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I'm once again accepting select new clients for sessions, as well as teaching workshops, and private lessons for individuals and couples.
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I'm a professional and lifestyle Domme in Calgary. I have a lovely husband, and several personal slaves. I'm not looking to add to my household.
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I'm into most edgeplay, electrical play (TENS/EMS and VW), corporal punishment, foot fetish, bondage, fireplay, abrasion/knife play, cupping, sensation play, and anal play. I also love corporal punishment. I'm rather a nurturing Domme, as well as a heavy sadist - go figure.
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Having attended Master Skip's workshop on the Servant Master at Lupercalia, I have come to realize that is precisely what I am. I've always felt it is my great honour to facilitate healing and growth in my submissives and slaves, and to do my utmost to ensure they walk out feeling better than they walked in.
Master Skip made it clear in a way no other has, that Buddhism and BDSM may indeed walk hand in hand. This has been my experience, but it helps to have an outside voice expressing it.
In addition, I'm a Reiki practitioner, and I do find that energy work comes into play during many sessions.
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I am not looking for personal play partners, my household is full with a husband and collared slaves.? In rare circumstances I'll consider someone new, but they must be extraordinary, and I only consider slaves who have booked professional sessions first.? Online play is available through www.dreamlover.com/ladyseraphina or www.niteflirt.com/ladyseraphina.
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If you're looking for a professional session, feel free to look at my website and contact me. LadySeraphina.ca or Facebook: LadySeraphinaYYC, Twitter @LadySeraphina
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I am addressed as "my Lady" by those who serve me, and "Lady Seraphina" by others.? I am not addressed as "Mistress" as that is not my name.
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**I never accept chat requests.**
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February 23, 2012 - I am in this week's edition of Fast Forward Weekly.
http://www.ffwdweekly.com/article/life-style/your-face-here/lady-seraphina-professional-domanatrix-8775/
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I stopped taking new clients for sessions as of August 1st, 2013.
I do still accept couples looking for training (to learn, not for me to train their slaves) and those seeking life coaching, as specified on my website. |
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I'm incredibly fortunate. I have an outstanding Household of devoted boys and girls, and my 'clients' - how I hate that word, I treat everyone as my own - are amazing people too! |
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I can't specify enough that I have no interest in new personal play partners. I have a VERY full household - I would go so far as to say it's an embarrassment of riches.
I am not here to lure you into giving me money, so if you have an issue with proDommes, take it elsewhere. I am not seeking you out, you choose to message me, or you don't. Frankly, I prefer NOT to do business on this or the other (better) BDSM social website. You should contact me via my professional site if it's a session you seek.
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Toronto Torture Garden was interesting, now I'm looking forward to Montreal Fetish Weekend in September! In the meantime, I'm playing up a storm here in Calgary. |
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My VIP pass to Toronto Torture Garden is purchased, my hotel is booked, I can't wait! May 20-23!
If you're in or near Toronto area and have always wanted to play with me, get in touch to book a session while you have a chance! |
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I'll be in Toronto May 20-23 for Toronto Torture Garden, and I am also booking a few sessions while I'm there. Check out my site and contact me if you wish to book.
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Looking for Quality Canes
I'm in the market for more canes, and what I really want to find is a website I came across a long time ago. I think it might have been a free Geocities site or something, certainly it wasn't a slick professional site. The canes were all hand-selected rattan, with beautiful handles. The handles often had jewels and stones worked onto them, and were made by a woman in... I think Florida? She guaranteed all her canes, and says she sits in her backyard crafting them, if I recall correctly. I can't find her site again for the life of me.
If I can't find that site, I'm still looking for some new quality rattan canes. I've got plenty of lightweight standards, but I'd like to get some really nice ones. Show pieces.
Also a good toy bag - a flogger & cane case with loops or pockets to keep the implements sorted and in good order.
**UPDATE**
A friend in the lifestyle directed me to the website I was looking for: www.Canes4Pain.com. Whyp Dancer will be amking me a beautiful custom cane. *sigh* |
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For some time now I've been thinking about collecting and editing a
BDSM anthology, to be independently published. I'm looking for short
erotic stories with a fetish or BDSM theme, no more than 4000 words.
Authors that make it into the anthology will get their byline and a
copy of the book. I have no way of knowing how this first anthology
will sell, so I can't offer to buy the works, but this is one standard
method of creating anthologies from new writers.
On my part I will respect your piece and professionally edit it (I do
have an editorial background). I'll do the layout, set up with the
printing company, get you your copy, and promote the hell out of the
book.
For amateur writers there is the thrill of seeing your work in print,
and for those trying to break into writing it is a great way to build a
portfolio.
I will also need cover art, and have found an excellent artist for black-and-white art for the interior.
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Just a quick note - I have just been informed that someone named 'MistressBellePro' has been using the first page of my website - word for word - as her Alt profile. This is NOT me, and if you encounter her, please inform her that theft of intellectual property is not acceptable. I have reported her to Alt.
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It's that time of year again! Every spring and fall the kinksters of Calgary get together for the Calgary Kinky Flea Market. Come join us!
Vendors with wares such as collars, cuffs, floggers, fetish wear, furniture, corsets, and much much more fill the hall!
Date: Saturday, October 18, 2008
Time: 12:00pm - 5:00pm
Location: 4909 Forego Ave SE (Forest Heights Community Centre)
City/Town: Calgary, AB
Admission is 3$ and you MUST be 18 or over.
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The other day I realized that this summer marks my 10th year in the lifestyle. God, sometimes I feel old!
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Let me make this clear: I am bisexual. I am married to a male.
Right now I seek a female submissive play partner. This does NOT mean that you would play with my husband. You would be for ME alone.
Sure, I'd love it if you could hang out with my husband and I, but all clothes would be on - I'm thinking of the 'going for a beer' type of hanging out.
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I am currently looking for a female play partner. This would not be a one-off event, but neither would it be a committed thing, barring unforseen attachment. You should be in Calgary, open minded, and being a pain slut is a plus. I'm happy to gently initiate a newbie as well.
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Come say hello to me, and check out my wares (and those of the other fine vendors) at the Calgary Kinky Flea Market!
Location: Forest Heights Community Center (same as last time)
Address: 4909 Forego Avenue SE, Calgary
When: Saturday April 12, 2008
Time: Noon to 5:00PM
Admission: $3.00 per person
Event Sponsor: Alberta Society For Kink
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At the moment I am giving serious thought to whether it is still worth the considerable effort involved in keeping another slave.
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I'm off to Lupercalia in Edmonton this weekend, from Friday to Monday monday morning. It should be a lot of fun, with play parties every evening. I'm also vending my handcrafted collars and Pleaser footwear, so I anticipate being exhausted, but it will be a good tired.
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To clarify for those few like the boy who sent me this message:
"you do not solicit;yet you are here soliciting."
I am not, in fact, here to find clients. Should a boy wish to approach me as a professional, by all means we can discuss it; rather, I am here to find a second personal slave, and simply state up front that I am also a professional Dominatrix. Heaven forbid.
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For those of you who may be interested in a new pair of shoes or boots, check out my website! I've started carrying stock from PleaserUSA, so if there is anything you're interested in, send me a note and I can quote you. I have no overhead, so my rates are very reasonable.
http://www.seraphinastoybox.com
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For those of you who have wondered how my interview with Anthea Black from FFWD Weekly went, and are not in Calgary to pick up a copy, here is a link to the issue online:
http://www.ffwdweekly.com/showissue/30/
http://www.ffwdweekly.com/article/news-views/city/my-day-dominatrix/
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Well, I'm happy! It took a few weeks to get everything in order, but I'm placing my first wholesale order for Pleaser shoes and boots on Wednesday. I plan to retail them at a very low markup, both on my Seraphina's Toybox site, and eBay.
Pleaser also has Demonia and Devious lines, which have male and unisex shoes, and the ladies shoes go up to size 14.
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I just read an excellent thread, and had to post a link here. Read the original post, as it is an excellent description of how to approach a Domme, and the long process of getting to know one another, negotiating, and determining if we are a good fit.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1460395/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1463839
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I met my new (canine) puppy yesterday. Her name is Willows Haven Nausicaa.
Nausicaa is an Olde English Bulldogge. Her mother is Dogue de Bordeaux x Neopolitan Mastiff, and her father is Renaissance Bulldog. Mama is about 110pounds, Papa is about 70-80 pounds, so Nausicaa should be a big girl when she's grown.
She is a tan brindle with white toes on all four paws, a white snip on her nose, and white chin which drips down to her little white chest. She is 9 days old today, so her eyes aren't even open, but we're in love! Waiting another 7 weeks to bring her home will be torture.
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I just picked up my new cupping set! I had the boys at Priape order one in for me, and after some wait, it's here. All 17 sexy pieces of it. *sigh* I love new toys...
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After posting the last entry, I was looking over my previous postings. Gee, I look like an unfeeling bitch, which is perhaps why I get some of the messages I do.
I tire of being propositioned constantly, and often by boys who are simply fantasizing, but do know that I only take on slaves I am fond of. I laugh, I joke, and - very rarely - I've even been known to cry. I have that sarcastic sense of humour that is often misread, but never an intent to insult anyone. I value communication, openness, and honesty. Charity, generosity, and volunteerism are also important to me, as is the environment. I would say I'm a liberal and a socialist, though I am moderate in all things (except caning).
You'll find my writing is formal, my personality far less so. I don't
stand on ceremony, and tend to be quite casual. Rules in my house
govern general behaviour and attitude more than postures and
presentation, though they are no less strictly enforced.
I hope this sheds a bit more light on me.
-Lady Seraphina
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My slaves are mine alone. That means no outside relationships (other than family) deeper than friendship. That also means no sexual relationships. I'm fairly certain this is indicated in both my profile and journal, but to reiterate:
1. Chastity - your only release is by your hand, when I permit it.
2. I don't share. No other Dommes, no other relationships outside of friends and family.
3. A slave contract is for a lifetime. Barring irreconcilable differences, you're mine until one of us dies.
4. You're part of the family. We help one another, and care for one another.
Ideally, a slave coming to me should have lived enough in his life to have experienced romantic love at least once. It is not my purpose to thwart that, but I do not offer romantic love to my slaves. That is reserved for my consort, as is the place in my bed.
-Lady Seraphina
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It looks like I'll be interviewed for the upcoming
Christmas Kink issue of FFWD (Fast Forward Weekly) which is our local
free paper. Think of the Onion or the Georgia Strait if you haven't
heard of it.
There is the part of me that fears for putting my
foot in it, but I think it will be a great opportunity, not only to
promote my work, but also to help the public understand WIITWD.
-Lady Seraphina
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I am constantly asked if boys may serve me. I am accepting one more
personal slave, but few boys would meet my requirements, and fewer
still would be happy with the arrangement I offer.
If you wish
to play with me, but are clearly not suitable to be my second slave,
then remember that I am a professional Dominatrix, as well as a
lifestyle Domme. You may either apply for my slave position, pay to
play, or seek elsewhere. These are your choices.
For those who do seek to be my slave, this is the basic rundown I give everyone who is interested in serving me:
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have gone through extensive discussions with out-of-town boys in the
past, and wasted my time. There is a limit to how many emails and calls
I will exchange before I expect a visit to show that you are serious,
as well as give us a chance to get a 'feel' for one another.
First, if you are from out of country, have you looked into
the logistics of getting a work visa here, or are you already retired
with a pension? My slave w happens to be retiring in a year, but he
will be working again after that (he's only 54). It's imperative that
you have the ability to contribute financially - not to excess, as I'm
not trying to get rich off my slaves, but enough not to be a burden.
If you're from out of town, do you have children or other
family who will miss you? It may be a significant trip to go back and
visit.
Next, have you already invested or made other arrangements for when you are old or infirm, and must have care?
I
have a consort and a slave. I am married to my consort, and he is the
only boy I have sex with. My slave is moving in with us in the next
year when he retires. If you were to serve me, it would be for the long
term, and you would be equal to my slave w, and below my consort,
darren, though he won't be giving you direction, only I will.
Darren will never give you orders
unless he is passing something on for me. Should there ever be an
unresolvable dispute between you and darren, you will lose. Since darren is a
very easy to get along with, I shouldn't worry over that if I were you.
Your duties will vary based on your talents, of course. Day
to day expect to have chores, do errands as needed, and keep out from
underfoot. In turn, I will ensure you have active playtime at least
once a week, as well as the small daily trappings of ownership. You
will work outside the home, not only to support the cost of keeping
you, but because a productive boy is a happier, more well-rounded boy.
I
do not have sex with anyone but my consort, darren. I also do not share,
thus you will be kept in chastity, either by will or by device, with
release only when I permit it, and only by your own hand. I do not have
sexual contact with you, but I do enjoy golden showers, urethral
sounding, and prostate milking, as well as bondage, CP, and CBT.
As
part of my house you are part of my family. You will be welcome to play
games (non-BDSM games), go to dinner, and to events. I will care for
you, and take care of you, for the rest of your life.
I do
not seek a doormat, but rather an intelligent, thoughtful boy who will
share his ideas and opinions - while being aware that I may disagree,
and my decision stands.
As I am not an autocrat (well, I
am, but a reasonable one) you will of course have to get along well
with my boys before you will be collared. I will not jump into
collaring either, because once you belong to me it is for life.
Have you ever served long-term, or for extended periods?
What
amount of attention do you seek per day or per week? How much
micromanagement do you feel you would require, and what level of
control do you crave - over spending, activities, day-to-day, etc? How
do you envision each day playing out?
Before
you would be accepted as my personal slave, you must play with me as a
client so that I am not wasting my time. Then, if you are a good fit,
we will discuss collaring.
What
I offer is not for everyone, and many will not fit what I seek. This is
life, and I am simply pleased to have two wonderful boys in my life. A
third is a bonus, but not one I am rushing for.
Do you have any questions for me?
Lady Seraphina
Edited to add: It's true that I am specifically looking for a boy, but if a slavegirl were to approach me who feels comfortable with a life of chastity, and who does not feel she will upset the dynamic in my house, she is more than welcome to introduce herself.
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There is a strong possibility that I may be moving to Vancouver in just over a year. Anyone seeking to join my House will want to bear that in mind.
Vancouver offers some wonderful opportunities - I will be learning body modification from Elwood, one of the best body mod artists around; His Holiness, the Dalai Lama is opening the Tibetan Cultural Centre, a place to study Tibetan Buddhism, and He Himself will be there several times a year providing guidance.
-Lady Seraphina
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For pity's sake, DO NOT send me a copy+paste message. DO NOT call me 'Mistress'. DO NOT ask me to Dominate you online.
I have a very clear letter to potential slaves in my recent journal here. Read it. IF you think you're a likely candidate, send me a message.
If you merely wish to exchange messages and be friends, feel free. I'm not a hardnosed bitch, I just hate the trolling.
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I'm off to the flea market tomorrow (Saturday, October 13). See you there!
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Alberta Society for Kink (ASK) presents the Calgary Kinky Flea Market!
Saturday, October 13, 12PM - 5PM
Forest Heights Community Centre
4909 Forego Avenue SE
Calgary, Alberta
Vendors with toys, bondage furniture, leatherwork, fetishwear and more!
Come check out the wares and find new items to get your kink on.
Admission: $3
Message me for more information.
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For those of you who don't know, I have now found a service, Nite Flirt, for
phone sessions. This is great news for those of you who are out of town, or
simply can't get away to see me as often as you would like. Generally Iuse
it to simply indulge your desire for lengthy BDSM discussions, but playing
out sessions over the phone is also an option.
One of the interesting things the service offers is the ability for me to
make recorded listings. Here's where you come in: I want you to send me
stories and fantasies. Remember that you must keep them respectful, and
write them so that I am may narrate them, or if written in first person,
they are from my perspective.
In exchange, if you have or create an account on NiteFlirt, I will give you either free minutes, or a free listen to your
story. I'm not sure if the system will let me give free access to recorded
listings, but if not, you'll get equivalent free access to the service.
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I've got so very many boys who live in other cities, but
crave to serve me, so I finally found a service to facilitate phone
play.
I'm set up as LadySeraphina on Nite Flirt, which looks
like a respectable service. I've seen several Ladies of the OWK, as
well as other femDommes in the listings.
-Lady Seraphina
www.niteflirt.com/LadySeraphina
(Evidently the link to take you directly to my listing wasn't working, try the new one above.)
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Tonight at 9pm I will be on a sex show on the local university radio, CJSW. Evidently they want me to explain more about the lifestyle and what it's like being a professional. Hopefully I can help some of the vanillas learn we aren't all freaks and weirdos. (Well, okay, maybe we are - but they don't have to know that!) |
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Not long ago I posted that I have decided two is an ideal number of slaves to keep, and I would like to update any interested parties on the progress.
I have one slave chosen, and another who will be visiting shortly. If all works out, he will be my second chosen one, but until then, he is simply on the shortlist, and there is the one vacancy.
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First, I've decided to stick with 2-3 boys, as it will be easier to manage, and you will receive more one-on-one time with me. I have also decided to permit you to wear the livery inside the house as well, except during actual 'Play'.
To My Potential Boys (in response to an email I just received.)
First, I am not poly, nor would I expect my boys to be. I have a houseboy I am monogamous with, and do not have sex with my other boys, nor would I permit them to have sex with one another. I do enjoy pegging (strap-on play), prostate milking, and urethral sounds, which can all be quite enjoyable. Other than that, my boys would only receive release when I permit them to masturbate (in or out of my presence).
I do not require my boys to all be masochists, though I do enjoy inflicting pain, I feed off your responses, so if you are only enduring it for my sake, it's no fun. I do also appreciate service-oriented boys, who enjoy worshipping me and doing things like errands, cleaning, etc. Of course there is also the play I mentioned above, among many others.
I will be purchasing a house with a full basement suite, and the boys (I will probably stick with one or two at this point, as it will be easier to have everyone get along) will live in the suite, while I'll live upstairs with my houseboy. This also means you don't have to worry about whether or not you take orders from my houseboy. He ranks above you because he is my consort, but I am the only one you will interact with on a regular basis, and the only one to give you instructions. Each boy will have his own bedroom.
I fully believe in encouraging your professional life, not only because you will be supporting the household, but also because you need to be fulfilled professionally AND personally. I support you having hobbies, though anything involving travel must be passed by me, as would any significant activity (skydiving, camping, anything with personal risk, or that takes you out of the house for a day or more).
You would receive one on one time with me a minimum of 1-2 hours per week, more when I can. This time may be spent in play or in 'quality time' such as shopping, going for a walk, or to dinner.
You will keep any posessions you have before you join my House (unless you choose to liquidate them) outside of the initial move-in costs, which are to help establish the House. Housing in Calgary is very expensive. Once in the House, you will turn over your salary aside from a small allowance. Any purchases you wish to make beyond that allowance you must ask me for.
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I seek 2-3 dedicated boys who will thrive under my care. They will live in my home, and I shall oversee them.
If this is you, you will work to contribute to the home. You will wear a prescribed livery when inside and outside the home, unless you are at work.
At home, you will clean, cook for yourself and/or the other boys, and possibly garden. You will receive one-on-one time with me regularly, a minimum of once a week, and group time daily.
I will punish or reward as I see fit. Suitable boys may be utter painsluts, seeking the extremes of edgeplay (within the bounds of safe, sane, and consensual) or service-oriented slaves.
Be aware that other than pegging, you will not have sexual contact with me. I have other uses for you. You will also be permitted no sexual contact with your brother slaves, or people outside the household.
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As many of you know, I've been wanting to have a manor house for quite some time. I still have that as my goal.
A household in which a number of devoted slaves shall live 24/7, working outside the home to contribute to the home, and submitting to my not-so-tender care.
A household where boys may travel to see me, and stay from a day to a week or more, tributing for my effort, and experiencing, if for a short time, a true Femdom Household.
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I've just uploaded a photo of my first tattoo - Buddha's Eyes. It's fresh so you'll notice it's still pink around the edges. It is just below the prominent bone on the bottom of my neck, centered across my shoulders. It was done by the wonderful Scott at Eternal Image Tattoo in Calgary.
After this, in no particular order:
Half-sleeve of Shakti on my right upper arm.
Full back piece of Kali standing on Shiva.
I expect there will be more I'll add after that to fill in the blanks.
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**I am interviewing for a cleaning slave. The slave should be a service-oriented boy or girl,
or a sissy maid. You must be dedicated to your tasks,
know how to clean properly, and do a thorough job. This is NOT a
live-in position, and I do not wish to teach you how to clean.
The ideal person is highly service-oriented, and finds fulfillment
in doing for their Domme, without expectation of anything more. They
will not come to me with a laundry list of 'do me' activities. If I so
choose, I may play with them from time to time, but it is best they not
expect any such thing.
Though I am a professional Domme, this is a strictly personal arrangement. I gain a clean home, and you gain pride in service.** |
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My new flogging bench arrived this weekend, and I've uploaded a picture of it. It does a dozen different things, and when fully bound, the boy or girl on it can only move about 1/2" in any direction, at most! :D
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I purchased a violet wand today, and look forward to extending my electrical play. The kit did not come with ALL the attachments I wanted, but I'll have them ordered in shortly.
I plan to bring my kit to Lupercalia, as well as my toy bag.
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Kink was lovely, I got to meet so many of my friends I only knew online. Even though I'm usually a homebody, I'm glad I went.
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I'll probably be at Kink Night at the Amsterdam Rhino tomorrow - first time in over a year I'll make it to one of them. If you're there, say 'hi'.
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I'm going to be at Lupercalia in Edmonton February 16-18. I may even have time to book a few sessions while I'm there.
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I have now added the picture of my new boots to my profile as promised, and it should be approved in a day or two. They are picture #7, black brocade top, stockings, and boots, scourge in hand.
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Hurray for new boots!
My newest boots just arrived, and they are gorgeous. Low-gloss black, thigh-high, laced all the way up. The toes have this perfect point - not long, not toe-squishy, but beautiful and just the right point to make a small foot look even daintier.
Mmmm...
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It never ceases to amaze me how many people want me to smoke in session.
I
do not smoke standard tobacco cigarettes, nor will I ever. I will smoke
clove cigarettes on rare occassions, though they aren't my preference.
I
would much rather smoke shisha from my water pipe (shisha is tobacco
mixed with flavoured molasses, and doesn't have all the toxins added
that cigarettes do). The pipe is beautiful, and I get a great deal of
smoke from it, which I can of course blow in the direction of the boy
who serves me.
-Lady Seraphina
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Ah yes, this was brought to my attention that I hadn't updated my journal. I have recently taken a new series of photos, which when edited resulted in about 37 satisfactory photos.
Unfortunately I can't post them here, as they display my houseboy either engaging in simple foot worship or bound onto my equipment, but they will be on my website shortly.
Lady Seraphina
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really have to get off my duff and take photos of my new play
equipment, as well as some foot fetish photos, but every time I think
of it, I'm in the middle of things, and when I have time, I don't think
of it.
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I am about to pop over to the store for some plate staples, and
then I'll be able to finish my new set of cuffs and collar. I have
been wanting to change all my gear over to purple leather, but
purple is hard to come by.
Recently one of my boys found me a chunk of purple leather, left
over from a full ballgag head harness with blindfold that he had
made for my playroom. I made a basic leather blindfold right away,
and now I'll be finishing a collar, wristlets, anklets, and thigh
binders. I think I might even have enough left to build a new
strap-on harness. I'm trying to decide if I'll want anything else
for my room with the purple, since I'll have smaller pieces left
and could probably make a few things.
Perhaps while I'm at the store I'll see about a chain leash, and
switch the nylon handle for a purple leather one. That might be
nice...
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I've recently begun playpiercing. I wish I'd realized it's simple charm sooner .
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I am looking for someone willing to do no-strings housework for me. I simply don't have the time or inclination to do laundry and cleaning, especially floors and bathrooms.
If you are interested in no-strings housework, and are good at domestic service, send me a message. :)
You must be local to the area. I am not looking for a live-in sub, just a boy or girl who would enjoy cleaning my home in exchange for a kind word (or a play session).
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At this point my little 'empire' is in the planning/theoretical stages only. I have come up with some ground rules, and am looking to meet a few good boys who might fit into this House, should it be able to come about.
Keep in mind, you don't get to quit your job and have me support you. Thank you.
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I have given a lot of thought to the idea of an 'empire' of my own. I can definitely picture myself as the Lady of the Manor.
At this point that is a little while away, but I am open to serious applicants who would like a place in my Household.
Bear in mind that I am not poly, there will be no sexual contact with me. I have my houseboy for that. I also have my puppyboy, Winston, who fills the first non-sexual position.
I am not as harsh as the ladies at OWK, nor do I feel that only women should be Dominant. I do, however, feel that I could create a marvelous oasis of kink and power exchange.
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I've been offered a sponsored trip to London, which I am considering. I will be booking sessions while I am there as well.
For all of you who have requested my presence in NYC, consider sponsoring a trip as James from London has done.
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On another note, I am now also writing an advice column for Kinkk.com, called Ask Ms. Spankhard. :)
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I am now a columnist with Kinkk.com. A feature interview with me, as well as my column, Beautiful Bruises, are now online.
It's rather exciting, really. |
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I am now offering online and phone sessions. So many people have contacted me from abroad that it seems only right to offer distance training as well.
I may also permit cam training, we shall see. |
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"Ok girl...I know that you are a Domme, and I can give you a home as MY SLUT.??????? Do you have any interest to talk about this????????? Mistress [NAME DELETED]??? ????? ????? send your pics...i want see you !"
You know, I thought it was only the males who would have the audacity to suggest I submit to them, but no. Apparently, whether because I'm bisexual, or beautiful, or the 'lucky' recipient of a random troll, people think they have the faintest snowball's chance in hell of owning ME.
Not going to happen. Not now, not ever.
I have a monogamous relationship (thus: nobody's slut) and a stable of devoted submissives (thus: nobody's slave). I love what I do, and my life is very nearly perfect.
Note to those who wish to challenge this: There are switches, and there are Dominants. I am a Dominant. Do not waste my time. |
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Well, my website is up and running. My webslave and I are still tweaking it, and we are still adding content, but it looks good.
It appears that my approach is unusual, at least as far as proDommes go. The fact that I see all my client/subs as "mine" and that I am not all about the money seems to shock many people. I didn't really understand why, and then I visited the site of another prominent proDomme, and she seemed to be a one-woman industry - buy her old clothes, buy her pictures and videos, etc - all the while she is referring to people in the most degrading ways.
Oh yes, I know many people are looking for that, and more power to them. On the other hand, many are not, and the prevalence of that type of pro is leading people to believe we are all like that. |
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I was just approached to be someone's slut. Although I suppose I could choose to find this 'flattering', I am a Domme. I am only a Domme, not a switch. In addition, my houseboy and I are in a monogamous, committed relationship outside our D/s roles.
Thank you for your interest, but working relationships and friends are all I am looking for.
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I was just asked if I could be sent a gift from Amazon.com, so I have created a wish list. If you would like to send me a gift, just search for me on there. This isn't a request for gifts, merely a statement.
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We just finished the cross in Sanctum, but I haven't had a chance to try it out thoroughly. I look forward to using it.
I did just finish a scene with one of my regular clients, who really ought to know me well by now. I play safe, sane and consensual always. I'm not psychotic, nor would I ever cause long-term damage.
I am, however, apparently a better actress than I thought. I had my sub convinced that I was actually going to harm him, which shook him out of his complacency. This is such an essential thing, especially for someone who has played for so many years, all over the world. It pleases me.
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I want to thank everyone who has so kindly greeted me here, and made me feel so welcome.
To those of you who approached me looking to Serve, I am terribly sorry that I had to turn you away. It is hard sometimes for people to understand why someone in my position would sign up here.
Yes, I'm looking for clients. Absolutely. But if that was all, I would sign up, post my ad, and leave. I am also looking for friendship in the BDSM community. That's why I'm here.
At home, I have the most wonderful mate. I call him my houseboy - it makes him happy that I do, and that is a large part of his role. In addition, he is my best friend, the love of my life, and the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. So please, understand that I'm not rejecting you or your offer when you contact me, merely that I'm very happy with what I have. If you are contacting me with interest to become a client, please say so and I will be happy to treat you accordingly.
I hope to soon have some pictures of my boy so that he will sign up - he wants to have some photos up right away when he joins. When he does, I fully expect to have to guard my 'property' from advances. lol He's just so adorable.
Best wishes to all - be well.
Lady Seraphina
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Introductions.
My friend recommended this site, so I thought I'd check it out.
I'm a professional Dominatrix, which is something I really enjoy, since not everyone can live the life as I do. For those who can't, coming to me provides a safe, controlled way to play. I love training newbies (n00bs) and watching them develop and learn about themselves. It's intensely satisfying to see someone leave feeling so truly de-stressed and fulfilled.
Personally, I keep a houseboy. I love him dearly and he is very precious to me. It is my plan/hope that he will soon be staying at home all the time, and will not have to work elsewhere. We both look forward to the time when his job consists of cooking, cleaning, and seeing to my needs.
We are also looking at having a child in the future, and he will stay at home as primary caregiver. This is good for both of us, as he is far more patient than I am, and I spread my nurturing to my clients as well as my dearling and my (yet-to-be-conceived) little one.
I read a lot, I write and paint and draw when the mood hits. I am very talkative, love to play games, and am usually kind.
Well, that's me in a nutshell, like it or not.
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