love to laugh. I also have no problem poking fun at myself and refuse to take myself seriously.
I love to read and am heavily addicted to books. I'm never without something to read. I SMOKE. That isn't going to change so if it bothers you, you may as well keep going.
You should also know that I have the sarcasm gene. That doesn't mean I'm serious. 99.99999999 1/2% of the time I'm joking.
If I've viewed your profile chances are it's because of a post you made on the forums and/or I'm trying to figure out whether we know each other. It does not necessarily indicate interest.
No I don't have pictures of myself up, not likely there will be either. It's far too easy to steal pictures. However if we connect there's a possibility I'll send one once we get to talking away from CS if for no other reason than for you to be able to recognize me when we meet offline.
BTW if you message me without having read my profile or with a message that reads "Hi" your message will be deleted. Act like an asshole you'll also be blocked.

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1/2/2015 5:40:35 AM
I've been flipping through profiles just to see what's out there and the number of people who are just plain NEGATIVE is astounding. I really wonder if those people realize that they decrease their chances of finding someone just simply because of that negativity.

Sure there are fakes, this is online people can be anything they want to, but whining about it won't get you a partner, people, it'll just make the real people skip right over your profile.

Mind you it DOES make the process of finding a partner easier and it's best to know that someone is nothing but negative right from the start. I just wonder if they realize that they are being their own worst enemy.

12/31/2014 3:11:28 PM
Sigh. Grammar and spelling matter, people. So does attention to detail. Yes we notice when  both are abysmal and yes we care. Even if you can't spell for beans there's a tool called Spellcheck which will do it for you. Please make use of it.

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hotsandra
 
 Age: 31
 LEEDS, United Kingdom