Yes.. My "identifier" on here is submissive. That does not mean slave. I am free, and, therefore, have the right to decide who earns my respect, obedience, time, or effort.
I am technically a switch. I changed it because I am primarily submissive to the men in my life, and REALLY tired of all the do me sub males on here trying to get me to dominate them.
I will be deferential and respectful to dominant men as long as they do not give me reason to be otherwise. I will be generally respectful to dominant free women (same caveats apply), however, I am unlikely to submit or defer to you. Please just accept that and don't push the issue.
💀 Before you message me, bear in mind that I'm not going to carry the conversation for you, and you should have at least read enough of my profile to see if we even have anything in common on which to base a conversation, and to make sure you aren't asking me questions which are already answered here. I put a lot of time and effort into making a profile that tells you who I am and what I'm about. At least be willing to put in the small effort of a few minutes reading before sending me a message based only on my gender, location, or pictures.
💀 I HATE "text speak" (how ru, wat u up2, etc). I like proper spelling, grammar, and intelligent conversation.
💀 Don't message me with requests or invitations for sex, kink, telling me that you're horny, discussions about my or your sexual habits/desires/fantasies, or anything else that would be inappropriate to say to a random woman in person. In other words, approach me as a human being, not a fetish/sex dispenser, prostitute, or object on display for your viewing pleasure.
The only exception to this is if you are sending me a message to enquire about a pro session with me, in which case, you should politely let me know you are interested in a session, and I will send you additional information.
💀 I do not appreciate being addressed by strangers with "pet names", such as dear, darling, baby, babe, honey, sweetie, girl, etc. If we haven't established that kind of interaction, then DON'T DO IT! I also despise being addressed as "Miss".
💀 I'm NOT here to look for "The One", a relationship, dates, or hookups with men. If we talk and get to know one another, based on mutual (non sexual) interests and something develops, that's one thing, but if you're male identified and here to find sex or a relationship, or if you want to strike up a "friendship" with the goal of "something developing", you may as well move along, because I'm not the droid you're looking for. 💀 I don't use Skype, kik, or any instant messaging application, other than Hangouts - BY CHOICE. I will not give you any of my personal contact information on here until and unless we have talked here long enough for me to determine that I wish to take our communication beyond this site. We can get to know one another just fine on here - unless you're looking for a hookup, in which case, see above. 💀 I'm not interested in helping you get your visa or otherwise facilitating your entry to my country. Even if I wanted to, I don't have any money, so you're barking up the wrong tree.
💀 At this time, I am only "actively" looking for a female slave.
I may also consider a male sub or slave to help with heavier domestic and manual labour.
If you are male and wish to submit to me in any other capacity, you may respectfully ask me about professional sessions.
Would be slaves who are interested in serving me should read this before contacting me. Those who do not will be ignored or rebuffed, depending on my mood at the time.
I am not interested in so called slaves who do not follow directions.
💀 I am not seeking additional romantic relationships with men, and have no desire to cohabit with anyone.
💀 I also am not interested in giving up my freedom, so if you're looking for a slave, I'm not it. I am generally submissive (ie: deferential and respectful) to strong, dominant men who have earned my respect. I will actively submit to and obey men with whom I am in a romantic relationship or within negotiated D/s dynamics. That is as far as it goes. If you aren't my dom, I don't have to obey you. End of.
🌟I am open to new, female play partners and potential dating, and possibly also BDSM play with a strong D/s and service aspect, with the right male dom(s). (Please Note: BDSM play ≠ "kinky sex") I have a primary dominant, however, he is across the country at the moment, and I am allowed to play with others as I choose, as long as his rules are respected.
🌟 Now, if you're still reading, on to the actual, "About Me" bit...
I'm curvy, sexy and adventurous & bi. I have long, curly/wavy auburn hair and beautiful brown eyes. I'm into music more than anything else, whether it's making it, listening to it, thinking about it or talking about it. Music is the one thing in the world that, without which, I think I would just shrivel up and cease to exist. I listen to about anything but my passion is metal! Melodic death, black metal, power metal, Viking metal, thrash, speed, operatic/symphonic/epic metal...All things metal!
Some favorite bands in no particular order: In Flames; Samael; Opeth; Blind Guardian; Nightwish; Angra; Arch Enemy; Dissection; Lacuna Coil; Emperor; Nile; Dark Tranquillity; At The Gates; Bal Sagoth; Savatage; Children of Bodom; The Haunted; Sonata Arctica; The Crown; Abandoned; Demons & Wizards; Iced Earth; Edge of Sanity; Soilwork; Jag Panzer; Hammerfall; Sinergy; Haggard; Cynic; Nocturnal Rites; Symphony X; Old Man's Child; Killswitch Engage; Entombed; Death; Angel Dust; Manowar; Rhapsody; Epica; Within Temptation; Theatre of Tragedy; Carcass; Gardenian; Gandalf; Chastisement; Borknagar; Naglfar; Enter My Silence; Internal Bleeding; Dimmu Borgir; Ceremonial Castings; Gift of Prophecy; Dragonforce; Cradle of Filth; Raventhrone; Sentenced; Virgin Steele; Kamelot; Einherjer; Leaves Eyes... There are a lot more, and that's only the metal!
Here is an equally incomplete list of some of my non-metal favorites, again, in no particular order: Heather Alexander/Alexander James Adams; The Mamas and Papas; Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young; Peter, Paul & Mary; Kansas; Led Zeppelin; Black Sabbath; Pink Floyd; El Debarge; Madonna (her older stuff, anyway); Simon & Garfunkle; Mortis; Run DMC; Fat Boys; Doug E. Fresh; Shania Twain; Garth Brooks; Randy Travis; DVDA; Bangles, Karen Carpenter; John Denver; Savege Garden; Gaia Consort; Allison Crowe; Enya; Loreena McKennitt; The Real McKenzies; The Wicked Tinkers; The Dropkick Murphys; Whitesnake; Bon Jovi; White Lion; Ravi Shankar; Robbie Robertson; David & Steve Gordon; Ice Cube; Beastie Boys; Jonathan Coulton (I just discovered him and I am TOTALLY hooked!!)... And a TON more that I can't think of offhand or that are individual songs rather than the artist in general. I dig country, classical, opera, oldies, folk, old skool rap, R&B, celtic, native, and .. well.. pretty much everything other than most "alternative", grunge, gangsta rap and modern pop.
There is more to my life than music... I guess ;)
I tend to be a bit of an introvert.
This isn't to say that I don't like people.. On the contrary, I love people, as long as it's in moderation. I can be very social and a total "people person" for a reasonable period of time, but then I need to go isolate in my cave for a while and get my solitude fix, which can last for hours, days, weeks or sometimes months. A lot of people don't like that about me and feel I'm antisocial or that I am "abandoning" them, but that's just the way I am, and those who are worth my time will be able to accept that.
I am very open minded and respectful of almost any/all beliefs, but do not tolerate hate or bigotry in any form at all in my presence. Pretty much the only parts of any belief systems I have a problem with are the idea that everyone else is wrong and anything that harms others.
As for my own beliefs, they are many and varied.
I believe in living in accordance with nature, not trying to subvert or quash either the Earth/environment or my or others' natural tendencies in order to fit in with whatever the current societal standard is.
I believe that there are very few truly "bad" people in the world and that the majority of people (and other beings) that commit harmful acts are doing so because they don't know how to do otherwise. I am committed to doing all that I can to raise awareness and help as many as possible to learn to be beneficial members of the population. That said, I am not so naive as to believe that those who present a danger to others should be allowed free reign to cause harm just because they don't know any better.
I believe in taking personal responsibility for all my actions and feel that the world would be a better place if everyone else took responsibility for their own actions too.
My spiritual path is very eclectic, encompassing many elements from my Scottish/Norse, Irish and Cherokee heritage, as well as traditions, beliefs and practices from other North American tribes and various Eastern philosophies.
I am passionate about educating people in general about all manner of things, and especially subjects that are often misunderstood. I believe that the biggest key to combating the majority of the world's ills is education! I feel that most prejudice is a pretty direct result of ignorance and the spread of misinformation, whether it is about gender identity, sexual orientation, "alternative lifestyles", music, animals, addiction, mental illness, self harm, domestic violence, other cultures or anything else.
I love all animals and have been involved in animal rescue in one form or another for much of my teens and all of my adult life. I've worked with everything from mice and birds to wolves and snakes and all manner of creatures in between! Our house has pretty much always been like a combination animal shelter and zoo, what with rescued and foster cats, dogs and assorted small wildlife critters.
I am active in local Sex Positive community and volunteer for several organizations. I present workshops on various subjects from effective communication, to consensual slavery, decorative scarification and more.
I am poly, kinky and bi and don't believe that love or affection are finite resources. I find that the more I embrace sharing the love (and no, I am not just talking about sex here), the more I appreciate everyone in my life. As for sex, while I'm not opposed to casual sex, I tend to require that there be some real form of spiritual, emotional and/or intellectual connection in addition to simple physical/chemical attraction in order to really be sexually attracted to someone.
Consent, honesty, mindfulness and integrity are words to live by in my world.
Things that I enjoy: Photography (from both sides of the camera), riding (horses and bikes), camping, hottubbing, swimming & wandering around in the woods, Gorean philosophy, philosophy in general, reading, writing, movies ...
I feel some of the finest pleasures in life are luxuriating in smoking good cigars, relaxing in a long, hot, scented bath, sensual touch, getting or giving a massage, erotic power exchange, partaking of and offering warm, red wine, drinking excellent, organic coffee and just sitting back and reveling in all that the universe has to offer.
I am a Gorean, vocalist, writer of poetry, lyrics, erotica and commentary, a professional geek, minister, soap maker, herbalist, friend, lover and worshipper of life in all it's greatness.
BDSM Interests: Into D/s, bondage, fear/terror play(mindfuck), knifeplay, fireplay, breath control, cuttings, hair pulling, biting, Thuddy toys :) electricity(TENS/Violet wands), flogging, bloodplay, Hot Ash/Cigar play, forced smoking, The usual hard limits.
Who I'd like to meet: People who are open minded, rigorously honest, loving (to all!), free thinking, open to new explorations of mind, body and soul, erotic and sensual, creative, expressive, passionate and in love with life, living and all the possibilities contained therein.
I am NOT interested in "cybering" or phone sex and not into casual fucking without a basis of at least friendship.
It appears I need to reiterate the honesty part of this.. That means that if you are interested in "discreet" play, or "you're "poly" but your s/o doesn't know it" (that's called cheating!), please don't bother contacting me. I will not engage in dishonest or deceitful activities.
You should message me if...
You are capable of and willing to send an actual message that contains some content, other than immediate requests for or leading with sex or kink, at least an attempt at passable spelling, grammar, and punctuation, and does not contain text speak. Honestly, if you can't take the extra few moments to type out an introduction and decent message, how in the world am I to believe you'd take the time to get to know me beyond, "hey baby u want 2 get kinky sexy?"
You are open minded, rigorously honest, loving (to all!), free thinking, open to new explorations of mind, body and soul, erotic and sensual, creative, expressive, passionate and in love with life, living and all the possibilities contained therein.
You're a geek.
you're a Metalhead.
You are self confident or are striving to become more so.
You don't care for social mores or taboos.
You are easily amused or entertained and/or you like girls who are.
You're Gorean or interested in Gorean philosophies.
You are FEMALE, and seeking a strict, but loving and nurturing mistress to serve, please and obey. READ THIS: http://blog.goreanliving.com/2010/04/seeking-slave.htmlin FULL before contacting me if you wish to serve me.
You want to play cool card/board games with me!
(I have lots of them.. Just need the opponents!)
You're NOT interested in "cybering" or phone sex and not into casual fucking without a basis of at least friendship (well, okay, you can be into it, but not with me).
You are NOT interested in "discreet" play,
You're NOT "poly, but your s/o doesn't know it" (that's called cheating!).
You are not interested in engaging in any dishonest or deceitful activities.
You just feel like messaging me (as long as the previous 4 apply to you as well)
12/31/2016 7:45:12 AM
Ooook look! A failed "negging" attempt! The offender's username has been changed, of course, to comply with TOU. His username indicates that he's a "tiger", so I decided to stick with something (kind of) close. :D
LoserLiger on 1/3/17 at 2:07 AM:
I tried to get through your profile, but in all honesty the overwhelming negativity of it was a bit of a turn off for me. I am 100% confidant you're not interested in any friendly advice from me, but I'm going to give it anyway: Rewrite your profile and instead of making it 99% about what you don't like, what you won't do, etc., etc., and instead show us the best of yourself and your personality. I find you physically/sexually attractive, and I can tell you're intelligent, but the profile SCREAMS "I'm not a happy person and you won't be either if you pick me." As a musician, my best tool/attribute is my ear, and I'm hearing a LOT of frustration, anger, and unhappiness in your 10,000 word "manifesto." (chuckle) Whether you're looking for a Dom, a sex partner, or even just a friend - people are attracted by the darkness, but they stick around for the light. I hope 2017 is great for you - you deserve it. (hugs you warmly and then strolls back into the green tiger* jungle)
*(not his user name)
KhaosWolfKat on 1/3/17 at 6:21 PM:
Well hello there, and thanks for giving me what you were 100% confident I wouldn't be interested in! I could say something snarky about potential consent issues, however, I figured I'd keep this all friendly like. Funny thing is, my profiles USED to be mostly about what I do want. That was before being inundated with literally hundreds of messages from asshats who inspired the very rules/warnings you see today. I definitely have noticed some decline in messages from men since changing my approach, and I get a FAR more positive response from other women with my current profile, which is handy, since, as my profile clearly states, I am only seeking women!
I'm not putting myself out there in hopes that someone will "pick me". I have the profile there to weed out those who aren't worth my time at all, and to provide information upfront to anyone who wants to read that far.
I think you need to get your virtual ear calibrated, cause I'm a pretty happy person! I was happy as a single person, I'm happy as a poly partnered person and I'll be happy whether or not this profile lands me the perfect slave girl. I don't have time to waste on anger, resentment, or the like. There's far too much awesome in the world to exeprience.
2017 has only just started, so there's lots of room for all the greatness I expect.
Cheers, ~ Khaos
LoserLiger on 1/4/17 at 6:24 AM:
You're all I thought you'd be and even less. (lol) Keep believing that, but no one balloons up to 300 lbs. and writes all that negative bullshit and then is cool to hang out with - it's why you can't connect one-on-one in a fulfilling relationship and are regulated to poly - you're just a side peace. Enjoy being passed around, passed by, and passed over - you'll never be the alpha you're pretending to be. (chuckle) I gave it a shot, but honesty doesn't seem to penetrate your arrogant, fat layer of (zzzzzzzzz) uh... "khaos." (snicker)
I tried to reply and discovered.....
"User has blocked you, mail not sent"
What a shocker!! Y'all get to read it anyway, cause I didn't want my snarky wit (mileage may vary) to go to waste! :D LOL.
Awww.. That's so precious, sweetie! You've been watching those PUA videos that promised you their tactics work, haven't you?
I'm so sorry they lied to you.
The "subtle" negging didn't work, soooo.. cue the butthurt insults. We went from, "I find you physically/sexually attractive", to fat, arrogant, passed over, etc. What a surprise! I called that one. To be fair, calling it isn't worth much when y'all are so predictable. Better luck next time, sparky.
Toodles, ~ Khaos
8/15/2016 5:02:45 PM
Yes, I changed my label to "submissive". That does not mean that I am a *slave* again or that it is suddenly open season. I am free, and, therefore, have the right to decide who earns my respect, obedience, time, or effort.
I am still, technically, a switch. I changed it because I am primarily submissive to the men in my life, and REALLY tired of all the do me sub males on here trying to get me to dominate them. I'm not interested! I have a wonderful male slave. He serves well. I do not want any other male subs or slaves. I will gladly consider female slaves or submissives for play or more.
I will be deferential and respectful to dominant men as long as they do not give me reason to be otherwise. I will be generally respectful to dominant free women (same caveats apply), however, I am unlikely to submit to you. Please just accept that and don't push the issue.
11/7/2011 9:58:10 AM
What is it with so many blank profiles?
Here's a tip, people...
The purpose of creating a profile on a place like this is to give potential (whatever you are looking for) a good idea of who you are, what you are like, what makes you tick, and what you are looking for in more specific terms than "looking 2 serve a fem dominate", or "male slave up 4 anytyhing u like".
I understand that many people have valid reasons for not including a photo, but there is no good reason for not filling out your profile. It's just lazy!
Try actually including some useful information about yourself beyond physical description or genital size; Things like your interests (not just kinky ones), things you like to do for entertainment, what experience you have in terms of service (or whatever your allege to be looking to provide), what characteristics you are looking for in a partner/dom/owner/slave/sub/whatever, and the like.
Try to paint a picture of who you are.
I, for one, am not interested in playing with or forming a relationship with a list of measurements and kinks. I'm looking for a fully developed person!
I'm certain I am not alone in this.
I'm not saying everyone ought to go crazy with the profile info like some (ahem - cough coughguiltycough), but at least make a decent effort!
4/24/2010 4:06:50 PM
Playtime, Fun & Service - More of what to expect in my collar.
This a list of many of the things I enjoy and will commonly expect from you/will do to you.
As you have, no doubt, figured out, if you have read my, "Seeking a slave", post and the "Slave Rules" post, I am, in many ways, very strict, and expect full obedience and service from my slaves. That does not mean we won't have fun!
As with the rules list, this is in no particular order, for the most part. I am adding things as I think of them.
Let's just get this out of the way right now... I am a sadist with a very twisted sense of humour! (I have references) That said, I will ALWAYS take great care to avoid doing any actual harm to my slaves or subs.
I will take great delight in confusing, confounding, teasing, titillating, frightening, infuriating, frustrating, and otherwise fucking with you for my amusement.
I love to make a grown man or woman cry. It will please and amuse me to make you hate me even while you betray yourself by begging for more, thanking me when it is over, and being eager for the next time.
That said, I WILL NOT leave any doubt as to whether I am genuinely displeased with you. Ever. Period! If you are being truly punished, I will tell you. You will also always know why you are being punished. I may not tell you immediately, and will often make you work to figure it out, because I feel that is more likely to make a lesson stick, but I will make damn sure that it is clear by the end of the day, at the latest. As a former slave, I have been in the position of knowing I was displeasing, and knowing I was being punished, but not understanding what I did/was doing wrong. It is a horrible feeling and serves no purpose, and I will not subject any slave of mine to that!
Now that we have that out of the way, on to more fun (and some mundane) stuff!
Being my slave will not all be fun and games, nor will it always be high protocol. Sometimes I may just want to converse with you. Though we will not converse as equals, I don't want to be stiff and formal all the time either. I like a slave who has his or her own opinions, can hold up their end of a debate, and show me their fiery spirit, all whilst maintaining their proper place as a slave. Show me you can do that, and I will be pleased!
On any given day that you are with me, you may be expected to clean house, move furniture, work on fixit projects, cook and/or serve me meals, perform for my amusement, massage me, or any number of other things.
When dining, I might seat you beside or across from me and expect you to behave as a conventional dining companion, or I may just keep you at my feet and make you beg or do tricks for scraps, which I will feed you by hand, or toss to you. Maybe you will even eat from a pan on the floor, forbidden to use your hands. As with all things, it will be according to my whim.
I am a rather avid cigar smoker. When I am enjoying a cigar, you will attend me as I desire. That may mean bringing what I require, and then making yourself scarce, unless summoned, or it may mean serving as my ashtray, footstool, and toy, massaging or otherwise servicing my feet, sexually pleasuring me; Or anything in between. You will, at times, be expected to accompany me to cigar meetups, where you will conduct yourself with proper decorum in a manner which will make me proud, and incite envy among my peers, but will not non-consensually involve others in our D/s dynamic.
In fact, that will be true of many situations when you are accompanying me out and about, in non kink situations.
I enjoy things like playing fetch with a slave, or putting slaves in competitive games with one another for the amusement of those watching. A few things that come to mind:
Wrestling.. Oil and/or nudity possible.
Races, with or without paddles, whips, etc as "encouragement"... sack races, 3 legged races, kinky relay races.. All those "kid games", but all grown up!
Contests of will.. such as seeing which slave can delay orgasm the longest, while other slaves or free do their best to make you lose control.
Slave rodeo games.
I'm sure I can think of LOTS more!
I have 20+ years of experience in various BDSM activities, and enjoy a WIDE range of things, both from the top and bottom perspective. That means that I am just as likely to be on a rack being worked over by someone at an event as I am to be working YOU over. In fact, There may well be times that I put a nice, thuddy flogger, or other delicious implements in your hands and direct you to have a go at me until I tire of it. (or until you are genuinely unable to continue without risk to my property). Make no mistake, however... This in NO way alters our dynamic. I am in charge. Again.. my slave exists to please me, regardless of what it is that may be pleasing to me at any given moment in time.
I do take pleasure in doing things that I know will make my slave happy, so I will definitely make a point of incorporating play that I know you will enjoy. Sometimes I like to surprise a slave with something completely unexpected. Well.. Okay.. I USUALLY like to do that, but once in a while, the surprise will be specifically calculated to delight the slave.
This posting is a work in progress, and will be added to from time to time as I think of things to add to it.
Questions and comments, especially ones that might help me make this post more comprehensive are more than welcome!
4/24/2010 4:04:39 PM
"Slave Rules" - A somewhat meandering list of what to expect in my collar.
I included a good deal of information in my, "seeking a slave", post, but, it occurs to me that there is SOOO much more information to impart than what that post contains. So, for those who wish more information, here it is!
Now, of course, there is no way to include each and every nuance of what life in my collar will be like, but I CAN supply a pretty comprehensive list of the basics and beyond. Some things will be negotiable; Some will not. Many are sure to require effort on my part and that of the slave to implement, as habits take time to form, just as much as to break. This list is not in any particular order, and there will be overlap from the other postings. This post contains rules, mainly. This post contains more information about things to expect.
First and foremost: Take proper care of my property!
I will be informed, fully and promptly of any and all health/safety issues (illness, injury, concerns, etc.).
You will follow ALL of your doctor's and other medical professional's orders and recommendations as regards your health and safety. We will make certain that your providers are kink aware and friendly, so this can be done properly.
You will maintain a healthy diet, which will include at least two well balanced meals per day.
Note that this does not mean that you will be put on "a diet" or have the amount of food you eat restricted (except in the case of food addiction or other necessary health reasons, as meted out by your health care providers), but you will not be allowed to eat a steady diet of junk food, processed foods and fast food. Those things will be allowed only in moderation.
Your primary purpose is to please me.
You will strive to be pleasing and obedient to all free persons, within my rules and limits.
Even if you are unable to be pleasing and obedient, due to circumstances beyond your control (I do realise that some people are simply impossible to please, and/or refuse to respect the wishes of a slave's owner.), you will remain deferential and respectful, and will always promptly apologise when you have been found displeasing, REGARDLESS of whether it is reasonable. I will help you learn to balance personal safety and maintaining your place.
Once the collar goes on, you will have no "rights". None! This is very important to understand! All privileges will be dispensed or removed at my whim.
Yes, you are human and have needs, and I consider it my duty to see to it that those needs are met, but I do not owe a slave anything, and my slave will remember that.. at the end of a lash, if necessary.
You will be at my beck and call at all times.
I will not interfere with your work or family obligations, which is why you will keep me informed and up to date, with regard to your schedule, at all times. I have priority over non preplanned, non-family, social plans or outings, so if you schedule something without my okay, it will be your own fault if you have to cancel. I will not make you cancel plans with family, but if it is a non-emergency thing and I was not informed, you will be punished. Keep this in mind. All it takes is a quick message to me, letting me know you want to do something. I am very reasonable about these things, as long as you follow my directions.
You will be expected to make certain that there is time in your schedule to spend at least a day or two a week with me, possibly overnight.
This does NOT obligate me to spend that amount of time with you. You exist to please and serve me, not the other way 'round. Never forget this.
If you have children, they are your Number ONE Priority, at all times, no matter what!
This trumps the previous two rules. If I EVER find that you have neglected your children's needs, for any avoidable reason, there will be hell to pay! This is completely NON NEGOTIABLE and is something likely to cause me to dismiss you from my service in disgrace, without hesitation.
When we are together, you will beg permission for most things. This includes, but is not limited to, eating, drinking, smoking, putting on or removing clothing, including outerwear, or anything which requires you to leave my presence, however briefly.
The manner in which you will be expected to beg will depend on the circumstances and present company. For instance, in kink friendly situations, you will kneel and beg as an abject slave. In public, you will more likely ask politely to be excused or use codes or non verbal signals, which I will provide you with.
You will provide me with detailed information about your fantasies, fears, and desires, so that I may more precisely tailor playtime with you and understand what makes you tick.
I often enjoy making a slave's fantasies come true. There are times that pleasing you will please me, and you are responsible for helping me to do that, when I so desire.
you will be expected to keep a journal, in which you will be permitted to express anything at all, in any fashion you wish, without fear of punishment.
I will have access to said journal, but may or may not read it regularly. If there are entries that you specifically wish me to read, you will need to direct my attention to it and beg me to read it.
This posting is a work in progress, and will be added to from time to time as I think of things to add to it.
Questions and comments, especially ones that might help me make this post more comprehensive are more than welcome!