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UPDATE I am seeking something unique. I would like to find a polyandrous relationship. I see myself having a legal sub slave switch husband for what I have described in my journal entries. I would also lice to find a non-submissive spiritual husband. He would be honest, alpha, romantic, caring, and family oriented. Open to both being bisexual, at the very least will become best friends or bros. I would love for all to be bonded and committed to each other.

I have the desire to have control but also have some sub desires sexually without submitting. I need vanilla mixed in as well. I picture having one on one nights but also have groups dates as well.

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8/3/2023 9:49:29 AM

I didn't add this into yesterday's post. I recently had a birthday and now 50 years old. Looking for men of 46 plus years of age. Also please be in the Contential United States. I know from the younger guys say that age is just a number. It is great that you are into older women but this older woman isn't a cougar just not my thing, I wish you the best in your search.


8/2/2023 8:04:33 AM

Although I do at times feel confident as a Domme I have to be honest with myself that when I look at profiles I seek Dominant Men rather than submissive men. 

I was putting myself as a Domme more as protection and to things my way. In honesty I am more sub to almost slave in my sexually side. I seek partners that are Alpha, primal, animalistic but also loving, caring, sensual, honest, respectful. I fear being a sub due to past abuse and trying to protect myself. I don't wish to be degraded, ified, humiliated, abused. I am NOT a MASOCIST and also not wanting to be mentally or emotionally abused or even physically as well. 


12/28/2022 11:28:46 AM

My Interests in the lifestyle: Hooked up to a goat milker and produce milk as well as being mounted. Recieving rimming, pussy worship, double penetration vagianally/anally, receiving vaginal fisting, intercourse, vagianally sex, possible bondage, wrists/ankle restrains, gags, hoods, denial of pleasure, receiving body worship, male bisexual, lactation, butt plugs, sensory deprivation, explore bondage, wax, fire, clothes pins, secret sex in public, tattoos, violet wand, flogging, fire, blindfolds, getting massages, shaving, romantic play, shaving me, bathing me


12/28/2022 11:25:32 AM

Update

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 

80% Submissive 

77% Switch 

76% Primal (Prey) 

72% Rope bunny 

68% Vanilla 

63% Non-monogamist 

59% Dominant 

55% Master/Mistress 

53% Voyeur 

51% Exhibitionist 

38% Experimentalist 

30% Masochist 

23% Slave 

21% Rigger 

16% Owner 

14% Primal (Hunter) 

8% Brat tamer 

5% Pet 

4% Daddy/Mommy 

2% Degrader 

0% Sadist 

0% Brat 

0% Boy/Girl 

0% Degradee 

0% Ageplayer 

 

12/26/2022 4:41:36 PM

I Just realized on Dec 26th 19 years ago today. I went to be my first munch and became a member of my local BDSM community. I remember being so nervous. I had never dated or anything before that day. I was happy when I read an erotic novel and found the term BDSM and went down the rabbit hole. All the years I would have dreams and desires not understanding and thinking I was alone. I was 30 years old and started researching on AOL, Yahoo chat, the great websites at the time. To find the munch group and got my scene name from my email address. So nervous to meet at the munch group, Only about 5 of us were there that night being right after Christmas. I was so happy and excited and felt like I finally found home and people that would accept me and welcome me. 

 

The lifestyle was fun and learned a lot but also wasn't the greatest as I would jump into things and the 7.5 years I was active did expereince abuse that still scares me today. I have triggers but also realize this is who I am and can't just be vanilla. I have missed being active in the lifestyle and miss my BDSM family. One day hope to find the right partners and get back to being active again. 

 

I call this my BDSM birthday.  And glad I found it. Just more cautious now.


10/30/2022 7:36:43 AM

I have been single a long time. I have many interests and desires. I am also complicated. I desire contol to stay safe, to be heard and respected. Although would love to be able to trust and know that I am safe as well as feel I matter and I am important. I crave to have a comittment and to be desired. I am wish to be able to lactate and feed my future partner or partners. I desire a deep bond. I am sexually more submissive but also like it my way. Finding the right balance has been hard to find. 


4/3/2022 9:32:23 AM

The type of control I am seeking I want to know where he is at all times, what he is doing as well as who he is with I will control how he wear his hair, how much hair he has all over his body, what tattoos or piercings I with him to have, how I wish I want his body is to be, what goes into his body, and what he wears what he drinks, when I allow him to use the restroom and how I want him to do so How he spends his free time Once married I control he email and other accounts I have access to and control Even when at work with technology he needs to ask permission If and when he has doctors appointments I go with him and have full access When he is in and out of chastity and how and when he is allowed to cum and where as well how he is to orgasm I do want a husband with love and such but also have full control


3/8/2018 7:11:35 AM
Seeking a gentleman. Don't need cock shots sent to me unless I ask for them. Respect is expected. Prefer men 38-52. Has good manners and knows how to treat a Lady. Be in the USA and US citizen. Not interested in online play or relationship. Looking for real time life long commitment.

12/10/2017 7:53:34 AM
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 99% Master/Mistress 89% Dominant 77% Owner 68% Primal (Prey) 67% Voyeur 64% Exhibitionist 63% Rigger 59% Switch 58% Vanilla 57% Submissive 53% Non-monogamist 50% Rope bunny 36% Brat 34% Experimentalist 14% Pet 3% Boy/Girl 3% Ageplayer 1% Masochist 0% Slave 0% Degradee http://bdsmtest.org/r/7014073

5/25/2017 4:38:53 PM
Just a FYI to Me in My opinion a slave gives up all control and rights to his owner. This includes his sexuality. He will only have rights I allow and choose for him. I am not interest in feminizing or cross dressing a man at all.

11/21/2016 12:09:00 PM
One thing after talking seeing if we are even a bit compatible and ask about being controlled and beg to serve. If you can't show me you can be devoted, lotal, obedient with simple tasks hard for me to believe you can do it even in Real life. Also not into a man feminizing at all. Just isn't my thing not is me being a Mommy to a grown man, if it is your thing great again not my thing at all.

11/21/2016 12:04:08 PM
I have been pretty upfront that I seek marriage even to the front profile picture. Yes I realize that we need to meet and make sure there is a connection but the goal the whole time is marriage lifelong legally binding contract. Funny how do many male slaves claim they want even need to be controlled and female led yet don't really want it to be the way the Female wants it.

7/30/2016 7:51:01 AM
I just don't get it. Get to talking to someone seem to be hitting it off. Him saying that I am perfect, sounds great, is what I am seeking. Yet they just stop talking. Then come on here and see that they have been on. No talking, to working things out not even look I don't think we are compatible best of luck for these guys just ignored. Why lie and then just disappear? I am not looking to play games I seek something real. Please be real as well and if no longer interested just say best of luck.

12/20/2015 1:06:40 PM
I do realize that we all have lives outside of this website. I mention in my profile that I love a lot of communication. I have taken about a two month break from the site and recently came back. I also realize we all can't be compatible with each other. I have enjoyed commication with potential slave that say they are interested. When we move over to a chat forum though I am seeing it as the next step. It is much easier as well as faster then countless emails. It seems though we talk for a bit and then disappear. I am looking for action rather then words when they say they need to be micromanaged and controlled. I want to feel and know they wish to live that life and only talking every few days doesn't cut it with me. For me it shows that they are not ready for what they seek.if you can't stay interested enough to wish to talk to me and really want to try to serve me then show it. A couple times a day word from you that you are still interested or just politely say I wish you the best. After saying that I do want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.

7/9/2015 6:02:22 AM
Have been getting a lot of messages from others outside the United States and I just wanted to say I am not looking for anyone outside the U.S. Not looking to move out of the country nor looking to host anyone to live here. Best of luck in your search

4/28/2015 5:50:05 PM
Sorry to the guys into cross dressing it isn't something I am into. Good luck in finding what you seek. Just isn't my kink. Also want to add will not open the email. Don't wish to waste your time or mine.

2/11/2015 8:13:13 AM
I am getting increasingly frustrated on all the guys saying they want and need to be control say how much they want to be with me want to talk about how it is all supposed to be if they serve me. I tell them we talk on here or kik, skype or hangouts for a while. They want TPE and yes to a point I know it takes time but just stop talking not being honest. Just wanting to get off and live mentally is great but could actually have the real thing. If you get scared or not seeing it happening after a while at least be a man and say so. Instead of ignoring or blocking. If I have done that I am sorry. I try to at least say it isn't working out and wish people luck.

6/14/2013 4:18:20 PM
Something I don't get in either the BDSM lifestyle or vanilla married males and I am sure married females as well. They make vows, the make a legal commitment and turn around and cheat on their unsuspecting spouses. If you married the wrong person and so unhappy in your sex life then get divorced. Cheating sucks. I hope when and if I ever get marries it takes work although I have a high sex drive I don't imagine saying no but if I did I would be fucked anyways. I don't understand why sex is great but once a ring is placed on the left ring finger and suddenly the sex life goes down the tubes. Yes once having kids it may have to wait until they are in bed but why give up the sex life. It is a way of bonding with your spouse. It is becoming one. Marriages don't work out mostly because of money and sex. If one doesn't like sex then don't marry someone that doesn't it will fail. It is at least one thing that is free and better to keep your spouse at home rather then straining. It it is something that has been agreed upon in one's marriage to go outside cool at least the spouse knows and has a say. If not then it is just cheating and low. Another thing I don't get is lifestylers marrying vanilla. Yes some might be willing if you actually open up. Some are disgusted. Would think that conversation would seriously be talked about way before even proposing. It is hiding who and what you are. You are lying to yourself and to your partner. Could save either o e misery with communication. If you aren't compatible sexually better to do before you make a commitment rather than years of resentment and pain.

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MistressSayta
 
 Age: 30
 Pasadena, California